Who is more lustful, men or women?

[Butters]

9 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Could you describe the style if you dont mind ?  

Out of curiosity.

Ladyboys 🍆

[Yimpa]

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Who is more lustful, men or women?

Neither.

 

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Butters said:

Ladyboys 🍆

Ahah.

That would explain his ease in putting DMT in his behind. 

[Spiritual Warfare]

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.

[Keryo Koffa]

58 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Nothing will defeat frenchy wily.

Baguette egregor. 

@Schizophonia in a nutshell:

"You want some...

5 Baguettes-yptamine?"

Edited October 3 by Keryo Koffa

[RendHeaven]

@MsNobody Thank you for this. I spent longer on that post than I would've liked (a whole hour... sigh).

My aim is for men and women to begin to understand each other. Half the battle is to merely hold the "other" in your mind as a force of good, even when you are looking at their ugliest representatives.

God, I love women so much. If God erased women overnight, I would kill myself without question.

The only time I've ever heard "I love men so much," EVER, was from a group of Latinas lol

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

My aim is for men and women to begin to understand each other.

Never!

[Emerald]

16 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Takes two to make a glory hole.

Every so-call Scooby-Doo lay is made possible by a woman of suppossedly superlative taste.

Some can overlook taste in exchange for money.

It's probably not the case that very many women would work a glory hole for her own gratification.

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Some can overlook taste in exchange for money.

It's probably not the case that very many women would work a glory hole for her own gratification.

Come to Vegas and you'll see women by the thousands engaging in the most Scooby-Doo forms of sex. It's an eye-opener. Sucking dick in the bathroom. Very Gordon Ramsey.

Edited October 4 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

Men judge rather harshly when a low conscious behavior comes from a woman but fail to apply the same standards to other men. It's ingrained in them. 

 

Edited October 4 by Buck Edwards

[Emerald]

18 hours ago, Consept said:

Lol yeah that's a pretty good analogy. Patrice O' Neal did a joke something like, men put their dick in a glory hole just so something happens to it they don't care what. For women sex starts when they meet a guy and they are conniseurs of it

Thank you.

I find that sex is super intriguing to me on so many levels, and I think about it a lot. But I don't need it in large quantities. 

It's a different mode that's less about the a to b pursuit of orgasm. And I'm not very motivated towards climax most of the time.

It's very non-linear and non-directional. And it's more like bathing in a soup of very intriguing pleasant emotions and meanings. 

It's like a wine-taster who enjoys picking up on all these different subtle notes, but rarely drinks wine for the purpose of getting drunk.

And without these complex subtle emotional flavors, sex and orgasm is somewhat boring because the physical sexual sensation by itself is only mildly compelling. It's taking something subtle and multi-dimensional and collapsing it down to something overt and uni-dimensional, which can feel draining. 

And this is what often leads men to the conclusion that women aren't as interested in sex. But that's not true.

It's just that sex without emotions is like eating bland food with no spice. And Gordon Ramsey would probably go hungry rather than eat bland food with no spice. 

[Buck Edwards]

6 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Thank you.

I find that sex is super intriguing to me on so many levels, and I think about it a lot. But I don't need it in large quantities. 

It's a different mode that's less about the a to b pursuit of orgasm. And I'm not very motivated towards climax most of the time.

It's very non-linear and non-directional. And it's more like bathing in a soup of very intriguing pleasant emotions and meanings. 

It's like a wine-taster who enjoys picking up on all these different subtle notes, but rarely drinks wine for the purpose of getting drunk.

And without these complex subtle emotional flavors, sex and orgasm is somewhat boring because the physical sexual sensation by itself is only mildly compelling. It's taking something subtle and multi-dimensional and collapsing it down to something overt and uni-dimensional, which can feel draining. 

And this is what often leads men to the conclusion that women aren't as interested in sex. But that's not true.

It's just that sex without emotions is like eating bland food with no spice. And Gordon Ramsey would probably go hungry rather than eat bland food with no spice. 

Yea women also need that emotional stimulation. And they deeply desire that romantic sexual feeling, it has to have a vibe that pleases her feminine instinct, she doesn't want it too mechanical, a lot of women want foreplay for the same reason. We don't hook on to sex like drug addicts. We have to feel the aesthetic and the romantic atmosphere, for us pleasure is a full package, also the same reason why women prefer (and I especially do) erotica so much over porn. 

[Emerald]

14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Come to Vegas and you'll see women by the thousands engaging in the most Scooby-Doo forms of sex. It's an eye-opener. Sucking dick in the bathroom. Very Gordon Ramsey.

Sure, women can enjoy that from time to time. And I've certainly had my fair share "Scooby Doo sex" with some one night stands or even just routine sex with a partner. And there wasn't anything very complex about it, and it's enjoyable enough.

Though, I don't think many women would enjoy a glory hole specifically as most women don't want to suck random dicks through the wall. I'm sure that some do. But I don't think that's very many women's fantasy.

What I'm saying is that, women tend to be far less compelled by this type of sexual interaction... while men are highly compelled by it. 

Women are more compelled by all the emotional subtleties associated with the sexual experience. And we're HIGHLY compelled by it.

But this makes us generally pickier with sex and less motivated towards it, because Scooby Doo sex usually doesn't scratch the actual itch.

Scooby Doo sex is a bit like eating food that has no flavor. And that's fine for morning oatmeal. But if you're a woman, you're going to need a little more than that to get really excited. 

And because of this pickiness, the conclusion is often drawn that women aren't as lustful. 

But that's because there's a whole kaleidoscope of feelings that has to be in play for us to really want sex. And we're super obsessed with that kaleidoscope. But in most sexual encounters, you're probably not going to feel the kaleidoscope. 

[Emerald]

8 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Yea women also need that emotional stimulation. And they deeply desire that romantic sexual feeling, it has to have a vibe that pleases her feminine instinct, she doesn't want it too mechanical, a lot of women want foreplay for the same reason. We don't hook on to sex like drug addicts. We have to feel the aesthetic and the romantic atmosphere, for us pleasure is a full package, also the same reason why women prefer (and I especially do) erotica so much over porn. 

Yes, that's true. Erotica tends to be a lot more stimulating than porn from my pov as well because the story evokes emotions and mimics in the imagination the real life experience of being with a living breathing person.

And I can watch porn and be turned on by it, and it enhances the self-pleasuring. But it's a different mode of arousal altogether that's far less compelling. 

Like, there's so much heart-centered and mind-centered arousal that gets missed with porn. And I tend to feel drained afterwards. But I feel energized, if I've just used my imagination or read some kind of erotica (which I rarely do. I prefer my imagination.)

[Leo Gura]

16 minutes ago, Emerald said:

while men are highly compelled by it. 

Many men are not compelled by glory holes. Don't exaggerate. Glory holes are for perverts and degenerates.

Edited October 4 by Leo Gura

[MsNobody]

@Leo Gura 

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Never!

Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world, just because you don’t understand women doesn’t mean others can’t  

plus a woman is to be loved, not understood 

[Emerald]

22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Many men are not compelled by glory holes. Don't exaggerate. Glory holes are for perverts and degenerates.

That's a straw man of what I'm saying, and you know it.

I never said many men are compelled by glory holes. I'd imagine that less than half would be willing to go to a glory hole.

I said, that men are compelled towards sex the way that Shaggy and Scooby are compelled towards food.... but that that orientation towards sex doesn't usually scratch the itch for women.

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, Emerald said:

the way that Shaggy and Scooby are compelled towards food

As if women are above that.

[Emerald]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

As if women are above that.

Another straw man.

I didn't say women are above it either. I told you that I've had my fair share of that kind of sex and that it's fine enough.

What I'm saying is that that usually doesn't scratch the itch.

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Emerald said:

What I'm saying is that that usually doesn't scratch the itch.

There are tiers of itchiness.