Should I Be Worried About Gaining A Reputation?

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During the daytime in college focus on making friends and expanding your social circle. Join a bunch of clubs and societies that interest you. The more friends you have the more you end up naturally talking to girls without it really being an ‘approach’ which is kind of the ideal scenario.

If you wanna do ‘approaches’ in the pickup sense then just go to clubs and parties. 80% of the guys there are trying to get laid, it’s college. You’ll only get a bad reputation talking to girls in those settings if you’re really really creepy.

[LordFall]

On 9/21/2024 at 8:47 PM, LifeEnjoyer said:

Hello everyone,

I’ve been doing some cold approaches recently as I’m in college I thought this would be the perfect place to practice this skillset. I go to a school with 23,000 people, and I’ve been told by my older brother (who is almost 30) that I should be worried by not gaining a reputation like, “oh but he was also talking to me?” Idk is this a legit concern? I want to do a fuck ton of approaches, and I’ve done around 30 in the first week of school but after my brother gave me this piece of advice I’ve had my doubts about gaming on campus… I’ve had experiences in the past with gaining bad rep but that was at a much smaller school…Thoughts?

Thank you.

Do mass approaching outside of you campus and now when you talk to people on campus you'll be more calibrated. Focus mostly on indirect game and social circle/social media if you're in college and you'll kill. Watch people like Michael Sartain for social circle game and Hector Castillo for college game and read the book The Setup by Dan Bilzerian to understand high leverage social circle game. 

[LifeEnjoyer]

Good stuff. Thanks for the advice everyone!