Is Social Media Ruining Relationships?

[Spiritual Warfare]

Why do women show themselves half-naked and seek attention from other men on social media? This seems normal in Europe, especially among 16-25-year-olds who try to take sexy photos even though they have a boyfriend. There is a girl on this forum who isn’t very active here, but I found her Instagram through Leo’s account. She has a boyfriend, and I think she has kids, but she still takes sexy photos to make other men excited. I feel like I need to write to her boyfriend about this because a man deserves a girlfriend who is loyal and doesn’t want other men to be excited by her photos.

Why do girls also feel the need to share on social media that they love their boyfriend? Why do people who don’t care need to know? What matters is that the boyfriend knows you love him; others online don’t need to know! Girls really seem to enjoy playing games with people’s feelings. They love attention and want to be at the center of it all. I don’t know how it is in the USA, but in Europe, this is the case, and anyone from there can confirm it.

[NoSelfSelf]

Why are you up the other people business? go create your situation.

[Nemra]

@Spiritual Warfare, you are projecting a lot.

You are also assuming that they have kids and that the man doesn't know about her online presence.

It seems you only like to blame women for not following your rules.

[Salvijus]

52 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

There is a girl on this forum who isn’t very active here, but I found her Instagram through Leo’s account.

Lol. Smart but creepy

[Sugarcoat]

You’re still not living up to your bio. “End of desire” includes end of desire to change others😅

[Spiritual Warfare]

46 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Why are you up the other people business? go create your situation.

I am very tempted, but you are right.

[Spiritual Warfare]

19 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Spiritual Warfare, you are projecting a lot.

You are also assuming that they have kids and that the man doesn't know about her online presence.

It seems you only like to blame women for not following your rules.

Why would a woman seek attention from other men more than from her own boyfriend?

[Spiritual Warfare]

15 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Lol. Smart but creepy

😏

[Spiritual Warfare]

14 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

You’re still not living up to your bio. “End of desire” includes end of desire to change others😅

I’m switching sides 🤪 but honestly, this post I made is accurate.

[Nemra]

1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Why would a woman seek attention from other men more than from her own boyfriend?

Why are you making assumptions and wanting to intervene in their relationship?

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Nemra said:

Why are you making assumptions and wanting to intervene in their relationship?

I’m not just talking about this one girl, I’m talking about everyone who does this.

[Nemra]

Just now, Spiritual Warfare said:

I’m not just talking about this one girl, I’m talking about everyone who does this.

Who's that everyone?

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Nemra said:

Who's that everyone?

Did you not read my post? Girls aged 16-25 do this every day.

[Sugarcoat]

19 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I’m switching sides 🤪 but honestly, this post I made is accurate.

a thought that came to my mind. Our society is heavily hypersexual here in the west, women get conditioned from a young age to value physical appearance highly, this contributes to this phenomena of sexy pics on social media. Which is to boost one’s own self image. I don’t think it’s to excite other men, it’s more ego centric than that, to boost the self image as I wrote. 

Edited October 13 by Sugarcoat

[Nemra]

13 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Did you not read my post? Girls aged 16-25 do this every day.

You are using that to justify your opinions about the relationship you mentioned.

Also, feminine girls like to appear beautiful.

Edited October 13 by Nemra

[Spiritual Warfare]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

a thought that came to my mind. Our society is heavily hypersexual here in the west, women get conditioned from a young age to value physical appearance highly, this contributes to this phenomena of sexy pics on social media. Which is to boost one’s own self image. 

Exactly, and often to attract other men. For example, if you post something, don’t you want men to ask you out on a date or something else playful?

[Spiritual Warfare]

3 minutes ago, Nemra said:

You are using that to justify your assumptions about the relationship you mentioned.

Also, feminine girls like to appear beautiful.

It’s not about assumptions. It is what the case is. Precisely, girls want to look beautiful, but also to attract other men. The truth is harsh.

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Spiritual Warfare said:

Exactly, and often to attract other men. For example, if you post something, don’t you want men to ask you out on a date or something else playful?

I edited my answer to add on a point. I don’t think most girls who post sexy pics do it to attract men i think it’s mostly to boost their own self image. I don’t post so I can’t answer that

[Spiritual Warfare]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

I edited my answer to add on a point. I don’t think most girls who post sexy pics do it to attract men i think it’s mostly to boost their own self image. I don’t post so I can’t answer that

Hmmmm. I appreciate your honesty, but many women do, in fact, post to attract other men. Why else would a woman want other men to comment on her body?

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Hmmmm. I appreciate your honesty, but many women do, in fact, post to attract other men. Why else would a woman want other men to comment on her body?

I don’t know how common that is, to post in order to attract other men I think in most cases it’s still for one’s own ego boost. Looking hot for a woman can be like an end in itself, doesn’t need men to confirm it

Edited October 13 by Sugarcoat