Leo please consider this.

[Rishabh R]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Well, I sympathize with that because many people are starting this work from a weak and difficult position, as position of lack and hurt. So a delicate touch is necessary or those people lose hope.

I already started this work through watching your videos since , 2016 January . 😁 Also your videos on positive thinking and optimism improved my grades due to which I passed my 11th grade/class.

Edited September 28 by Rishabh R

[NoSelfSelf]

28 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Well, I sympathize with that because many people are starting this work from a weak and difficult position, a position of lack and hurt. So a delicate touch is necessary or those people lose hope. I am working to improve myself in that regard.

I havent consider it from that perspective,since when i was in really bad state mentally, only thing that couldnt be destroyed is hope.It never crossed my mind to quit on myself,that's my bias.At some point one has to toughen its skin when one is not so bad mentally,i cant see if someones full of trauma or just being a baby that needs punch on its chest its tough call...

[RightHand]

16 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Your feedback has been heard, I will keep improving on this front.

To be clear, that comment I made about pigs was not an insult of your physical appearance, it was a deep insight about the nature of bias and love. I am sorry it hurt you.

The truth is that it does hurt when girls ignore/reject you. Facing that is part of the challenge of life as a man. Most girls will not be attracted to you. But don't give up. Some girls will like you.

 

16 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

 

Lmao. I love this shit.

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

only thing that couldnt be destroyed is hope.

A lot of people these days are hopeless.

[Javfly33]

6 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

That , I am girl are the same chasing the things that fit our biases. Yes I recognise that I am biased and the girl is also biased but she abused me , bullied me for saying her I love you online . Her friend also threatened me  and she started dating other guy. However, that is the thing of past as that girl is not longer in my life. It's ok Leo , now it no longer hurts me.

If you want advice, just forget completely about understanding Love in that way.

If you find a girl that you match with then Love Will happen between both of you too. Saying i Love you might happen but It should happen as a natural way, It Will be true.

 

Your example Seems a classic issue of trying put her in a pedestal, apart from being dependent on her answer.

Think It like this, if you really loved her you would not care about what ever she replies.

You clearly were dependent on her reply.

 

This kind of dynamic with women (or with men for that Matter), Will always Crush you. You Will always always lose, trust me.

 

[Basman]

I think Leo has improved a lot in terms of his delivery since I started using this forum regularly. Used to be way more arrogant and obnoxious. Its good to see him striving to improve and it inspires to be mindful of how I act myself.

In my own experience, the little things can make or break someone. Like someone being randomly rude or annoying, despite being relatively insignificant, does add a little bit more to someones emotional bucket and could be the drop that tips it over. Looking back over the bad experiences I had in general, the little things did matter.

[Peo]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

A lot of people these days are hopeless.

Without hope, what is the point of life. No hope=death. This is why i always stay hopeful in life.