Is Social Media Ruining Relationships?

[Spiritual Warfare]

@Buck Edwards Good that you’re leaving since all you wanted to do was accuse me of hating women instead of discussing the real issue. And ironically, you didn’t seem very upset about my previous comment on “women should know their place,” but now suddenly you are, interesting.

[Buck Edwards]

3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

@Buck Edwards Good that you’re leaving since all you wanted to do was accuse me of hating women instead of discussing the real issue. And ironically, you didn’t seem very upset about my previous comment on “women should know their place,” but now suddenly you are, interesting.

I'm not upset at all even with this thread. Because real world matters, not all this fussy online talk. In the real world real men focus on the women they want and settle with them, they don't go around looking and wondering what other women are doing with their lives. I guess you watch this video before making threads on women lmfao. Men who live in their illusory bubble only want reality to be different and they will keep wishing it. 

 

[Spiritual Warfare]

12 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I'm not upset at all even with this thread. Because real world matters, not all this fussy online talk. In the real world real men focus on the women they want and settle with them, they don't go around looking and wondering what other women are doing with their lives. I guess you watch this video before making threads on women lmfao. Men who live in their illusory bubble only want reality to be different and they will keep wishing it. 

 

Listen very carefully, I don’t hate you or any women. I’m glad that you have a healthy relationship and not a bad one. What I said was just that I don’t think it’s okay in a relationship for either a guy or a girl to post sexy pictures daily for other people’s attention. It should be enough that they have each other, and that should be sufficient love and validation.

And yes, I focused a lot on women doing this, but the fact is that women make up the majority in this case, and that’s why I was mainly referring to girls in my post. However, I really do not hate women. I may have a lot of rules for certain things that can lead some women, like you, for example, to see me as controlling or hating women. But believe it or not, for some other women, this isn’t seen as controlling at all! Many actually see it as a good rule because it proves that they can respect each other’s feelings.

And I made a post about religion, as you know, where I said it should be done away with because of its poor treatment of women and desire to kill homosexuals and things like that. Yet, I still got a lot of hate for it too. It’s unbelievable.

[Buck Edwards]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Listen very carefully, I don’t hate you or any women. I’m glad that you have a healthy relationship and not a bad one. What I said was just that I don’t think it’s okay in a relationship for either a guy or a girl to post sexy pictures daily for other people’s attention. It should be enough that they have each other, and that should be sufficient love and validation.

And yes, I focused a lot on women doing this, but the fact is that women make up the majority in this case, and that’s why I was mainly referring to girls in my post. However, I really do not hate women. I may have a lot of rules for certain things that can lead some women, like you, for example, to see me as controlling or hating women. But believe it or not, for some other women, this isn’t seen as controlling at all! Many actually see it as a good rule because it proves that they can respect each other’s feelings.

And I made a post about religion, as you know, where I said it should be done away with because of its poor treatment of women and desire to kill homosexuals and things like that. Yet, I still got a lot of hate for it too. It’s unbelievable.

Women don't like listening. Some women listen especially if it's a very very high value man. I remember I used to listen to my ex because I put him on a pedestal and I used to imagine him as a very very high value man. He was very deep into spirituality. He had a command in the way he treated himself, the no-bullshit kind of a man. He told me that he will break up with me if I didn't do psychedelics with him. He also made another rule that I should always travel with him wherever he went. I mean I had to sort of obey his rules because I was desperate for him, i didn't wanna lose such a spiritually gifted guy. So I said yes to everything, all his demands. Later we broke up over career reasons. I can listen to a man, only if he is that that desirable in my eyes. Men also do this, they get ready to bend on their knees if they met an Angelina Jolie kind of hot girl. I mean everyone subconsciously calculates what value they are getting when  meeting a potential partner. They will compromise to the extent they think the relationship is valuable. It also depends on options. A young hot man will quickly dump a woman because he knows he has sexual abundance aka he has a lot of other girls. Same with a hot girl. If she is willing to lose her guy, then she won't compromise much. 

Relationships are more complicated than you realize. You make it sound like a purity chastity thing. However in real life a lot of relationships Hinge  on Sexual Market Value or SMV. So the same hot guy at the age of 40 will lower his standard and expectations of a woman because his SMV has reduced significantly. 

Very few relationships are totally "till death do us part" Kinda pure. Most rely on attraction. And romantic attraction is like a game between a man and a woman. It only works if both are equally attracted and both don't wanna lose each other. So all this boundaries and stuff doesn't matter in the big picture. In the big picture only desirability, attraction and commitment matters. 

People can post pics online and still be loyal to each other. Even porn stars have committed relationships. What about actors and actresses. They have kissing scenes in every movie and sex scenes. Yet they have stable marriages and girlfriends, boyfriends etc. 

 

[Spiritual Warfare]

58 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Women don't like listening. Some women listen especially if it's a very very high value man. I remember I used to listen to my ex because I put him on a pedestal and I used to imagine him as a very very high value man. He was very deep into spirituality. He had a command in the way he treated himself, the no-bullshit kind of a man. He told me that he will break up with me if I didn't do psychedelics with him. He also made another rule that I should always travel with him wherever he went. I mean I had to sort of obey his rules because I was desperate for him, i didn't wanna lose such a spiritually gifted guy. So I said yes to everything, all his demands. Later we broke up over career reasons. I can listen to a man, only if he is that that desirable in my eyes. Men also do this, they get ready to bend on their knees if they met an Angelina Jolie kind of hot girl. I mean everyone subconsciously calculates what value they are getting when  meeting a potential partner. They will compromise to the extent they think the relationship is valuable. It also depends on options. A young hot man will quickly dump a woman because he knows he has sexual abundance aka he has a lot of other girls. Same with a hot girl. If she is willing to lose her guy, then she won't compromise much. 

Relationships are more complicated than you realize. You make it sound like a purity chastity thing. However in real life a lot of relationships Hinge  on Sexual Market Value or SMV. So the same hot guy at the age of 40 will lower his standard and expectations of a woman because his SMV has reduced significantly. 

Very few relationships are totally "till death do us part" Kinda pure. Most rely on attraction. And romantic attraction is like a game between a man and a woman. It only works if both are equally attracted and both don't wanna lose each other. So all this boundaries and stuff doesn't matter in the big picture. In the big picture only desirability, attraction and commitment matters. 

People can post pics online and still be loyal to each other. Even porn stars have committed relationships. What about actors and actresses. They have kissing scenes in every movie and sex scenes. Yet they have stable marriages and girlfriends, boyfriends etc. 

 

Thank you for this comment. You made some good arguments. You are right about the adult film industry, but keep in mind that there are many people in the industry who are not doing well behind the scenes. The entertainment industry has different norms and expectations regarding relationships compared to everyday life. Nothing is genuine, social media is real because it exists outside the porn star’s job. 

[Schizophonia]

@Spiritual Warfare Buck isn't a woman, it's a literally a neurotic and autistic (according to himself) american incel who has watched too much sissy hypno and has created himself a delirium. 

He is motivated by aggression, it is easily seen in fact, so do not be influenced by this mirror on this subject.

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

@Spiritual Warfare Buck isn't a woman, it's a literally a neurotic and autistic (according to himself) american incel who has watched too much sissy hypno and has created himself a delirium. 

He is motivated by aggression, it is easily seen in fact, so do not be influenced by this mirror on this subject.

Thank you for having my back💓

[lostingenosmaze]

@Schizophonia Damn how do you know this? Do they have a Kiwifarms page or somethin'

[Schizophonia]

16 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Thank you for having my back💓

👍

1 minute ago, lostingenosmaze said:

@Schizophonia Damn how do you know this? Do they have a Kiwifarms page or somethin'

No, I'm just basing it on what he said here.

[Buck Edwards]

59 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Spiritual Warfare Buck isn't a woman, it's a literally a neurotic and autistic (according to himself) american incel who has watched too much sissy hypno and has created himself a delirium. 

He is motivated by aggression, it is easily seen in fact, so do not be influenced by this mirror on this subject.

Impressive. Lmfao. Thank you for your uninformed analysis lol. I can't control my laughter. 

[Buck Edwards]

@Schizophonia you got my and Keryo Koffa's gender mixed up. But I'm glad you'll stay in that delusion. 

[Scholar]

Social Media is simply degrading peoples minds and consciousness. That is going to affect how individuals relate to each other significantly.

 

Remember, these are the dark ages, we have no clue what we are doing, we are stumbling in the dark desperate to find the light.

But you can create a little bit of light in this world.

[Spiritual Warfare]

9 minutes ago, Scholar said:

Social Media is simply degrading peoples minds and consciousness. That is going to affect how individuals relate to each other significantly.

 

Remember, these are the dark ages, we have no clue what we are doing, we are stumbling in the dark desperate to find the light.

But you can create a little bit of light in this world.

I can tell you’re a follower of Jesus Christ because you preach his message. That was a good comment, and you’re right. But do you agree that it’s strange for women and men to act this way when they’re in a healthy relationship?

[Buck Edwards]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I can tell you’re a follower of Jesus Christ because you preach his message. That was a good comment, and you’re right. But do you agree that it’s strange for women and men to act this way when they’re in a healthy relationship?

Its not strange at all. It's normal. I don't know why you find it strange. I post pics of myself in my social media too. All my female friends do all the time. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said:

Its not strange at all. It's normal. I don't know why you find it strange. I post pics of myself in my social media too. All my female friends do all the time. 

We’ve had this conversation already 😂 but we’ll agree and disagree on certain things. I’m glad you shared your opinions and experiences! It was really interesting to read, and maybe I’ll change my mind on this topic in the future, but for now, not at all.

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

We’ve had this conversation already 😂 but we’ll agree and disagree on certain things. I’m glad you shared your opinions and experiences! It was really interesting to read, and maybe I’ll change my mind on this topic in the future, but for now, not at all.

Even if a woman is seeking attention, what's wrong with it really? 

[Spiritual Warfare]

3 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Even if a woman is seeking attention, what's wrong with it really? 

I’ve already told you, and I really don’t want to argue with you because you seem like a nice and curious person. But I’ll put it briefly as I’ve said, I think it’s strange that someone would want attention from others when their boyfriend is already giving it to them. Why isn’t that enough? For example, imagine if God came down to Earth and told the world, “I am the creator of everything.” You would only care about what the creator has to say about you, not what any other person thinks.

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I’ve already told you, and I really don’t want to argue with you because you seem like a nice and curious person. But I’ll put it briefly as I’ve said, I think it’s strange that someone would want attention from others when their boyfriend is already giving it to them. Why isn’t that enough? For example, imagine if God came down to Earth and told the world, “I am the creator of everything.” You would only care about what the creator has to say about you, not what any other person thinks.

And what If the boyfriend's attention is not enough despite the joy in the relationship? 

[Spiritual Warfare]

5 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

And what If the boyfriend's attention is not enough despite the joy in the relationship? 

I think it’s important to talk first, but if the boyfriend doesn’t listen, then I think it’s okay for the girl to seek attention from others. I should have been clearer in my original post that I was referring to a healthy relationship. Now I understand why people got upset, and I’m sorry for that.

[Keryo Koffa]

2 hours ago, Buck Edwards said:

@Schizophonia you got my and Keryo Koffa's gender mixed up. But I'm glad you'll stay in that delusion. 

Stop deflecting, sis, I mean bro. Just because you are a guy, doesn't mean you can't be pretty or handsome. Now stop masquerading as your alter ego Reena, and instead go out there and show them who's boss, Bucky!