Why do i want sex and relationships so much?

[jacknine119]

With calm mind i always think that my life purpose, and spiritualism is much more important than other things. But i have big desire of good communication skills and sex. Can you tell me why do i want this so much and how to solve this?

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vivGQWrXdqA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBOSqgPg8jc

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf

[Sandhu]

@Raze Sometimes I think you're a robot. You must have a very big database of all these resources. I don't think you yourself watch all these videos. Do you?

Anyway your contributions are often very helpfulto me.😊

[Sandhu]

12 minutes ago, jacknine119 said:

i have big desire of good communication skills and sex

Then why not work to fulfill these desires?

[jacknine119]

@Sandhu i prioritize my finances and life purpose. Maybe communication skills must be on the first place. What do you think?

[jacknine119]

@Raze thanks a lot men i ll watch these videos definitely!

[Davino]

33 minutes ago, jacknine119 said:

With calm mind i always think that my life purpose, and spiritualism is much more important than other things. But i have big desire of good communication skills and sex. Can you tell me why do i want this so much and how to solve this?

Think of it this way, your life is like a pyramid of needs. If your pyramid is like a cheese it cannot hold anything properly, so when you pour water, it will eventually leak and it only takes one leak for that to happen

So satisfy categorically these needs for you to arrive to spirituality. What happens is that you enter into states where you are in self-trascendence but it doesn't hold as your baseline experience because the roots aren't strong enough to hold it.

Till you don't satisfy your needs for sex, wife, family, friends as well as those of good communication and self-actualization no higher sustained consciousness is possible. So just by understanding the following your doubt is fully resolved.

Edited September 22 by Davino

[Davino]

Just had an insight: maybe the inverted triangle could be a new Actualized.org logo like the continuation expansion after the peak, like in the last image

[Clarence]

30 minutes ago, Sandhu said:

@Raze Sometimes I think you're a robot. You must have a very big database of all these resources. I don't think you yourself watch all these videos. Do you?

I don't think he watches them (or really care about what he sends). Last time I posted, he sent videos which had nothing to do with what I asked. Quite a waste of time, really. At least now I know that the videos he sends are not well targeted and pretty random.

[Hugo Oliveira]

43 minutes ago, jacknine119 said:

With calm mind i always think that my life purpose, and spiritualism is much more important than other things. But i have big desire of good communication skills and sex. Can you tell me why do i want this so much and how to solve this?

It is natural and OK. Just remember to be wise and strategic as much as possible.

Be careful about the content you are consuming. Pick up videos and porn can fuck your sense of reality and brainwash you into just wanting sex. People underestimate how some content can be toxic. Balance is key.

[Kokorec]

I feel a constant desire for connection in some ways parallel to yours. Would be guiding if @Leo Gura answers broadly.

[Schizophonia]

Lol.

Because you are a human.

[Sugarcoat]

45 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

human 

Man* 

 

Jk

Edited September 22 by Sugarcoat

[Keryo Koffa]

99% social conditioning with 1% biological component

[Sugarcoat]

You only see this desire as a problem because you struggle to fulfill it #micdrop

[manuel bon]

1 hour ago, Sandhu said:

@Raze Sometimes I think you're a robot. You must have a very big database of all these resources. I don't think you yourself watch all these videos. Do you?

Anyway your contributions are often very helpfulto me.😊

Weird that he didn't reply to you with some other videos hahah

He might be copy-pasting the post and ask chatgpt to give some yt videos or other sources to help

[manuel bon]

2 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

With calm mind i always think that my life purpose, and spiritualism is much more important than other things. But i have big desire of good communication skills and sex. Can you tell me why do i want this so much and how to solve this?

Whatever you feel is totally fine man! You have needs for the mind and also for the body. 

Let yourself feel everything and most importantly you have to burn through your karma, exhaust what you need to exhaust. Don't repress anything.

[manuel bon]

@Davino I imagine that money is part of safety needs right? 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Man* 

 

Jk

Someone has to enjoy these "perfect eyebrows"

1 hour ago, Keryo Koffa said:

99% social conditioning with 1% biological component

Ben voyons

[Schizophonia]

Since i've been following Ramana Maharshi's advices, i become a phlegmatic bear that girls want to cuddle with.