Is it really important and necessary to sleep with 20 girls?

[Sugarcoat]

@Rasheed you’ll never understand what he writes that I’ll say now, don’t even try

[Keryo Koffa]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

@Rasheed you’ll never understand what he writes that I’ll say now, don’t even try

Just like there are Levels of Reality, there are Levels of Complexity, and you better keep up before I transition to a more efficient symbolic system, that is completely disconnected from consensus dichotomies we structure our language around, because not even GPT will be able to help you decipher the glyphs at that point 😁

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Just like there are Levels of Reality, there are Levels of Complexity, and you better keep up before I transition to a more efficient symbolic system, that is completely disconnected from consensus dichotomies we structure our language around, because not even GPT will be able to help you decipher the glyphs at that point 😁

You’ll not even understand yourself anymore!

[Keryo Koffa]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

You’ll not even understand yourself anymore!

Don't worry, I'll account for that, I'll also account for not accounting for contingencies, I'll use neurofractal encoding.

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Keryo Koffa said:

Don't worry, I'll account for that, I'll also account for not accounting for contingencies, I'll use neurofractal encoding.

Ok👍🏻 😂iridescent man

[Keryo Koffa]

12 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Ok👍🏻 😂iridescent man

Iridescent because it's an eerie descent 😁

[Jannes]

I am open to the possibility that sleeping with many people gives you a certain kind of confidence that you cant get elsewhere. 

Although in Leos recent video about traps he said that counting lays is a trap if you want to listen to Leo. 

But your applications sounds cringe. You already seem pretty advanced, what do you want to gain? It sounds like you and your girl are happy atm. I would focus on other things. 

[Happy Lizard]

Since Leo’s videos worked for you, I want to ask you this, how did you learn to deal with the fear of a bad encounter or embarrassing yourself? That’s the biggest issue I have, I normally can get positive reaction from women in general, but cold approach is so in the face that I have no idea how it comes off to women, which makes me nervous. Also what are the best places to cold approach? (I assume that you live in the US)

[Atb210201]

You know what really makes you a masculine man?

Not fucking lots of girls.

Wanting to protect your loved ones and looking out for them in the face of dangers and being willing to sacrifice yourself for them is what really makes a man masculine.

Please contemplate on this brother.

Contemplate on what the real meaning of masculinity is.

Edited October 11 by Atb210201

[Leo Gura]

Don't read it so literally. 20 is not necessary. 20 is just a loose stand-in for lots of experience. What's necessary is lots of experience.

Then again, you could just settle down with 1 girl. But then you won't have the skills to get more girls if she leaves you.

It's a question of whether you want the skills. If you don't want the skills then you can always settle down with 1 girl. But that is quite risky. Which is why skills are stressed. You will lose many girls but you will never lose your skills.

Edited October 11 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

20 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Lays is such a cringe word and what does a number has to do with you being more musculine/developed? thats a paradox.

I agree. Lays, body count and ranking women on 1-10. Three cringey things. 

[NoSelfSelf]

21 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I agree. Lays, body count and ranking women on 1-10. Three cringey things. 

And when they pull out the statistics 😂 of how much there is possibility of marriage or some number that proves how one should stay away from women.

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, NoSelfSelf said:

And when they pull out the statistics 😂 of how much there is possibility of marriage or some number that proves how one should stay away from women.

[Tenebroso]

@NoSelfSelf There is a smugness to your answers on here, it's quite pathetic. People take different paths to growing, it doesn't mean you have to mock them. I am sure there are parts of your life where your are clueless and insecure.

[Jannes]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't read it so literally. 20 is not necessary. 20 is just a loose stand-in for lots of experience. What's necessary is lots of experience.

Then again, you could just settle down with 1 girl. But then you won't have the skills to get more girls if she leaves you.

It's a question of whether you want the skills. If you don't want the skills then you can always settle down with 1 girl. But that is quite risky. Which is why skills are stressed. You will lose many girls but you will never lose your skills.

Oh man is this the mindset you have in a relationship, that she could leave you any moment? 

I mean I get that on a practical level but it sounds very emotionally demanding and a bit like a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

But on the other hand deep bonds come naturally to me as an INFP as that is part of my personality type. 

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Jannes said:

that she could leave you any moment?

No. It's just a reality that relationships usually end.

She has the skills to find someone else. Do you?

Edited October 11 by Leo Gura

[NoSelfSelf]

1 hour ago, Tenebroso said:

@NoSelfSelf There is a smugness to your answers on here, it's quite pathetic. People take different paths to growing, it doesn't mean you have to mock them. I am sure there are parts of your life where your are clueless and insecure.

Me mocking things that hurts you(like believing in statistics,red pill nonssens etc.) is really something you should attack me for 👍

Edited October 11 by NoSelfSelf

[Jannes]

7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

No. It's just a reality that relationships usually end.

She has the skills to find someone else. Do you?

Thats true. And I actually completely agree that gaining experience is very important for the reasons you outlined but it should be done with hookups or consensual F+ as that mindset could destroy relationships was what I wanted to get to. 

[Happy Lizard]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't read it so literally. 20 is not necessary. 20 is just a loose stand-in for lots of experience. What's necessary is lots of experience.

Then again, you could just settle down with 1 girl. But then you won't have the skills to get more girls if she leaves you.

It's a question of whether you want the skills. If you don't want the skills then you can always settle down with 1 girl. But that is quite risky. Which is why skills are stressed. You will lose many girls but you will never lose your skills.

 

I’m generally very good at talking to women and joking, but I that’s when I warm up to a conversation. You sometimes say something like approach 10 girls as warm up. I don’t know if you are built different or just skilled. But these numbers for me show that you have an extreme emotional stability to handled 10 failed approches in one night. 

The few times I’ve cold approached was hell and very awkward, they were in the day. Yes now when I look at these approches I feel good, but I feel like if I’d  approche now it’s still like starting from zero. For example Didn’t get better at coming up with a good line fast or reduced the anxiety of approaching , Is that just how it normally is?
 

You’re the main source I use for dating advice, as I can at least be confident that you are not scamming us and are giving high quality advice, so I honestly want to ask you this not joking or complaining, and honestly looking to get better.

 

[Leo Gura]

57 minutes ago, Happy Lizard said:

I don’t know if you are built different or just skilled. But these numbers for me show that you have an extreme emotional stability to handled 10 failed approches in one night.

I had zero skill and I'm not built different. It's just massive experience.

Getting failed approaches means nothing after a while. 10 failed approaches is a typical night in pickup.

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The few times I’ve cold approached was hell and very awkward, they were in the day.

You just need way more approaches.

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Yes now when I look at these approches I feel good, but I feel like if I’d  approche now it’s still like starting from zero.

It can feel like that. Warm up is important. But you also build up skill which doesn't go away.

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For example Didn’t get better at coming up with a good line fast or reduced the anxiety of approaching , Is that just how it normally is?

It takes thousands of approaches to get good.

Your first 1000 approaches will suck. It's no problem. You will get a tiny bit better from each approach.

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You’re the main source I use for dating advice, as I can at least be confident that you are not scamming us and are giving high quality advice, so I honestly want to ask you this not joking or complaining, and honestly looking to get better.

You just need way more approaches and to trust the process. You are guaranteed to get better if you do 2000 approaches.

Edited October 11 by Leo Gura