Posted October 11 Disagreement is a great thing. Do you want her to not be authentic with you? People break up when they lie too much. Disagreement isn't only a masculine thing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 1 minute ago, Nemra said: Disagreement is a great thing. Do you want her to not be authentic with you? People break up when they lie too much. Disagreement isn't only a masculine thing. I mean all I’m saying is that men and women has different roles is not about disagreement or not it’s about what the biology says, men want to be more outside and women wants to stay home. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said: Oh, yeah, that’s actually right, but keep in mind that this society affects everyone. Men and women should have the same roles, that’s why. Society doesnt affects the man that's why they are dying breed.You cant tell a man how to be,think or him being defined by societies norms. But todays man is more of a woman, so how do you expect to follow role you dont even know how to be? There is nothing safe with playing it safe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: I mean all I’m saying is that men and women has different roles is not about disagreement or not it’s about what the biology says, men want to be more outside and women wants to stay home. Reducing people to biology only is a problem. The role of a human being first and foremost is to be a unique expression of the devine. Everything else is secondary. I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 (edited) When you say "somebody should know their place" you should remember that their place is in infinite love and creativity and freedom. Then you'll be right. Edited October 11 by Salvijus I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: I mean all I’m saying is that men and women has different roles is not about disagreement or not it’s about what the biology says, men want to be more outside and women wants to stay home. That doesn't mean that they shouldn't raise their voice. You could justify whatever you like to see from them by referring to biological differences. They can be mistreated (gaslighted) by that logic. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 8 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said: Society doesnt affects the man that's why they are dying breed.You cant tell a man how to be,think or him being defined by societies norms. But todays man is more of a woman, so how do you expect to follow role you dont even know how to be? I believe that society influences young men to become more feminine. It might be harder for someone who knows how to behave as a man. When you mentioned how today’s men should act like men when they are more like women, that’s a good question. However, I think biology and consciousness will challenge their way of living. When one goes against their own nature, they lose. These men who identify as women don’t need a book to know how to act like a man, it’s something in their DNA that tells them. But I need to study more about this. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 9 minutes ago, Salvijus said: Reducing people to biology only is a problem. The role of a human being first and foremost is to be a unique expression of the devine. Everything else is secondary. But in this dream, we need to accept biology first and then the divine. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 6 minutes ago, Nemra said: That doesn't mean that they shouldn't raise their voice. You could justify whatever you like to see from them by referring to biological differences. They can be mistreated (gaslighted) by that logic. What I meant when I said that women shouldn’t raise their voices is that they shouldn’t scream. They can definitely have a conversation, but they shouldn’t act like they are more dominant than men. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 9 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: Not showing emotions is not necessarily bad, but a man should always be less emotional than a woman. There can be righteous aggression. Seeing women as objects has nothing to do with toxic masculinity; it has more to do with misogyny, I think. I enjoyed reading this response, by the way. What did you think when feminists used the hashtag #KAM? I hope you know what it means because I felt it was unnecessary to express that on social media. It causes more harm than good. You know I joined a pretty leftist theatre group some time ago and I saw a guy once shamelessly just crying his heart out on a girls lab. It was very touching for me in that moment because I realized how much I suppress my emotions all of the time. I dont want to be a cold rock, what's the point in that? I want to feel if I am allowed to.. And that can be totally excaptable at leftist places. That guy btw. was a super chad. Not even that great looking but he had insane status and plenty of sex. It's possible to have both. I didnt know what #KAM means as I stay away from social media so I just googled it. I agree with you that this causes more harm then good and think this is feminism at its worst. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: But in this dream, we need to accept biology first and then the divine. If you want to be ignorant and suffer, yes. If you want to live conciously, in joy and in harmony with the truth, then it's the other way around. Edited October 11 by Salvijus I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 7 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: They can definitely have a conversation, but they shouldn’t act like they are more dominant than men. Nobody should try to dominate anyone. It has nothing to do with women. I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 1 minute ago, Spiritual Warfare said: What I meant when I said that women shouldn’t raise their voices is that they shouldn’t scream. They can definitely have a conversation, but they shouldn’t act like they are more dominant than men. I don't think screaming means you are the dominant one in a relationship. Who knows what the husband did to her if she screamed. Also, I don't think relationships are one type. Some women are dominant and want to be the dominant one in the relationship. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 14 minutes ago, Jannes said: You know I joined a pretty leftist theatre group some time ago and I saw a guy once shamelessly just crying his heart out on a girls lab. It was very touching for me in that moment because I realized how much I suppress my emotions all of the time. I dont want to be a cold rock, what's the point in that? I want to feel if I am allowed to.. And that can be totally excaptable at leftist places. That guy btw. was a super chad. Not even that great looking but he had insane status and plenty of sex. It's possible to have both. I didnt know what #KAM means as I stay away from social media so I just googled it. I agree with you that this causes more harm then good and think this is feminism at its worst. Oh wow, thank you for not being biased and for being able to see the harm. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 16 minutes ago, Salvijus said: If you want to be ignorant and suffer, yes. If you want to live conciously, in joy and in harmony with the truth, then it's the other way around. The truth is only temporary in this dream. That’s why we can’t use it to live our lives. When we are fully dead, then we can talk. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 14 minutes ago, Nemra said: I don't think screaming means you are the dominant one in a relationship. Who knows what the husband did to her if she screamed. Also, I don't think relationships are one type. Some women are dominant and want to be the dominant one in the relationship. Screaming can be a sign of dominance, but I agree with you that it doesn’t have to be. My point is that when women scream, it is often due to emotions and not just straightforward communication, so to speak. Don’t you think biology shows that men should be more assertive than women? What is your perspective on all of this? The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: The truth is only temporary in this dream. That’s why we can’t use it to live our lives. When we are fully dead, then we can talk. Truth is true always. Acceptance of anything else besides truth is suffering. Nothing can stop you to live this life in harmony with the truth. It's a choice everyone can make for themselves. I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 Just now, Salvijus said: Truth is true always. Acceptance of anything else besides truth is suffering. Nothing can stop you to live this life in harmony with the truth. It's a choice everyone can make for themselves. I meant that living with the truth is temporary in this dream. For example, you cannot fly, but you can fly when you become the whole! Therefore, we must focus on what is true for us right now here on Earth. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said: I meant that living with the truth is temporary in this dream. For example, you cannot fly, but you can fly when you become the whole! Therefore, we must focus on what is true for us right now here on Earth. The reality that you're of God, a unique expression of the devine is true while you're on earth aswell. It's true always. And it's the only truth there is. So why not see this truth in every person? To reduce them to mere biology is abuse based on a lie. Edited October 11 by Salvijus I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11 Just now, Salvijus said: The reality that you're of God, a unique expression of the devine is true while you're on earth aswell. It's true always. And it's the only truth there is. The truth is always here, but that does not mean women and men are the same. We have an ego in this dream, when we die the ego vanishes, and nothing is separate. The end of separation is the end of desire. It’s life, it’s death, it’s unity; it is the absolute. In this profound realization, we find perfection eternal, a state of everlasting harmony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
