Who is more lustful, men or women?

[Spiritual Warfare]

Does it apply universally or individually?

[bambi]

4 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Does it apply universally or individually?

Are you talking in terms of sex or other material things?

[Spiritual Warfare]

7 minutes ago, bambi said:

Are you talking in terms of sex or other material things?

Both, but sex is fun, so let's start there.

[Keryo Koffa]

That's like asking: Which of your hands is more skin-colored?

[bambi]

4 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Both, but sex is fun, so let's start there.

Then on average accoridng to studies, men will be more lustful. They will think about explicit sex more, masturbate more and watch more pornography, by all available data I have read.

This is just averages though, and individual variation will vary greatly. Also their is a complex web of confounding variables for trying to explain this

[Spiritual Warfare]

2 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

That's like asking: Which of your hands is more skin-colored?

Brother, this goes way deeper than that.

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, bambi said:

Then on average accoridng to studies, men will be more lustful. They will think about explicit sex more, masturbate more and watch more pornography, by all available data I have read.

This is just averages though, and individual variation will vary greatly. Also their is a complex web of confounding variables for trying to explain this

Thank you, but the studies must have been conducted years ago because I read a study not that long ago that said women have as much of a sex drive as men; they are just more patient with it.

[bambi]

2 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Thank you, but the studies must have been conducted years ago because I read a study not that long ago that said women have as much of a sex drive as men; they are just more patient with it.

This is a wierd response and gives insights into your pyschology. You are creating a false dichotomy here. Lust and sex drive are not the same thing. And most of your statements are non-sequitor.

Lets cut to the shit, are you worried about female sexuality in terms of your own sexual needs?

[Spiritual Warfare]

10 minutes ago, bambi said:

This is a wierd response and gives insights into your pyschology. You are creating a false dichotomy here. Lust and sex drive are not the same thing. And most of your statements are non-sequitor.

Lets cut to the shit, are you worried about female sexuality in terms of your own sexual needs?

I understand that lust and sex drive are not exactly the same thing, but they are still related. Lust can be seen as a part of sex drive, where lust represents the immediate desire or attraction, while sex drive refers to the overall sexuality and need for intimacy. So in a way, they really do go hand in hand.

I’m not worried about female sexuality in relation to my own needs. I’m interested in understanding sexuality as a whole.

 

[bambi]

10 minutes ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

I understand that lust and sex drive are not exactly the same thing, but they are still related. Lust can be seen as a part of sex drive, where lust represents the immediate desire or attraction, while sex drive refers to the overall sexuality and need for intimacy. So in a way, they really do go hand in hand.

I’m not worried about female sexuality in relation to my own needs. I’m interested in understanding sexuality as a whole.

 

No, not quite:

1. Lust is fundamentally a psychological function.
2. It represents a mental projection—an imagined future scenario that is desirable to the individual.
3. Lust also has a physiological aspect, triggering pleasure responses to the fantasy, compelling the individual to bring that fantasy into reality.
4. Lust is broad; at its core, it’s about desiring something that doesn’t currently exist. It has a self-centered focus, rather than an inclusive one.

So yes, some sexuality can be lustful, and some lust can be sexual.

People who are highly lustful in their sexuality are often using lust as a coping mechanism. Lustful fantasies provide a dopamine hit, and like any addiction, it becomes a cycle that feeds on itself.

Human sexuality is often distorted by psychological lust. Lust is inherently imaginary, hijacking natural biological instincts to serve its own ends. It’s frequently used as a coping mechanism for underlying psychological issues, leading to more extreme sexual behaviors, which manifest as kinks or fetishes.

Edited October 2 by bambi

[Spiritual Warfare]

4 minutes ago, bambi said:

No, not quite:

1. Lust is fundamentally a psychological function.
2. It represents a mental projection—an imagined future scenario that is desirable to the individual.
3. Lust also has a physiological aspect, triggering pleasure responses to the fantasy, compelling the individual to bring that fantasy into reality.
4. Lust is broad; at its core, it’s about desiring something that doesn’t currently exist. It has a self-centered focus, rather than an inclusive one.

So yes, some sexuality can be lustful, and some lust can be sexual.

People who are highly lustful in their sexuality are often using lust as a coping mechanism. Lustful fantasies provide a dopamine hit, and like any addiction, it becomes a cycle that feeds on itself.

Human sexuality is often distorted by psychological lust. Lust is inherently imaginary, hijacking natural biological instincts to serve its own ends. It’s frequently used as a coping mechanism for underlying psychological issues, leading to more extreme sexual behaviors, which manifest as kinks or fetishes.

Not all expressions of lust lead to negative consequences, some individuals may find empowerment and confidence through their desires, don't you think?

 

[Buck Edwards]

This is not a gender thing. It's like asking who is more greedy, men or women? 

[Spiritual Warfare]

1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said:

This is not a gender thing. It's like asking who is more greedy, men or women? 

It is a gender issue because women and men are biologically different, which should not be shocking to anyone. They often experience lust differently due to these physiological differences.

 

[Tenebroso]

Men watch more porn but Women apparently watch more hardcore stuff. I think Women are potentially more sexual but they find a small minority of men attractive, so don't always have the desired outlet for their sexuality.

[Leo Gura]

The Lusty Argonian Maid

[Atb210201]

Generally you could say men.

We are mostly men here come on we know ourselves don't we?

And that's because women's bodies are so lust worthy too. They are more worthy of being lusted over.

I'm really Sorry if I sounded creepy though everybody I think knows it is the case.

Edited October 2 by Atb210201

[Hojo]

I asked a woman at work and she said women think about sex more than men. But I'm pretty sure men do everything more extreme than women.

She was basically saying that its all they think about is what I got from it. Maybe not as hard-core as men. Men might fantasize about domination women might fantasize about something not relating to dominance.

Edited October 3 by Hojo

[Emerald]

4 hours ago, Spiritual Warfare said:

Does it apply universally or individually?

Let's put it this way.

Men love sex like Scooby and Shaggy love food.

Women love sex like Gordon Ramsey loves food.

Who loves food more? Scooby and Shaggy or Gordon Ramsey?

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Emerald said:

Let's put it this way.

Men love sex like Scooby and Shaggy love food.

Women love sex like Gordon Ramsey loves food.

Who loves food more? Scooby and Shaggy or Gordon Ramsey?

Omg I laughed so hard. Thanks a lot for the comedian in you. 

[Emerald]

Just now, Buck Edwards said:

Omg I laughed so hard. Thanks a lot for the comedian in you. 

I'm glad it made you laugh.