Is it really important and necessary to sleep with 20 girls?

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

11 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

There's nothing to understand. This sentence is an oxymoron, if that's the right word. "The way women get men", implies that men are also getting women. See that, see that, see that. Geesh, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the math here.

Men approach women, if women are receptive to the approach then both start dating. Men approach many women who display resistance so they are alone. Women have many men to choose from and the one they are receptive towards is the one they date. So yeah, it's easier for women to find a partner quicker than it is for a man.

If all I had to do was be receptive to a women's approach I would have been in over 100 relationships at this point. All a women has to do is be receptive to 1 guy and they get a relationship. The others they brush or flake on, ignore their texts, won't let them touch them in intimate ways, etc.

I don't know how else to explain what actually happens. The only time a guy has to be receptive to get a female is if he is a very highstatus person. So yeah, there is a level of entitlement to be able to be receptive to 1 out of many. 

This is why women don't have to study game theory or build skills that allow them to get a partner. 

A woman decides if s relationship happens. A woman decides if sex happens. Men don't decide that.

Edited October 21 by MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

More men without partners than women.

If I understand correctly, there are more women than men globally. Say, there are 1000, women and 800 men. Out of that 1000 women, 800 are in relationships that leaves 800 men all of which are taken. Do the math using different figures keeping in mind there are more women than men.

 You are stuck in a paradigm lock and are going off of statistics that may be false. All of this is also irrelevant in Infinity, and it all is about you and your attention and focus and where you put your light of awareness. That's why it's relevant to incorporate spirituality into our daily lives and not get sucked into the world of illusion. You're a victim to your circumstances and complaining only brings more shit to complain about because that's how reality works. It's all about frequency and vibrations and how we think, respond, believe and feel. 

[Princess Arabia]

6 hours ago, tezk said:

Keep it simple. The answer is to do exactly what you want. If you want a relationship, go for it. If you want to have lots of sex, go after it. Just make your intentions clear as Mark Manson would teach. 

Speaking from experience of a 5 year relationship when I was young (age 16 onwards), I did personally struggle with the idea of not sleeping with anyone else (she was my first at the time). 

Probably depends a lot on your personality. Some guys are definitely more curious while others are fully content with keeping their sexual experiences limited to fewer women. It's really entirely up to you to choose. 

I wouldn't base my decision off of what others think, but rather think and feel deeply about your circumstances and choose what's important and desirable to you. You don't want to turn down the possibility of having a relationship with a good chick, especially if you've never been in one. That would be my take. But again it's totally up to you my man.

Relationships can also be amazing for building your sex and intimacy experiences simply because you literally just have a way higher volume of sex in relationships compared to being single, unless ofc you are an absolute animal at pick-up. 

Very well put and a more mature way of seeing things. Usually, it's guys with these types of thinking that are doing well with women. Not the type that searches social media to see what others are doing in this respect or following the pill ideologies or are stuck in their limited beliefs and thinking complaining will solve their dilemmas.

[Princess Arabia]

9 hours ago, Kid A said:

He’s probably talking about young people. 63% of men under 30 are single while only 34% of women are. 
It will even out in the long run, so patience is key.

Nothing needs to be evened out. The Universe is a self-correcting code and imbalances is sometimes balance. I don't pay attention to statistics in this regard because who will know if I'm dating the man up the street. I didn't do a survey to up the figures and neither did plenty of couples. 

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

If I understand correctly, there are more women than men globally. Say, there are 1000, women and 800 men. Out of that 1000 women, 800 are in relationships that leaves 800 men all of which are taken. Do the math using different figures keeping in mind there are more women than men.

 You are stuck in a paradigm lock and are going off of statistics that may be false. All of this is also irrelevant in Infinity, and it all is about you and your attention and focus and where you put your light of awareness. That's why it's relevant to incorporate spirituality into our daily lives and not get sucked into the world of illusion. You're a victim to your circumstances and complaining only brings more shit to complain about because that's how reality works. It's all about frequency and vibrations and how we think, respond, believe and feel. 

I don't buy it. I live in a world and reality where women always have a partener whenever they want one.

[Rasheed]

20 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

I have studied alot of theory. My favorite being Todd V.

I am quite good with women.

I live in upstate NY where approaching isn't that well tolerated. I must move tbh. Most people here get women based on social circle game. So I'm at a loss. 

If you studied Todd V and you're good with women, there's no way you cannot get a girlfriend; that's impossible, my friend. So, congrats. Todd V teaches gold material, that will get ANYONE results—ofc if they implement both inner and outer game insights diligently

[Princess Arabia]

8 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

I don't buy it. I live in a world and reality where women always have a partener whenever they want one.

There's nothing to buy, women have it easy and always have a partner whenever they want one. I guess those partners are women. I just can't. Bye.

[Kid A]

20 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Nothing needs to be evened out. The Universe is a self-correcting code and imbalances is sometimes balance. I don't pay attention to statistics in this regard because who will know if I'm dating the man up the street. I didn't do a survey to up the figures and neither did plenty of couples. 

By «even out in the long run», I meant that women and men are just as often single in their 40’s and in their 50’s women are more often single. It’s pretty similar in the 30’s too.
This might not be the case in the future though…

Edited October 22 by Kid A

[Optimal_Prime]

being desperate for the simultaneous validation of multiple women is exhausting, yes. 

if you can date without worrying about the other person and only about yourself and your happiness, you have no limits, and dating multiple people is fine. 

Pick up that results in getting a monogamous relationship is for noobs. Real pick up is building a lifestyle where you have 5-10 friends with benefits, each of whom you see a couple times a year, or in short sprints that come and go, but aren't jeopardized when they are on an "off" phase. Sometimes pick up is the art of sleeping with women a few times, then becoming their friend, then meeting their friends through social circle. 

Rarely, if ever, is the goal of pick up to enter a monogamous relationship in which you are no longer allowed to do pick up. Not until you find the girl that is going to be your wife, if you want a wife, that is. 

[Kalki Avatar]

I regret getting laid with more than 5 woman… 

[Kid A]

3 hours ago, Kalki Avatar said:

I regret getting laid with more than 5 woman… 

Why? Nothing has matured me more or improved my self-confidence more than this. I also wasn't very aware of what I’m really into until I had gained a lot of experience.