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Are your social comfort-levels your responsibility?

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Just now, mr_engineer said:

It is so easy to screenshot whatever nonsense this guy has sent and post it on twitter with #MeToo. Women have so many options! 

There are genuinely empowered women in the world who will not take shit from any man. Maybe you need to learn a thing or two from them. 

You are telling me that 'you won't land a woman', like you're giving me a curse. 

Oh, so now the woman who can't hold abusers accountable is talking about 'respect'. Have you heard of self-respect?! 

The guy who can't respect women is talking about self respect. Just because I felt weak doesn't mean I don't have self respect. Have you heard of victim shaming? You seem to love victim shaming and also a license to creep on women. 


My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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3 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

There are genuinely empowered women in the world who will not take shit from any man. Maybe you need to learn a thing or two from them. 

Well it's no wonder you got called a creep. 


My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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Just now, Buck Edwards said:

The guy who can't respect women is talking about self respect. Just because I felt weak doesn't mean I don't have self respect. Have you heard of victim shaming? You seem to love victim shaming and also a license to creep on women. 

I am being respectful to you by telling you that you can fight for your rights, you have all these options. 

Besides, I'm not calling you any names like 'creep' or the b-word, I'm simply holding you accountable for what you're doing. This is respectful treatment. You may not know that, that's why I'm educating you. 

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2 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Well it's no wonder you got called a creep. 

You seem to be implying that I deserve it, like I've done something wrong. What wrong have I done?! 

Oh, I'm a man, so I'm a 'creep'. Because you hate men. Got it. 

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4 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

I am being respectful to you by telling you that you can fight for your rights, you have all these options. 

Besides, I'm not calling you any names like 'creep' or the b-word, I'm simply holding you accountable for what you're doing. This is respectful treatment. You may not know that, that's why I'm educating you. 

Thats the problem. You think this is respectful treatment when it's not. You're indirectly shaming me and you call it respect. And you think you are educating people.

You just called me a weak woman. You also shamed me for standing up for other women. And you call this respectful. So in your mind shaming women is respectful I guess. So if you shame women, don't expect respect from them. So if a woman calls a creep a creep, then she hates men. Good reasoning. 

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My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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1 minute ago, Marcel said:

Sure. Tell that to a woman who was raped.

You are so kindhearted, loving and understanding. Leo must be proud seeing that his content had no impact on you 🤣

 

She can go to the police, file a complaint, sue the guy. 

Women have rights. 

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2 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Thats the problem. You think this is respectful treatment when it's not. You're indirectly shaming me and you call it respect. And you think you are educating people.

It's called 'holding someone accountable for what they do'. 

I'm respectful but I don't take shit for no reason. I'm respectfully holding you accountable. 

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Just now, mr_engineer said:

It's called 'holding someone accountable for what they do'. 

I'm respectful but I don't take shit for no reason. I'm respectfully holding you accountable. 

Before holding others accountable hold yourself accountable. That will do you some good. The end. 


My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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6 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

You just called me a weak woman. You also shamed me for standing up for other women. And you call this respectful. So in your mind shaming women is respectful I guess. So if you shame women, don't expect respect from them. So if a woman calls a creep a creep, then she hates men. Good reasoning. 

You can't even stand up for yourself. So, let the other women go and just focus on doing that. 

As for the name-calling, only someone who's hateful would do that. 

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Just now, Buck Edwards said:

Before holding others accountable hold yourself accountable. That will do you some good. The end. 

The way I learned to hold others accountable is by first holding myself accountable! I really have come a long way, you can learn something from me. (If you want to, that is)

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1 minute ago, Marcel said:

How is calling someone “The girl who can’t protect herself from her abusers” respectful?

You are delusional.

I'm not saying that she can't protect herself from her abusers. All of you are saying that! 

Just get out of your own way and take action, on this front. That's my entire point. 

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9 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

You can't even stand up for yourself. So, let the other women go and just focus on doing that. 

Your shame tactic is not gonna work. Let's see how you use it on women. Women, whether it's me or some other women, we will always stand up for ourselves as the opportunity serves us. And your bunch of ideas will never fly. Because the root of the matter is you have zero respect for women, and of course they sense it and walk away from you. Name us, shame us in the name of your goddamn accountability, we aren't changing how we feel about your creepy approaches. Your disrespect of women is not our problem. Also you are not the only man in the world. There are men out there who know how to respect women so we can bond with them. We don't need disrespectful men or their accountability. Meanwhile you can count your luck. We can sense men who truly  respect us and treat us kindly and a woman will only respond to that and that's her free will and you can't take her free will from her. Keep shaming me, I don't care. We are women, we are proud, we walk our way and we don't need the validation of disrespectful men like you. 

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My name is Victoria. 

 

 

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5 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Your shame tactic is not gonna work. Let's see how you use it on women. Women, whether it's me or some other women, we will always stand up for ourselves as the opportunity serves us. And your bunch of ideas will never fly. Because the root of the matter is you have zero respect for women, and of course they sense it and walk away from you. Name us, shame us in the name of your goddamn accountability, we aren't changing how we feel about your creepy approaches. Your disrespect of women is not our problem. Also you are not the only man in the world. There are men out there who know how to respect women so we can bond with them. We don't need disrespectful men or their accountability. Meanwhile you can count your luck. We can sense men who truly  respect us and treat us kindly and a woman will only respond to that and that's her free will and you can't take her free will from her. Keep shaming me, I don't care. We are women, we are proud, we walk our way and we don't need the validation of disrespectful me like you. 

Blah blah blah talk from a woman who can't hold her abusers accountable. 

A woman who can't hold her abusers accountable is talking about 'bonding with good men'. Lol. 

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Enough guys


There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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