I can't have fun at the parties!

[jacknine119]

Hi, i don't feel emotions too much. I really live without emotions.(I don't know why.) When i am in a for example family little party i can't have joy there,too. 

Yeah, i make some dance moves and i really don't care what other people think but i still can't have fun. 

What is the reason of this? Thank you!<3

[Buck Edwards]

I don't like partying either. There's nothing fundamentally wrong with it. You can do a plethora of activities that pique your interest. 

Try cooking or other solitary activities. Cooking will help you bond with food in a healthy way and it's a good way to increase weight. You had queried about weight issues so cooking yummy food is a good way of spending time and bonding with food. 

[Leo Gura]

Do you have fun doing anything?

[Something Funny]

@jacknine119 You sure had fun choosing that profile picture though

[HMD]

@jacknine119

3 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

I really live without emotions.(I don't know why.)

I don't want to jump the gun and make assumptions, but this could be because you are used to numbing yourself instead of feeling your emotions deeply. 

[Ramanujan]

You are build differently than others . Thats why . There are others like you , who are build differently

[Kksd74628]

@jacknine119

You are the source of fun. If you don't produce fun then it ain't exist. Doesn't matter where you are or what you do.

[Jannes]

@jacknine119 Was it always like that?

[jacknine119]

@Buck Edwards Thanks for that mindset!

[jacknine119]

@Leo Gura yeah. When i play table tennis or play volleyball. Or reading or listening something very interesting for example your podcasts my man^-^

[jacknine119]

@Jannes As people around me tell me i was very active person before 4years old. After that i am shy.

[jacknine119]

@Kksd74628 Then how can i create fun?

[jacknine119]

@HMD yeah and i started diary. Is it good idea for solving this?

[Kksd74628]

@jacknine119

By seeing fun, finding your style of it and bringing it consciously up in your life. Hope you understand that you are the stand up comedian and the person laughing to those jokes simultaneously and life is your stage.

Explain me how you understand that and how you could you use it practically in your life.

[shree]

Hi @jacknine119

If you were to ask me for advice on the root of your problem, I’d suggest giving ChatGPT a detailed rundown of your psychological condition. Let it help diagnose you and recommend five books that specifically address those issues.

I don’t mean to sound harsh, but based on a few of your posts, it seems like you’re not fully aware of your deepest problems, which is why you're unable to work directly on them.

You need to become an expert on your own psychology, weaknesses, and shadows.

 

[Basman]

Not feeling emotions sounds like a psychological issue.

In my experience, if someone doesn't like to party in general its because they have some sort of emotional hang up when with other people. Very rarely do people not enjoy being social and having fun in essence.

[Chadders]

@jacknine119 I wouldn’t think too deeply about it. You just don’t like social occasions. If you’re introverted that will explain why

If you want to enjoy social occasions more start making a conscious effort to develop yourself socially. That’ll give you a purpose for engaging in such occasions 

[UnbornTao]

By emotion, do you mean excitement? 

[Kksd74628]

@Basman

No. Why everything must be psychological issue/ mental illness in today's shithole era. Maybe just figure out what you like and create more of that. Plain simple.

[jacknine119]

@UnbornTao yeah i mean that and i can't also laught often