Is Social Media Ruining Relationships?

[Nemra]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

It’s not about assumptions. It is what the case is.

You don't and can't know what actually happens in the relationship that you wrote about. So, no, you are assuming stuff.

5 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Precisely, girls want to look beautiful, but also to attract other men. The truth is harsh.

They do it to be perceived as attractive and not necessarily to attract others.

[Salvijus]

3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Why else would a woman want other men to comment on her body?

"It feels good when everyone likes you"

That would be my guess. Sugarcoat is probably right aswell. 

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Nemra said:

They do it to be perceived as attractive and not necessarily to attract others.

That id say too

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

I don’t know how common that is, to post in order to attract other men I think in most cases it’s still for one’s own ego boost. 

 

Yeah, it goes hand in hand. But you are absolutely right about confidence. If a woman has a man who tells her she is perfect as she is, why does she need validation from others? Isn’t that unfair to her partner?

 

 

 

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

 

Yeah, it goes hand in hand. But you are absolutely right about confidence. If a woman has a man who tells her she is perfect as she is, why does she need validation from others? Isn’t that unfair to her partner?

 

 

 

Once again I don’t think it’s too common for them to want validation from others, it’s more just a way to boost the self image as I said, to post themselves looking good, doesn’t need others to tell them they look good necessarily although maybe it does happen in some cases and that I can’t answer for now

 

if you look at a females comment section i think it’s more common to see replies from her female friends rather than men 

Edited October 13 by Sugarcoat

[Spiritual Warfare]

3 minutes ago, Nemra said:

They do it to be perceived as attractive and not necessarily to attract others.

That’s an assumption you just made! I have many great points that contradict this. Why would a woman post very sexy pictures if she is in a relationship? It does not make sense, and you know it. She knows that when she posts a selfie in just a bikini, it will tempt other men.

[Spiritual Warfare]

5 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

"It feels good when everyone likes you"

That would be my guess. Sugarcoat is probably right aswell. 

Yes, I agree with her to some degree, but why isn’t the boyfriend enough?

[Hojo]

Being on social media is important for women and its important to them to look good. Other men will come but they aren't doing for other men they are doing it for themselves because its important to them to have some sort of grounding. Its completely useless except to help them for a narrative of who and what they are. Women are weak their strength comes from somewhere else and being beautiful is a strength.

You could liken it too men posting muscle pictures. They do kinda post them for women but mostly to show off to everyone.

I dont think most secretly do it for dick they do it to feel good. Women are in a constant state of FOMO not just of sex but life experiences. Its a cope.

Edited October 13 by Hojo

[Spiritual Warfare]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Once again I don’t think it’s too common for them to want validation from others, it’s more just a way to boost the self image as I said, to post themselves looking good, doesn’t need others to tell them they look good necessarily although maybe it does happen in some cases and that I can’t answer for now

I enjoyed reading your post, it was not very biased.

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Hojo said:

Being on social media is important for women and its important to them to look good. Other men will come but they aren't doing for other men they are doing it for themselves because its important to them to have some sort of grounding. Its completely useless except to help them for a narrative of who and what they are. Women are weak their strength comes from somewhere else and being beautiful is a strength.

You could liken it too men posting muscle pictures. They do kinda post them for women but mostly to show off to everyone.

Yes, but when you are in a relationship, you all keep forgetting that this girl has a relationship with a man, and that should be enough for her to receive compliments, not from others online.

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I enjoyed reading your post, it was not very biased.

Thank you

Edited October 13 by Sugarcoat

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

Thank you

My pleasure.

[Nemra]

3 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

That’s an assumption you just made!

No.

Have you had conversations with girls without the intent of dating them?

I would say looking attractive or thinking of being perceived attractive by the opposite is a feminine thing.

[Salvijus]

Even if you finally crack the code and fully understand the psychology of why women did what they did, what will you do with it? Are you just looking for reasons to judge them? 

5 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Thank you

I liked the full comment more 😄

Edited October 13 by Salvijus

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Even if you finally crack the code and fully understand the psychology of why women did what they did, what will you do with it? Are you just looking for reasons to judge them? 

This is spot on

[Sugarcoat]

5 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I liked the full comment more 😄

lol maybe I should’ve kept it😂

[Spiritual Warfare]

15 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I liked the full comment more 😄

These women and their games, just kidding! 😁

Edited October 13 by Spiritual Warfare

[Spiritual Warfare]

18 minutes ago, Nemra said:

No.

Have you had conversations with girls without the intent of dating them?

I would say looking attractive or thinking of being perceived attractive by the opposite is a feminine thing.

Does that make it right? How is that loyal to their boyfriend? And yes, you did make an assumption because you have not backed it up with any evidence, only claims.

[Spiritual Warfare]

20 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Even if you finally crack the code and fully understand the psychology of why women did what they did, what will you do with it? Are you just looking for reasons to judge them? 

 

I’m just exposing them. They can do what they want, but it’s upsetting when they lie.

[Hojo]

@Spiritual Warfare I agree that it is ruining relationships. I wouldn't blame women men do the same thing. Its killing social interactions irl because everyone is on their phone. Women will get hit on by men everywhere its up to the man how to respond to this. This can either keep you the girl or push her away.

Trying to keep your girlfriend is beta behavior. Its forcing control on reality. Reality will see this and fuck you the second you put something higher than you.

Edited October 13 by Hojo