What qualities do you look for in a deeply spiritual partner?

[Buck Edwards]

If you wanted a deeply spiritual partner, what kind of qualities would you be looking for in them? 

[Buck Edwards]

Nothing personal. Just a hypothetical question. 

[Marcel]

Love of learning, open mindedness, honesty, integrity, excellence, similar or complementary life purposes, authenticity, communication skills, openness, vulnerability, being principled, confidence, commitment

Edited September 28 by Marcel

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, Marcel said:

Love of learning, open mindedness, honesty, integrity, excellence, similar or contemporary life purposes, authenticity, communication skills, openness, vulnerability, being principled, confidence, commitment

Thanks. 

[cjoseph90]

2 hours ago, Marcel said:

Love of learning, open mindedness, honesty, integrity, excellence, similar or complementary life purposes, authenticity, communication skills, openness, vulnerability, being principled, confidence, commitment

+1 good list. Loving and integrity especially

[Ash55]

Kind, Loving, Successful, into yoga, loves learning, loves travel, take care of her health eat mostly clear
"i tried dating a girl that eat junk she start judging me how i use olive oil in rice and make them taste bad", doesn't believe that religion honor women lol "i came from the middle east", I also love artists and Am an artist my self all types of artist find attractive

the most important quality is compatibility and deep connection + love

doesn't attack me and treat me meanly lol, take responsibility of her part of the relationship  

understands that i just want her quality time, so i only need to spend time with her and talk with her about deep conversations, so she want somewhat the same thing expecting me to buy her expensive jewelry (literally happened to me)   or luxury car or a castle, i would simply say  we are incompatible

appreciate the gift i give her

Not being consumed by fear and distrustful of man no one is perfect but if a man hate women or a women hate man then we have a major issue

if she is funny that is a ++

my idealistic relationship would be an extremely wise women also funny doesn't have too much drama and catastrophizing, positive , that is also successful, reasonable feminine, if the girl too feminine she can't put her live together lol so she need a tiny bit of masculinity, that loves travel and things like meditation yoga, that i can spend time talking to her, i can also spend quality time traveling with her, we can work together, and we can create a family together  as out relationship progresses

edit: i do care about the look but am somewhat simple

I assume alladin jiny will grant my wishes so i gave more details LOL

Edited September 28 by Ash55

[Buck Edwards]

14 hours ago, Ash55 said:

Kind, Loving, Successful, into yoga, loves learning, loves travel, take care of her health eat mostly clear
"i tried dating a girl that eat junk she start judging me how i use olive oil in rice and make them taste bad", doesn't believe that religion honor women lol "i came from the middle east", I also love artists and Am an artist my self all types of artist find attractive

the most important quality is compatibility and deep connection + love

doesn't attack me and treat me meanly lol, take responsibility of her part of the relationship  

understands that i just want her quality time, so i only need to spend time with her and talk with her about deep conversations, so she want somewhat the same thing expecting me to buy her expensive jewelry (literally happened to me)   or luxury car or a castle, i would simply say  we are incompatible

appreciate the gift i give her

Not being consumed by fear and distrustful of man no one is perfect but if a man hate women or a women hate man then we have a major issue

if she is funny that is a ++

my idealistic relationship would be an extremely wise women also funny doesn't have too much drama and catastrophizing, positive , that is also successful, reasonable feminine, if the girl too feminine she can't put her live together lol so she need a tiny bit of masculinity, that loves travel and things like meditation yoga, that i can spend time talking to her, i can also spend quality time traveling with her, we can work together, and we can create a family together  as out relationship progresses

edit: i do care about the look but am somewhat simple

I assume alladin jiny will grant my wishes so i gave more details LOL

Great. May he grant your wishes. 

[Ishanga]

On 9/28/2024 at 4:09 AM, Buck Edwards said:

If you wanted a deeply spiritual partner, what kind of qualities would you be looking for in them? 

That My Partner is Complete within themselves and therefore not Extracting or Taking anything from Me, their Peaceful/Blissful of their own nature, they choose to be with Me not to get something from Me but to Share what they are with Me, and I am the same for them..

Relationships should never be about Extraction from Other, its about Sharing with Other!

[Buck Edwards]

35 minutes ago, Ishanga said:

That My Partner is Complete within themselves and therefore not Extracting or Taking anything from Me, their Peaceful/Blissful of their own nature, they choose to be with Me not to get something from Me but to Share what they are with Me, and I am the same for them..

Relationships should never be about Extraction from Other, its about Sharing with Other!

That's an awesome insight. 

[Letho]

@Buck Edwards these days I put genetics first; taboo aryan race stuff. It's because I've realised I've been brainwashed to think it doesn't matter, in reality however, we have many problems that have emerged as a result of this. It makes so many people insecure though that we can't speak rationally. However for me, it's not even 'taste', its practicality. I'm a guy that would otherwise put deeper energetic connection first, now that I've learned from experience I've realised the illusions in that space as well, not that its totally impermanent however if there's any validity to its permanence it requires a set of qualities anyway that usually relate to a persons genetics. I know many women of many races now, and I appreciate all of their uniqueness, however it's only because I want to start a family. If I didn't want to start a family, I wouldn't care in the slightest outside of the persons proven value.

This means there's still compromise if compromise means preserving a genuinely deep connection and the wisdoms in the right place, however there's obstacles for me to overcome internally when it comes to raising a family with with a Vietnamese, Cambodian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai or other asian women compared to say a Ukrainian, Russian, Bulgarian or Columbian woman; I haven't visited many European countries hence why its so far just restricted to Ukraine and Russia, another country where I have a connection is Ireland, and she's possible however to be honest, even though I think she'd be a great mother she's a little too authoritarian for me even though there's a spark .

There's undeniably very beautiful asian women, my concern is not of beauty but of build, personality traits and other. All in all though, I still need to go through a systematic genocultural, to coin the word, analysis. If I chose Asia, I have no doubt I'd be able to get away with having multiple children with multiple wives to still raise a strong loving interdependent family with a firm value-hierarchy, however I also wouldn't be able to include women indoctrinated into more of a western influence relating to number of wives, moreover, I am leaving some temporal space still open concerning the finding of the right woman. I may even decide to settle down with a Cypriot woman, or any race at the end of the day depending on the connection, however at the end of the day this comes down to protecting the integrity of my family name for generations to come, which is a systematic undertaking. 

I don't care if people get offended with my choices, I deal with reality in the cultivation of a stable inner culture, I don't care about peoples identities anymore if they're not able to just be mature adults when it comes to healthy self reflection and self-reflection. 

People forget they're creators, so they should ensure at all times their creative process is respected first and foremost by themselves with the right value-set (which includes knowing how to take healthy feedback from trusted persons) but also others i.e. enforcing boundaries on choices if necessary. So when I have a child with a woman one of the worst case scenarios is I'm saying "Well I love the connection we have however I shouldn't have chosen them in light of x, y genetics" as its totally incompatible with my family name and the legacy we've so far created. For some strange reason for the most difficult and most important decision of someones life that wants to start a family, somehow they're expected to be people pleasers for those that get offended when they take that decision seriously; then we wonder why we have the societal problems we do.

As usual, there's a combination of logic (genetic) and intuition (energetic connection) when it comes to solving these dilemmas, and I've already got it all there so its going to be pretty straightforward. I'm sure my commenting will aid someone who's open minded but lacking both. Especially when they just look at 'genetics' as attraction, which is only one shade of it, moreover its only one shade of 'energy' as well, we may be attracted to someone because we have codependent tendencies and they have narcissistic one's creating a perfect sized shoe and foot scenario.

 

[Buck Edwards]

3 minutes ago, Letho said:

@Buck Edwards these days I put genetics first; taboo aryan race stuff. It's because I've realised I've been brainwashed to think it doesn't matter, in reality however, we have many problems that have emerged as a result of this. It makes so many people insecure though that we can't speak rationally. However for me, it's not even 'taste', its practicality. I'm a guy that would otherwise put deeper energetic connection first, now that I've learned from experience I've realised the illusions in that space as well, not that its totally impermanent however if there's any validity to its permanence it requires a set of qualities anyway that usually relate to a persons genetics. I know many women of many races now, and I appreciate all of their uniqueness, however it's only because I want to start a family. If I didn't want to start a family, I wouldn't care in the slightest outside of the persons proven value.

This means there's still compromise if compromise means preserving a genuinely deep connection and the wisdoms in the right place, however there's obstacles for me to overcome internally when it comes to raising a family with with a Vietnamese, Cambodian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai or other asian women compared to say a Ukrainian, Russian, Bulgarian or Columbian woman; I haven't visited many European countries hence why its so far just restricted to Ukraine and Russia, another country where I have a connection is Ireland, and she's possible however to be honest, even though I think she'd be a great mother she's a little too authoritarian for me even though there's a spark .

There's undeniably very beautiful asian women, my concern is not of beauty but of build, personality traits and other. All in all though, I still need to go through a systematic genocultural, to coin the word, analysis. If I chose Asia, I have no doubt I'd be able to get away with having multiple children with multiple wives to still raise a strong loving interdependent family with a firm value-hierarchy, however I also wouldn't be able to include women indoctrinated into more of a western influence relating to number of wives, moreover, I am leaving some temporal space still open concerning the finding of the right woman. I may even decide to settle down with a Cypriot woman, or any race at the end of the day depending on the connection, however at the end of the day this comes down to protecting the integrity of my family name for generations to come, which is a systematic undertaking. 

I don't care if people get offended with my choices, I deal with reality in the cultivation of a stable inner culture, I don't care about peoples identities anymore if they're not able to just be mature adults when it comes to healthy self reflection and self-reflection. 

People forget they're creators, so they should ensure at all times their creative process is respected first and foremost by themselves with the right value-set (which includes knowing how to take healthy feedback from trusted persons) but also others i.e. enforcing boundaries on choices if necessary. So when I have a child with a woman one of the worst case scenarios is I'm saying "Well I love the connection we have however I shouldn't have chosen them in light of x, y genetics" as its totally incompatible with my family name and the legacy we've so far created. For some strange reason for the most difficult and most important decision of someones life that wants to start a family, somehow they're expected to be people pleasers for those that get offended when they take that decision seriously; then we wonder why we have the societal problems we do.

As usual, there's a combination of logic (genetic) and intuition (energetic connection) when it comes to solving these dilemmas, and I've already got it all there so its going to be pretty straightforward. I'm sure my commenting will aid someone who's open minded but lacking both. Especially when they just look at 'genetics' as attraction, which is only one shade of it, moreover its only one shade of 'energy' as well, we may be attracted to someone because we have codependent tendencies and they have narcissistic one's creating a perfect sized shoe and foot scenario.

 

Why do I get the vibe that you have a long long long laundry list of what you want in a woman of your choosing? 

And I think that I missed the spiritual part somewhere. But kudos to you for being firm on your choice. 

[Letho]

@Buck Edwards I literally don't. I have one: family. That's it. I compartmentalise everything into that category now including energetic connection and then let it all unfold from there as a self-consistent ontology .

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, Letho said:

@Buck Edwards I literally don't. I have one: family. That's it. I compartmentalise everything into that category now including energetic connection and then let it all unfold from there as a self-consistent ontology .

Excellent! That sounds good. Family values. 

[Letho]

@Buck Edwards It's all people should focus on and yet western civilisation try to get them to focus on something else so that they can steal 'family' from underneath you; its how they keep unhealthy forms of collectivism in check, through more unhealthy forms of collectivism, that results in western civilisation destroying itself from the inside out, as it has. But that's another topic. Life is family, from here we learn interdependence and from this, the unity of "Self" and "Other" enough to then call the whole animal kingdom family, then learn how to teach that slowly to open minds, like our children, in the future.

[Keryo Koffa]

@Letho What about  ?

[Letho]

@Keryo Koffa Yeah I have to explore more of south america, I only have connections in Colombia; and although its not black and white in light of some of the cultural difficulties they have there, my connections are only positive. One woman I know there she's very connected spiritually (psychism; after-life, ancestors, deep consciousness bonds, etc), and that's one of the most important qualities when it comes to *family* to me; spirituality minus connection though which is the the overlap with family is like holding a candle in a church while waiting to die. Lots of women that are spiritual but are just sexually spiritual and they get high off their sexuality rather than establishing any genuinely deep connections, especially where there's an unhealthy connection to psychedelics. There's many, many more positive things I have to explore in South America.

[Keryo Koffa]

@Letho I thought so, of the 7 6 continents (Antarctica only has Penguins and the Mars colony ain't set up yet), North America, Australia, and Western Europe can roughly be described as a converging piece of the stylistic cultural gradient. Northern Europe shifts into greener aspects, yet remains strongly individualistic, while the eastern and south-eastern blocks tend to be more traditional, though also authoritative, due to their past and present geopolitical positioning. The south and southwestern parts are more culturally open and expressive. Asia varies, the eastern part suffers from strong individual repression, masked as etiquette, while China as a whole is a vast area with its own issues. The southeastern coastal regions and islands are of course very rural, traditional, and open, while going further into the western side of the mainland like india will present a vastly different cultural set, which is to say: Asia ≠ Asia. Then there's Africa, which is the most distinct and diverse area one can travel to, while South America culturally maintains past mysticism with a strong collective family focus while being sufficiently integrated into the Western sphere at the same time, which is why I thought it might fit your search.

Edited October 6 by Keryo Koffa

[Letho]

@Keryo Koffa I'm looking forward to going to Denmark soon.