Romantic Attraction Explained Spiritually. (Video)

[Princess Arabia]

Great video to understanding human attraction on the Spiritual level.

[Tenebroso]

Very interesting, I am going to listen a second time before I express my opinion.  You seem to be a one stop encyclopedia for all things esoteric. Thanks for sharing.

[Princess Arabia]

43 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

Very interesting, I am going to listen a second time before I express my opinion.  You seem to be a one stop encyclopedia for all things esoteric. Thanks for sharing.

Lol. It is pretty interesting, I said before, I'm in love with all this stuff. I don't practice spirituality I am it. YT knows this too, I keep getting recommendations. My feed is filled. Obviously, I don't watch it all; and it's not an obsession, but I know the ones that are narrated by high-quality sources or from trusted Channels. I try to share those - from sources that I'm pretty confident know what they're saying. 

[Tenebroso]

I have what some may say is an unhealthy obsession with attraction. I have to say this is easily one of the best, if not the best video I have seen on the subject. There seems to be a tug of war between our lower and higher selves. Her explanation makes me more sympathetic towards women.

So base level of consciousness is based more on sexual tension that is produced between opposites and survival but survival looks slightly different for everyone. Many people are stuck at this level of consciousness. I can see how more dominant men fulfill a need for women at this stage of consciousness.

The more we grow, the more nuanced attraction becomes. The unconscious goal of humans overall is to reach wholeness so we seek sometimes healthy but sometimes destructive relationships with the goal getting what we need to reach this sense of oneness. It's almost mathematical, x is some ever elusive wholeness and we look to combine with another person to reach x.

Our idea of the divine will be reflected in what we seek in others.

Ironically the more developed and whole a person is the less they need another person to complete them. Attraction becomes more complicated because you are not responding to the body but to the needs of your souls and karmic journey, maybe this explains why we see some unusual couple pairings. Trauma also plays less of a role at later stages of development, I guess because you become less identified with the body and this particular lifetime.

As you increase in consciousness you might still be attracted to people at lower levels of consciousness to remain grounded. 

Specific types represent a specific medicine. 

We are either attracted to our high self/divine image or we are attracted to our wounding. If we develop but are still attracted to the same types in our previous state then we might be stuck in a Karmic Loop.

Maybe this is why so many women can't shake off the attraction to the bad boy. Women were oppressed from the beginning of the industrial age to basically the 1970s and they perhaps developed a collective spiritual and psychological stockholm syndrome where they want to throw the patriarchal shackles on the surface but are deeply drawn to the the shadow of masculinity. So smart, self aware women today are confused when they meet a nice, seemingly harmless, pleasant man and they feel nothing because he does nothing to trigger her wound which needs to be healed. 

Interesting that she says that the collective is dealing with age 15 type attraction. Matches what I see, all the discussions about modern dating dynamics are very base level. I have to include myself, I am still internally stuck trying to heal the rejected 15 year old wound, a girl school at predicted I would always struggle with women and she was right. I also find I am nearly always attracted to very dominant, strong women and the few positive experiences with women have always been older, smarter and dominant. I find more passive, introverted women tend not to like me at all. It probably doesn't take long for them to figure out that I cannot help them integrate, if they are at the lower levels of consciousness.

I love the way she explains things. Our attraction is always aligned with our specific developmental curriculum. So it is important to look beneath the surface and figure out the symbolism of what you are attracted to and why, it will tell you a lot about yourself.

So they key is the search for balancing and this balance can be reached through responding to our soul/higher self/divine image, karmic cycle or trauma. Also the balance of masculine and feminine. 

Next time I meet a woman I am attracted to, I am going to ask myself....What does she need? What is her level of consciousness? Am I her medicine? lol......Am I her next step in consciousness?

The most evolved people often don't have partners because they have become so balanced. It's a bit of a catch 22 because at lower levels of consciousness you kind have to hope that your need to integrate matches with another persons needs but at higher levels it becomes so subtle and layered that two people who could be great for each other miss each other. 

Like attracts like as you raise in consciousness. When we are focused on soothing our wounds we seek it's opposite.

What we find highly attracted in another is either a quality we have in ourselves or a potential. That explains my attraction to the most extroverted, uninhibited, confident alpha women who happen to usually be nicer to me than other women although I have yet to actually manage to get into a relationship with one but maybe I should pursue this type more confidently and they are looking for me, just maybe.

She admits it's kind of complicated, that was a lot to take in for a 34 minute video had to listen very carefully the second time. 

This is a bit of a mess, sorry to anyone who has to read this.

[Princess Arabia]

@TenebrosoYou have written a well thought-out analysis of the video and it shows how much attention you gave to the details. I'm impressed. It shows how all these things are already within us, and we already have the knowledge inside of us but need others to remind us of it. You wouldn't have been able to do that if this wasn't the case.

Don't get too literal with it, though, and leave room for exceptions and spontaneous activity. I also learnt a thing or two from it and was amazed at some of the descriptions she gave as to the dynamics of our attractions. It's the same with me as in being attracted to people and being stunned as to why that is. Her explanation made perfect sense to me as I could relate to it on a personal and individual level. This is why I agree at times that this isn't a one-size-fits all and to approach the dating world with an open mind and expect surprises. 

I am glad to share videos like this where one can gather information to help them maneuver the outside world in cases where they are having challenges. Glad you got something from it and i suggest you watch more videos like these instead of feeding the mind with tik tok viral videos of women dating serial killers and mass shooters and draculas. Lol.

Infinity has no end, and everything exists, but it's a matter of where we put our focus and attention that determines our experiences and circumstances. This is what it means to be Awareness. It knows no bounds and is limitless and infinite. Anything goes. Shine it's light on what you want to see and focus your energy on where you like for it to expand. Not the lack of it, though, because you'll experience more lack which is still abundance to your Awareness. It's not personal and doesn't see you but reads where your focus is.

Edited October 12 by Princess Arabia

[QVx]

I am now going to have to watch this based on @Tenebroso feedback