Is Social Media Ruining Relationships?

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Hojo said:

@Spiritual Warfare I agree that it is ruining relationships. I wouldn't blame women men do the same thing. Its killing social interactions irl because everyone is on their phone.

Men do not do that, we are talking about a minority in that case.

 

 

[Nemra]

@Spiritual Warfare, talk to girls casually, and sometimes get out of your masculine worldview a bit. That's the evidence. You made assumptions.

[Hojo]

@Spiritual Warfare that is either showing you men are not treating women right or women are treating men too good 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Nemra said:

@Spiritual Warfare, talk to girls casually, and sometimes get out of your masculine worldview a bit. That's the evidence. You made assumptions.

Then why did you not answer my questions well? I have studied psychology, and this has nothing to do with masculinity. If you do not answer this question, I am not interested in talking to you anymore. Why does a woman seek attention and validation from strangers or acquaintances on social media when she has a boyfriend whose opinion should matter only?

 

 

[Nemra]

11 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Then why did you not answer my questions well?

Well, read again what I wrote.

11 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I am not interested in talking to you anymore.

Neither am I.

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Nemra said:

Well, read again what I wrote.

 

I saw what you wrote, and it’s wrong. Get that into your head. And no, you didn’t answer my question at all, you just danced around it.

 

 

[Nemra]

Just now, Spiritual Warfare said:

I saw what you wrote, and it’s wrong. Get that into your head. And no, you didn’t answer my question at all, you just danced around it.

Stop being reactionary. Get that into your head.

Don't worry, I'll stop responding to your posts.

[Spiritual Warfare]

2 minutes ago, Nemra said:

Stop being reactionary. Get that into your head.

Don't worry, I'll stop responding to your posts.

Great, this topic is not for you if you cannot communicate and only want to be emotional, but thanks for your time.

 

 

[Nemra]

7 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

this topic is not for you if you cannot communicate and only want to be emotional

I thought for a second that I wrote that to you.

8 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

thanks for your time

Your welcome. Bye.

[Spiritual Warfare]

8 minutes ago, Nemra said:

I thought for a second that I wrote that to you.

 

If you’re having an identity crisis, I can recommend a good therapist.

[Salvijus]

1 hour ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I’m just exposing them. They can do what they want, but it’s upsetting when they lie.

Doesn't bother me at all. It's something personal to you. The real problem is within you, not outside. 

Edited October 13 by Salvijus

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

Doesn't bother me at all. It's something personal to you. The real problem is within you, not outside. 

So if you get a girlfriend and she behaves like that, you wouldn’t care? Got it.

[Spiral]

Something one should consider is the low amounts of testosterone in women. 

Testosterone is essentially confidence juice. A cheat for men that promotes behaviors that are useful.

A lot of women/girls are insecure and society tells them that their value lies in their appearance and beauty. So it is only natural that they’ll want to feel valued. 

Flaunting their body on social media works and the perceived downsides are low. If you were insecure, all your friends did this and it made you feel better, wouldn’t you?

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Spiral said:

Something one should consider is the low amounts of testosterone in women. 

Testosterone is essentially confidence juice. A cheat for men that promotes behaviors that are useful.

A lot of women/girls are insecure and society tells them that their value lies in their appearance and beauty. So it is only natural that they’ll want to feel valued. 

Flaunting their body on social media works and the perceived downsides are low. If you were insecure, all your friends did this and it made you feel better, wouldn’t you?

What does this have to do with being loyal to your partner? If you truly loved someone and no one else as much, you wouldn’t care what others think, only about the person you love most.

[Salvijus]

3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

So if you get a girlfriend and she behaves like that, you wouldn’t care? Got it.

We are in the same situation right now. But for some reason only you feel deeply disturbed by all this. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

We are in the same situation right now. But for some reason only you feel deeply disturbed by all this. 

Why wouldn’t I? 

[Salvijus]

Just now, Spiritual Warfare said:

Why wouldn’t I? 

Because it doesn't matter what people do. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Salvijus said:

Because it doesn't matter what people do. 

It definitely does! If you want a healthy relationship, you have to care. It sounds like you think that if someone has a girlfriend, they shouldn’t care if she has sex with others. What amazing logic you have!

[Spiral]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

What does this have to do with being loyal to your partner? If you truly loved someone and no one else as much, you wouldn’t care what others think, only about the person you love most.

Well let’s say you are a girl and you love your partner, however you do have poor self-esteem and his isn’t giving you the confirmation you need. 
 

For you it feels being starved of water. It’s not like you are intend to actually meet these people or cheat on anyone. You are suffering and everyone else is doing this, so why shouldn’t you? He never even said he mind this, maybe people will be jealous of him?

 

Arguably I’d never date a girl like this but I can certainly see their perspective.

[Nemra]

27 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

If you’re having an identity crisis, I can recommend a good therapist.

The therapist did a poor job, as I can see.

Sorry for not keeping my promise.