Is Social Media Ruining Relationships?

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

You really do not understand what I’m trying to say. I forgive the person, but they should not need to do it again.

What do you care if they do a million times more? 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

What do you care if they do a million times more? 

If you’re trying to be funny, please don’t, because it’s not working. I have already told you why, and still, you feel the need to joke about it.

[Salvijus]

4 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I have already told you why

You mean the example with rape? So you care in order to help. Fine. But even then frustration is not necessary, you can do it out of love and care. 

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[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

You mean the example with rape? So you care in order to help. Fine. But even then frustration is not necessary, you can do it out of love and care. 

Frustration comes with love.

[Salvijus]

Just now, Spiritual Warfare said:

Frustration comes with love.

Frustration comes with inability to accept something. 

Love is acceptance. 

These two are the opposite. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

Frustration comes with inability to accept something. 

Love is acceptance. 

These two are the opposite. 

Love is not always about accepting wrong things. It is also about upholding righteous things.

[Salvijus]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It is also about upholding righteous/virtuous things.

And frustration/condemnation is not one of them. 

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[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

And frustration/condemnation is not one of them. 

It is. If you see something that frustrates you and you want to help for the better, that’s love.

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It is. If you see something that frustrates you and you want to help for the better, that’s love.

Frustration is desire to kill not to heal tho. 

[Salvijus]

5 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It is. If you see something that frustrates you and you want to help for the better, that’s love.

You can't create peace unless you're in peace yourself. Using frustration as a basis for action is not love but ego judgement and hard cope at play. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

Frustration is desire to kill not to heal tho. 

It’s obvious you don’t know what you’re talking about. Frustration does not kill. If you saw a woman being raped, you would get frustrated, and this frustration can help heal her trauma.

[Salvijus]

6 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It’s obvious you don’t know what you’re talking about. Frustration does not kill. If you saw a woman being raped, you would get frustrated, and this frustration can help heal her trauma.

You never had frustration towards the woman is why she got helped. 

But you "killed" a raper by condemning him. What about compassion towards a sexual abuser? Did the abuser got helped and healed by your condemnation towards him? 

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[Spiritual Warfare]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

You never had frustration towards the woman is why she got helped. 

But you "killed" a raper by condemning him. What about compassion towards a sexual abuser? Did the abuser got helped and healed by your condemnation towards him? 

Stop with the spiritual crap you doing, I could forgive both but that does not mean that the actions should take place again, I already told you this

[Spiritual Warfare]

@Salvijus If you saw someone going in the wrong direction, any normal person would help guide them in the right direction. It’s not about hating the person.

[Salvijus]

3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

@Salvijus If you saw someone going in the wrong direction, any normal person would help guide them in the right direction. It’s not about hating the person.

That would be a compassionate thing to do, yes. But frustration indicates condemnation and hate and desire to kill. It's not love. 

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[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

That would be a compassionate thing to do, yes. But frustration indicates condemnation and hate and desire to kill. 

It doesn’t. You’re only looking at it from a narrow perspective, and that’s why you think that way.

[Salvijus]

5 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It doesn’t. You’re only looking at it from a narrow perspective, and that’s why you think that way.

Your counter argument was the rape example. And I debunked that by showing how frustration towards the abuser was of no help to him. The compassion was partial. It was only towards the woman. So it worked to that extent only. 

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[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

Your counter argument was the rape example. And I debunked that by showing how frustration towards the abuser helped was of no help to him. The compassion was partial. It was only towards the woman. So it worked to that extent only. 

You didn’t debunk anything. All you said was that it would kill the rapist, which is not true.

[Salvijus]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

You didn’t debunk anything. All you said was that it would kill the rapist, which is not true.

I demonstrated how frustration towards abuser was of no healing effect towards him. So your argument that frustration can help got debunked. A woman was not helped by frustration but by compassion. There was no frustration towards her. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

I demonstrated how frustration towards abuser was of no healing effect towards him. So your argument that frustration can help got debunked. A woman was not helped by frustration but by compassion. There was no frustration towards her. 

You’re wrong again! I had frustration towards both people.

Love involves care, support, and wanting the best for someone, which sometimes leads to frustration when things go wrong or when behavior is harmful. Frustration can be a sign of love because it shows a desire for improvement or positive change. Love is not just blind acceptance, it also involves setting boundaries, addressing issues, and helping someone grow. Therefore, frustration and love can coexist. I’m tired of explaining this to you over and over again.