Leo’s advise about dating and sex are mostly aimed towards man

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Jayson G said:

@Leo Gura if you care to share, do you have any updates on the reprogramming mind course? 

Sorry, it is delayed due to health problems.

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

Sorry, it is delayed due to health problems.

Hopefully it's released by January. 

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura I hope that your health improves.

[Jayson G]

18 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Sorry, it is delayed due to health problems.

@Leo Gura No worries, your health comes first to us. 

[Leo Gura]

Thanks guys.

[Butters]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

If your sex drive was high enough you'd be humping a doorknob. It's nothing personal.

When I was a kid my friend and I got our dog to hump a stuffed animal. Facts. 

[gettoefl]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Looks is the biggest form of value in mating.

No woman "just" likes a man. She only likes him to the extent that he has value to her.

This is why guys talk about value. Because the most important way for a guy to attract girls is to raise his value. Once his value is raised girls flock to him when otherwise they ignored him. And then when he tells the girl that she likes him due to his higher value she will deny it because she has not conscious understanding of why she feels whatever she feels. She doesn't even care to know. She just assumes she likes him for some superficial reasons.

Your explaination of how mating works is so superficial it's downright offensive to God's design. As if a living organism can just feel things without it being connected to survival. No! Survival is the only reason you feel anything about anything. Feelings are not cute arbitrary things. Feelings are dead serious. There's no room in feelings for bullshit. Feelings are how animals survive.

A woman doesn't even see a low value man. She is blind to such men. That's how serious value is.

My myopic take:

He wants sexiness; She wants status

What this means for him is when he asks her out, he already eliminated all other women in his options and she is indubitably the one

What this means for her is when he asks her out, she has a yes or no answer to give, and status can only be guessed at in that first minute. So as long as he acquits himself passably well she has good incentive to give him a chance to prove his worth.

His choice is definitely a yes. Her choice is definitely a provisional maybe.

Bottom line, sexiness isn't nearly as fakable as status while certainly being plenty enough to be marriable

All the while she will bide her time to see if she is really that magical 777 he claims to be in the first minute

He's hooked with the looks and she figuring did he cook the books

Different value systems

 

[Leo Gura]

19 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

She wants status

Status is too narrow. She wants something more... fundamental.

But your analysis is about right.

The simple way to put it is: masculine wants feminine, and feminine wants masculine.

Edited September 28 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

11 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

My myopic take:

He wants sexiness; She wants status

What this means for him is when he asks her out, he already eliminated all other women in his options and she is indubitably the one

What this means for her is when he asks her out, she has a yes or no answer to give, and status can only be guessed at in that first minute. So as long as he acquits himself passably well she has good incentive to give him a chance to prove his worth.

His choice is definitely a yes. Her choice is definitely a provisional maybe.

Bottom line, sexiness isn't nearly as fakable as status while certainly being plenty enough to be marriable

All the while she will bide her time to see if she is really that magical 777 he claims to be in the first minute

He's hooked with the looks and she figuring did he cook the books

Different value systems

 

Why are men so fixated on looks? 

[Leo Gura]

11 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Why are men so fixated on looks? 

Because feminine is supposed to be beautiful.

Like how masculine is supposed to be strong.

Edited September 28 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

Like how masculine is supposed to be strong.

I never saw girls being fixated on a guy's body that much. Weird. We don't normally screen guys for strength. In fact girls are often attracted to vulnerable men. Maybe what men prefer is an outcome of years of social conditioning and not necessarily evolutionary psychology and or genetics. Maybe it's a status thing for men to parade beautiful women as trophies to one up other men, I don't know. 

[gettoefl]

27 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Status is too narrow. She wants something more... fundamental.

But your analysis is about right.

The simple way to put it is: masculine wants feminine, and feminine wants masculine.

Correct

[gettoefl]

21 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Why are men so fixated on looks? 

She feeds the world, he seeds the world

Looks are what determine whether he can or not

If you get my point 

Edited September 28 by gettoefl

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

I never saw girls being fixated on a guy's body that much.

Strength is not merely physical.

Strength is pulling a guy's teeth out with pliers as he screams.

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We don't normally screen guys for strength.

Of course you do.

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In fact girls are often attracted to vulnerable men.

That's a fantasy, not reality.

Nothing makes a woman drier than a weak man. That's your friendzone.

Edited September 28 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

Just now, gettoefl said:

she feeds the world, he seeds the world

Looks are what determine whether he can or not

If you get my point 

Women are more liberal minded with what they want in men. We don't have strict boundaries or a laundry list. We're organically attracted to men. You don't see women walking around with wing women or dating coaches. We simply don't possess a strict compass while navigating dating as to what we want in a man. Yes loyalty is one. But it's not a part of attraction. It's weird how men are overly logical about it to the point that they just lay it out like a software blueprint. 

[gettoefl]

Just now, Buck Edwards said:

Women are more liberal minded with what they want in men. We don't have strict boundaries or a laundry list. We're organically attracted to men. You don't see women walking around with wing women or dating coaches. We simply don't possess a strict compass while navigating dating as to what we want in a man. Yes loyalty is one. But it's not a part of attraction. It's weird how men are overly logical about it to the point that they just lay it out like a software blueprint. 

Yes because you receive rather than generate

Different dynamic

[Tenebroso]

@Leo Gura Is it possible to give up entirely on sex, romance/love and still live a productive, fulfilling life? Have you ever known a guy who has done this?

[gettoefl]

22 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

And masculine is supposed to be? 

Man provides the strength, safety, security and stability that woman needs to thrive

Edited September 28 by gettoefl

[Ulax]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Sorry, it is delayed due to health problems.

No need to apologize for delays due to health issues, imo, mate.

All the best with your health issues.

[Leo Gura]

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