Leo’s advise about dating and sex are mostly aimed towards man

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

That's easy to say when you are a rabbit and not hungry wolf.

A secure man is not a wolf. 

[TheEnigma]

1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said:

A secure man is not a wolf. 

I like wolves

[aurum]

4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

But there's so much pressure, aggression and frustration with the "I want a girl" mindset. Instead know that approaching is always good, there is always something to learn one way or another. What's healthy for a guy? The best is to be carefree. 

I get it. It's definitely good if a guy can be more carefree.

I'm just explaining why often they are not.

If you're a woman and feel like you can just relax and not worry about the outcome, that's because he's worrying about the outcome.

[Princess Arabia]

13 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Why are most men so overly focused on the outcome of dating? Why can't they just enjoy the process? Why can't they control this tension? Is it lack of self control/immaturity ? 

Dating is fun if you had a fun attitude to approaching itself instead of being so aggressively selfish about it. 

Relax and go with the flow. Learn what you can from the process. Results are not always possible and that's okay too. 

If you are too result oriented, you will end up with a lot of frustration. 

 

Because all some of them want is to get laid. Seems like men only do what they do because of the potential of getting laid. Nothing wrong with that, but you're missing out on all the other things a woman's presence can provide. It's mostly older men that recognizes and values this. I think it's because they've seen how just getting laid can be empty and unfulfilling if there's no substance to it. They have to outgrow the "plenty of sex" phase for more of a quality experience. That's why so many young women prefer older men, they seem to show these qualities more than their younger counterparts. These are simply observations on my part and not criticisms, as we all go through different stages in our lives.

Edited September 28 by Princess Arabia

[AION]

4 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

A secure man is not a wolf. 

It is not about secure or not. Semen just starts building up in your balls and you get aggressive like a wolf because of the testosterone. Some people are less aggressive because of lower testosterone. The thing is that we men can’t choose our testosterone levels. 

Edited September 28 by AION

[aurum]

8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You're making her point even more. What outcome?. Initiate what? Aren't you already on a date. I guess that's not enough.

A date will not even happen if someone isn't thinking about the outcome. 

Usually it's the guy.

[Buck Edwards]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

"Come on guys! Let's all just enjoy peacefully eating grass. Right guys? Guys? Why are you looking at me like that..."

Difference between what you need versus what you want. 

What you need is peace of mind. What you want is a big fat burger. 

The analogy of rabbit-wolf that you're applying to dating can also be applied to junk food. We're all innately hungry for a big piece of chocolate cake. But we should need healthy eating. So we use our conscious mind to pick organic food. 

All of your work is about high conscious living. Why can't this analogy work for dating then? 

 

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, aurum said:

If you're a woman and feel like you can just relax and not worry about the outcome, that's because he's worrying about the outcome.

It's mostly because she has a lot of other options.

If a woman is on a date with really high value man, she will def worry about the outcome. It's just that her outcome isn't sex, it's a boyfriend. In fact she will withhold sex to get her outcome.

Edited September 28 by Leo Gura

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

The analogy of rabbit-wolf that you're applying to dating can also be applied to junk food.

Exactly. But more accurately just food.

If you ever go without food for 10 days you will understand why men care about outcome in dating.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

Difference between what you need versus what you want. 

What you need is peace of mind. What you want is a big fat burger. 

The analogy of rabbit-wolf that you're applying to dating can also be applied to junk food. We're all innately hungry for a big piece of chocolate cake. But we should need healthy eating. So we use our conscious mind to pick organic food. 

All of your work is about high conscious living. Why can't this analogy work for dating then? 

 

Because of his sex addiction. Leo don't come after me because you yourself said this in one of your videos. So conscious is not in the picture when dealing with addictions.

[Leo Gura]

We could flip the script here: Why do women overeat so much?

Just relax and don't eat. Go every other day without eating, it will be good for you.

Good luck telling a girl that.

Edited September 28 by Leo Gura

[Buck Edwards]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If a woman is on a date with really high value man, she will def worry about the outcome. It's just that her outcome isn't sex, it's a boyfriend.

I channel my worry healthily instead of aggression and desperation. What should I do when I worry about getting a high value man? Simple. I should work on myself to match his standards. If I'm worried I'll hit the gym and attain the body and confidence and sex appeal he wants out of me. I will work on my emotions to be a good girlfriend/wife for him. 

Why can't men do the same then? Work instead of complaining and whining. 

I don't go around begging a high value man to date me. 

So you see the difference now? 

 

Edited September 28 by Buck Edwards

[Princess Arabia]

16 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Most women can't understand it because they have lower sex drive.

It's all about sex drive. If you don't have it then you cannot understand why someone would care about sex.

Imagine this: If you had no sex drive you would think that dating is insanity. That's because it is. Sex is a totally insane. It make zero metaphysical sense, but one cares.

Keep kidding yourself about women's sex drive. The vibrator inventor didn't think so. Women have high sex drive too; it's just we don't flaunt it as much as men do.

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Women have high sex drive too

A woman doesn't even understand what sex drive is. Ya'll are amateurs

[RendHeaven]

1 hour ago, Lyubov said:

if SE Asian women were my type I would but they aren’t. I want to go there though for the culture and beaches. Heard it’s amazing. Language is very difficult to learn though so it’s hard to integrate. I’m into Russian, Ukraine, Belarus women and latinas from Brazil, Colombia and Argentina. 

Yup, good taste. For me it's:

1. Japanese (/S. Korean)
2. Colombian (/Brazilian)
3. Russian (/Ukrainian)

...in that order.

SE Asia is somewhere you'd want to fly to with your homies

[Buck Edwards]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A woman doesn't even understand what sex drive is. Ya'll are amateurs

Why should a woman understand sex drive? She will want what she wants. That's where her focus lies. A man's worry is not her worry. Is a man worrying about what a woman wants outside of his sex drive needs? 

If you are selfish, I'm selfish too. 

 

Edited September 28 by Buck Edwards

[aurum]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It's mostly because she has a lot of other options.

If a woman is on a date with really high value man, she will def worry about the outcome. It's just that her outcome isn't sex, it's a boyfriend.

That's a good point.

When it comes to becoming a boyfriend, he certainly might not be worrying about that at all. So if she doesn't worry about it, it might not happen either. 

[Princess Arabia]

8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It's mostly because she has a lot of other options.

If a woman is on a date with really high value man, she will def worry about the outcome. It's just that her outcome isn't sex, it's a boyfriend. In fact she will withhold sex to get her outcome.

Men taught women how to be. If men didn't lose interest after sex or stop trying to impress after she gives it up, men wouldn't have to deal with her withholding for those reasons. The same things men complain about in women is usually the same things that turn them off. Too easy, too aggressive, too forward, be more lady-like, don't be an easy lay, cross your legs, don't talk too much, be passive, submissive, wear high heels, wear short dress, not too long, wear perfume not too strong, blah blah blah, then when you have built her, you complain she's too feminine. Lol

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Buck Edwards said:

Why should a woman understand sex drive?

You launched this line of discussion by saying, "I don't understand why..."

Well, make up your mind. Do you want to understand men or not? If not, that's fine, but then why pose such questions?

IF you want to understand, we explained it to you. If you don't care, okay. Most women don't care to understand men, they just want their emotional needs met.

[Buck Edwards]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

You launched this line of discussion by saying, "I don't understand why..."

Well, make up your mind. Do you want to understand men or not? If not, that's fine, but then why pose such questions?

IF you want to understand, we explained it to you. If you don't care, okay. Most women don't care to understand men, they just want their emotional needs met.

I can say the same about men. They only care about their sex needs met. 

See?