Guys! Most Of Your Beliefs About Women Are False

[Buck Edwards]

21 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

I only wish many of them would take the time to understand men a bit more,

And what are we supposed to understand about men that we don't? 

[Jayson G]

@Princess Arabia The older I get, the more I realize how different the female mind is from me. Almost like another type of human lol .. It's weird because over time, I did learn a lot about the female mind but I think its one thing to learn about the female mind from outside the female mind, and a whole other ball game to truly know the female mind from the inside. 

[Kid A]

9 hours ago, StaraX said:

@Princess Arabia I'd actually say that women have it a lot easier than men—not in life, but definitely in dating. The only time you could say men have it easier is for the top 20% of men in terms of value, meaning men with high social status or fame. But for the average guy, it's ridiculously hard to find a woman, let alone women who are 8s, 9s, or 10s. As a woman, you don't have to 'study' to get laid, whereas most men need to invest years to become good with women.

Of course, none of this is the fault of women—they're not to blame—but there's no way in hell anyone could believe that women have it harder or that dating is equally challenging. In addition, women don't have a powerful hormone called testosterone that much, which dominates a man's psyche and creates several issues if sexual needs are not met. The biggest challenge for a woman is finding a quality guy who is above her and getting commitment from him. But again, it's foolish to claim that women have it equally hard just because they struggle to find a high-value guy.

If men didn't have it harder, we wouldn't have seen the rise of incel ideology, black pill ideology, red pill ideology, Andrew Tate, etc., on this scale. Again, women are not to blame—just pointing out the reality of the situation.

Women have it easier these days, yes, but you know what? It’s completely fair. While women grow up developing social skills and spend ridiculous amounts of money on beauty products to be as attractive as possible, what do men do? We play video games, watch anime, and stay indoors during our upbringing, having no interest in developing social skills until one day we suddenly realize we’re horny and need a woman. Then we of course find out that we aren’t attractive enough, get super offended and blame women for having too high standards…

[Majed]

@Kid A this is ridiculous most women are not that attractive and struggle to find attractive guys.

[Kid A]

1 hour ago, Majed said:

this is ridiculous most women are not that attractive

Compared to men? Yes, they are. 

1 hour ago, Majed said:

and struggle to find attractive guys.

Of course. There almost aren't any. 

[Majed]

@Kid A men are free to work on themselves to be attractive like they can develop charm, wit, sense of humor, flirting and approaching skills, charisma, take care of their looks... 

Edited October 24 by Majed

[Kid A]

35 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Kid A men are free to work on themselves to be attractive like they can develop charm, wit, sense of humor, flirting and approaching skills, charisma, take care of their looks... 

Absolutely.

[Princess Arabia]

Will you guys stop talking about being attractive guys to women so much and start BEING what most women find attractive in men. Only little teeny boppers care about a cute guy enough to give him some sex. Isn't that what you all care about the most. Go find you the most attractive guy there is and ask him how many females are falling all over his lap without having the following traits. The same that are falling over the not-so-attractive ones, but who are charming, spontaneous, adventurous, witty, loves himself, caring, not needy, mysterious, smart, interesting, magnetic, personable, CHARISMATIC (huge), alluring, appealing. Ugly guys can have these traits and still get lots of women.

Attractiveness to one is not to another. One's body symmetry can change depending on the traits they exude or have. It's very rare you find someone who is miserable inside, very hateful of things, who criticizes and judges a lot and who has a disdain for life overall and the people in it, very attractive to anybody, no matter what they look like. It will show on the outside and be a repellent. Worry about these things instead of just saying attractive. What's attractive enough to get you laid is what your concerns should be if that's the ultimate goal.

Now, there are guys whose ultimate goal is to take care of a woman, provide and protect her, love and cherish her, be the one for her to fall in love with and want as a partner for life and so on and so forth. These men will already be men and have a basic idea of what women want and have already been grounded in this respect (after all, that's why they want this type of dynamic), they really don't need any personality improvements or traits as such but to be more masculine, learn more how to lead and to become a good provider. These guys will need to work more on the outside stuff than the inside like work, businesses, status and overall income and gain more stability this way. Most of these guys will already be the personality type so they won't have to work on that as much. Get it!!!!

Edited October 24 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

8 hours ago, Lyubov said:

very minimal compared to what most men have to do to make themselves competitive in dating

Men aren't trying to understand women as much. That's also apparent on this forum. How many times do you see where guys here are concerned about legitimately understanding women. In fact, they will try to tell the women on here about themselves, they will tell us that we're lying or not being upfront about certain things. They will tell us we don't know ourselves and what we want and will say things that are not in alignment with how we truly feel. Just on here alone. This was even prevalent in the thread with the pictures of the two men, one attractive and the other not as attractive. I forgot the name of the thread.

What most men are mostly working on, to be more competitive in dating is to make themselves more attractive to women, whether it be externally or internally. That's great! But I'm responding to your comments; and by saying you wish women would try to understand men more, what you really mean is, I think anyway and my opinion, is you wish women would understand what men go through to try and get a woman, to get women to want them, how hard they have to work at this and what they sacrifice in this endeavor. Huge difference. 

Women already understand men, men aren't that difficult to understand. Look good, be feminine, allow them to lead, don't over talk them especially in public, laugh at their jokes, compliment them sometimes and don't nag and be good in bed. That's it, with a few more nuances, depending on the type of man. This is standard procedure and the woman that doesn't understand you will be the ones whose personality clashes with yours. You can find a woman who doesn't understand men at all being a great partner just for existing and exuding her femininity. The opposite is also true. People don't really need to understand each other, they just need to know themselves.

[Kid A]

32 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Will you guys stop talking about being attractive guys to women so much and start BEING what most women find attractive in men. Only little teeny boppers care about a cute guy enough to give him some sex. Isn't that what you all care about the most. Go find you the most attractive guy there is and ask him how many females are falling all over his lap without having he following traits. The same that are falling over the not-so-attractive ones, but who are charming, spontaneous, adventurous, witty, loves himself, caring, not needy, mysterious, smart, interesting, magnetic, personable, CHARISMATIC (huge), alluring, appealing. Ugly guys can have these traits and still get lots of women.

Attractiveness to one is not to another. One's body symmetry can change depending on the traits they exude or have. It's very rare you find someone who is miserable inside, very hateful of things, who criticizes and judges a lot and who has a disdain for life overall and the people in it, very attractive to anybody, no matter what they look like. It will show on the outside and be a repellent. Worry about these things instead of just saying attractive. What's attractive enough to get you laid is what your concerns should be if that's the ultimate goal.

Now, there are guys whose ultimate goal is to take care of a woman, provide and protect her, love and cherish her, be the one for her to fall in love with and want as a partner for life and so on and so forth. These men will already be men and have a basic idea of what women want and have already been grounded in this respect (after all, that's why they want this type of dynamic), they really don't need any personality improvements or traits as such but to be more masculine, learn more how to lead and to become a good provider. These guys will need to work more on the outside stuff than the inside like work, businesses, status and overall income and gain more stability this way. Most of these guys will already be the personality type so they won't have to work on that as much. Get it!!!!

Not sure who you’re talking to here, but when I say «attractive,» I don’t mean appearance. At least not only…

Edited October 24 by Kid A

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Kid A said:

Not sure who you’re talking to here, but when I say «attractive,» I don’t mean appearance.

Well, I do, because those traits I mentioned will be apparent in whomever exudes them. One is still appearing attractive from the inside.

[Keryo Koffa]