Is it really important and necessary to sleep with 20 girls?

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Excuse me, it's not about being entitked.. Didn't you pick this forum. Didn't you pick your college, the place you work at, the foods you eat, etc why be sarcastic about the fact that we try to choose the men we sleep with in our personal lives. Men do too. You are putting men down when you insinuate that they don't get to choose. 

There are plenty of "sexfilled" men out there and you will continue to be sexless if you continue with these ridiculous mindsets. It's obvious you are or you wouldn't have these types of Rhetoric. 

Don't make women feel less than because they're not willing at all times to open their legs for every willing and able guy. There's no benefit to a woman for doing this. IT IS NOT BEING FUCKING ENTITLED TO BE ABLE TO CHOOSE WHICH GUYS WE SLEEP WITH. It's called entitled to be able to have that entitlement. I'm through with this conversation before I get entangled up with some stupid incel ideological notion. 

Must be nice to get laid  and have a great experience with a partener whenever you want. Best of wishes.

Has nothing to do with mindsets.

The reality is women refuse to understand the fact that men can't get women the way women get men. They are used to relationships just "happening" to them. Kind of like during a dream where things just "happen". It's a fantasy land. In my reality I have to work super hard to get 1 woman. Women put in zero effort when it comes to game. They don't study how to be good storytellers, verbal game, physical escalation, etc.

#GodSpeed 🙏.

Edited October 21 by MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

At the end of the day the majority of men can't even get 1 woman without studying, and building up skills. No woman ever has to study game theory or build up any skillsets. You simply exist and get laid or a boyfriend. That is how it works. 

 

Your mind has told you this and you've believed it. Doesn't even make sense when you look at some of the kinds of guys that are with women. I've seen men who barely even talk and have women and I've even seen men who are dumb with gfs. I used to date a dumb guy myself when I was an older teenager in Jamaica; and I was just getting into modelling then, so it wasn't like I couldn't do any better. That's not the point, because I could name numerous other circumstances where skill wasn't involved, the girl was just attracted to him for some reason regardless of him being handsome or not. 

I'm constantly seeing ordinary couples all over the place. When I go out, I see mostly couples or lots of young guys with girls and I definitely don't see guys all over the place crying because they can't get women, why? because it's the guys that stay home and not out approaching complaining. Another thing is lots of guys want hot women, then they complain how they can't get women because they never look at the ordinary average woman as such; they might approach her, but don't take her too seriously because they were just testing the waters or thinking they're missing something better.

 Even if they're sleeping with ugly girls or below average looking females, they'll still say they're having problems getting women because it's not the hot chick that they want. I also find that the younger, the worse the situation with men finding women is, because they're so immature and lack certain things and insist on their way. The older the man is, the more he knows how to engage. All factors involved.

A place to start for guys looking is to STOP ASSUMING IT'S EASIER FOR WOMEN. It's not hard to get laid for women but it's still not that easy to find a bf because it takes more than just having a penis. When you assume it's easier for women, you will approach her with a certain mindset. One where you feel like you have to prove yourself because she can easily get the next guy. Only way you have to prove yourself is to show her you really like her and that's hard because half the time she's just another approach and you really couldn't care less, then you complain why women are pickier. If you had women's best interest in mind, you would understand this and see where guys are approaching left and right and she's just another number for some. That's why you have numbers for the amount of time you do this. Some guys anyway. It's treacherous for us too, but in a different way. Take that however you chose and believe whatever you want. Half the guys that approach me already assumed I had a man, but did it anyway, so I can imagine some of the one's that didn't approach was because they probably thought they'd be wasting their time. Not that I'm looking, just saying. They're always looking and if they approach its like "where's your man at". Great, cause if I don't like him, I'll say he's home. Think whatever you want.

Also, some level of women are out getting skillsets to try and get and keep the kind of men they want, so don't get that wrong. The proof is in the many schools and coaches that are out there helping them to do so. Leave your mind open, and you'll be in a much better place in receiving. That's how this shit works. Not to fill your head up with all sorts of conspiracy theories and beliefs about the dating world and it all depends on the country and culture.

Edited October 21 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

. They are used to relationships just "happening" to them.

 You don't trust that women are involved in picking who they date or enter into relationships with and assuming they are all just settling for the first guy that approaches. No, disrespect but you have a lot of false notions about all this. You're probably going off of the few relationships you've encountered, but relationships doesn't just happen to women. What kills me with narratives like these is they are implying the female is all by herself and having make belief bfs. Arenlt there men getting women then, if you say relationships are just happening to women and they can get men easily. Are these men real men, or are they blow-up dolls. Check the validity of your statements and realize they are contradictory. Women aren't easily getting into relationships with themselves, so there are men out there who are in relationships too. You keep saying men can't find women and women are in relationships left and right. With whom, monkeys.

Edited October 21 by Princess Arabia

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia yeah plus men are unforgiving when it comes to a girl being below average lmao, like if a girl isn’t hot, she’s dead in the dating world.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia yeah plus men are unforgiving when it comes to a girl being below average lmao, like if a girl isn’t hot, she’s dead in the dating world.

Only to the men seeking hot women. I see lots of average-looking couples all over the place. Especially in marriages.

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia i mean generally men who settle for a girl that is not hot have no clue what their potential with women is if they did pick up for example.

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

The reality is women refuse to understand the fact that men can't get women the way women get men.

There's nothing to understand. This sentence is an oxymoron, if that's the right word. "The way women get men", implies that men are also getting women. See that, see that, see that. Geesh, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the math here.

[Princess Arabia]

6 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia i mean generally men who settle for a girl that is not hot have no clue what their potential with women is if they did pick up for example.

It's a shame it's called settling. Flip the script and say women who settle for broke men are missing out on what men of status are like. Broke guys wouldn't like that too much. Average and broke deserve love too and if I was to date a broke or ugly guy, I wouldn't consider myself settling, but a choice I made based on what I felt at the time that was favorable to me.

Edited October 21 by Princess Arabia

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia Truth is men prefer hot girls over girls who aren’t hot, this shouldn’t be controversial lmao.

[Tenebroso]

I don't think men NEED to sleep with 20+ women but the men I know who get laid the most seem to be less neurotic and anxious. I think women feel that lack of anxiety and interpret it as a signal of safety, regardless of how safe the actual man is and I think this why bad boys can do so well. When you don't get laid and you are out there trying, it feels like the stakes increase with every encounter. That's why although positive thinking and attempting to feel confident are good things, without tangible results, it is difficult to cultivate that ease around women that players naturally exude. 

[Majed]

@Tenebroso i think bad boyness work with women is because it shows that they are high value rather than low value which the nice guys naturally exude lmao

[Princess Arabia]

31 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Tenebroso i think bad boyness work with women is because it shows that they are high value rather than low value which the nice guys naturally exude lmao

The bad boy type is not about value to women in the traditional sense but more about adventure seeking. Also, I can tame him for me because I'm special. Or an air of curiosity on her part wanting to experience for herself what the craze about him is. Shit like that. She rarely ever stays pass a certain point and he drops her and move on as quickly as he changes his pants more times than not. 

[Princess Arabia]

54 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia Truth is men prefer hot girls over girls who aren’t hot, this shouldn’t be controversial lmao.

You have to realize that some men have their type; and what some men consider hot, another man doesn't. Yes, some women are Universally beautiful and could pass a beauty contest, but still there are some that doesn't consider a blonde with blue eyes, a nice ass and big breasted hot. I've heard some European, Irish and German men that says to them Serena Williams is hot. I've also had a guy say to me the skinnier the better, even anorexic looking. I've heard some that like no breast, freckles, girl next door type, curly hair, all kinds, even fat. I've seen guys who were even paying that chose the short fat chick over the hot looking blonde. Guys are funny when it comes to this stuff and some have fantasies that doesn't involve a hot chick. Why? She doesn't look like she can have good sex and maybe do stuff to him that a hot girl might not do. I dunno. These are usually older guys, though, and who can choose. Look at Denzil Washington's wife, for instance, he has the black community women screaming for him but he married an average kinda heavy woman. Not sure if she was heavy at the time, but I'm sure if he wanted a hot woman as his wife he could have

Edited October 21 by Princess Arabia

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia still to most men a hot girl is a hot girl, and a not hot girl is not a hot girl.

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia still to most men a hot girl is a hot girl, and a not hot girl is not a hot girl.

Ok. Don't be surprised that your hot witch wannabe girlfriend isn't hot to your buddy. Don't scream down his throat to look at her ass or big boobs. He might like muscles. Lol

[Princess Arabia]

10 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia still to most men a hot girl is a hot girl, and a not hot girl is not a hot girl.

Plus that hot girl is only hot till he sleeps with her then unto the next.

[Jannes]

4 hours ago, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia Truth is men prefer hot girls over girls who aren’t hot, this shouldn’t be controversial lmao.

But it can be a survival adaptation to focus more on average looking girls when you know that you cant get the hot ones, as that would be a waste of energy and time. 

[Kid A]

5 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

There's nothing to understand. This sentence is an oxymoron, if that's the right word. "The way women get men", implies that men are also getting women. See that, see that, see that. Geesh, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the math here.

He’s probably talking about young people. 63% of men under 30 are single while only 34% of women are. 
It will even out in the long run, so patience is key.

[tezk]

Keep it simple. The answer is to do exactly what you want. If you want a relationship, go for it. If you want to have lots of sex, go after it. Just make your intentions clear as Mark Manson would teach. 

Speaking from experience of a 5 year relationship when I was young (age 16 onwards), I did personally struggle with the idea of not sleeping with anyone else (she was my first at the time). 

Probably depends a lot on your personality. Some guys are definitely more curious while others are fully content with keeping their sexual experiences limited to fewer women. It's really entirely up to you to choose. 

I wouldn't base my decision off of what others think, but rather think and feel deeply about your circumstances and choose what's important and desirable to you. You don't want to turn down the possibility of having a relationship with a good chick, especially if you've never been in one. That would be my take. But again it's totally up to you my man.

Relationships can also be amazing for building your sex and intimacy experiences simply because you literally just have a way higher volume of sex in relationships compared to being single, unless ofc you are an absolute animal at pick-up. 

Edited October 21 by tezk

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

10 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

 You don't trust that women are involved in picking who they date or enter into relationships with and assuming they are all just settling for the first guy that approaches. No, disrespect but you have a lot of false notions about all this. You're probably going off of the few relationships you've encountered, but relationships doesn't just happen to women. What kills me with narratives like these is they are implying the female is all by herself and having make belief bfs. Arenlt there men getting women then, if you say relationships are just happening to women and they can get men easily. Are these men real men, or are they blow-up dolls. Check the validity of your statements and realize they are contradictory. Women aren't easily getting into relationships with themselves, so there are men out there who are in relationships too. You keep saying men can't find women and women are in relationships left and right. With whom, monkeys.

Alot of men are without girlfriends. Of course women are dating men. It's the 1 guy they've  decided to be receptive to out of 100 that approached them.

All women have to do is be receptive to 1 guy. Men have to study skills and approach tons of women. Women enter relationships much faster than a guy does. More men without partners than women.

Edited October 21 by MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI