I see myself as child

[jacknine119]

I've almost solved people pleasing, but i always see myself as child. Relationship with adult was always hard for me and i was shy. And my appearance is also childish and maybe this is reason. What can i do about this guys? Is it familiar for you?

[Nightwise]

Do you feel that changing yourself or things about yourself is the way forward, or do you feel perhaps a strong need to just fully embrace yourself as you are? Or maybe you feel like you want to strike some sort of balance? What is your initial hunch about what you feel may need to happen?

Edited October 14 by Nightwise

[mmKay]

You see yourself as a child because you see yourself as a child

 

Adopt the identity of an adult and you will slowly mold into the beliefs and actions of an adult

Wear a wristband to remind yourself the affirmation " I am and adult " 

Bonus points for defining " what is an adult? How does an adult behave ? How does an adult not behave? How does an adult think?

 

As you consistently think about it ,you will slowly change how you think and behave. It will become who you are

 

Human beings always act, feel and think in accordance with what they believe to be true about themselves and the world
 

 

Edited October 14 by mmKay

[Hojo]

@jacknine119 Have a kid.

Nothing wrong with being a kid as an adult unless you want to change. Just be a kid and take your responsibilities seriously.

Edited October 14 by Hojo