Lust Has Destroyed My Life

[Rishabh R]

@Sugarcoat ok goodnight .

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

@Sugarcoat ok goodnight .

Goodnight👍🏻

[LoseYourvelf]

22 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Psychedelics give me a very strong feeling of lust all the time. 

Hey man, try raising the dose. I find these lusty dirty feelings only persist if you're taking too little 

Also I feel like generally they're unwanted and rightfully so. I came for the spiritual, i don't want sexy UV brats doll grafitti red light district visions of dancers and strippers bleeding in and wow would you believe it, when I max the dose there's ZERO of it

look you might have done more than me but incase you haven't, don't worry if u can "handle" the higher doses in the future just think about taking enough as optimal even despite the extra cost (usually). discard the whole "handling it" thing if you've had that like me. if you have the free space/free time you will handle it/compose urself in the face of adversity/interruption 

maybe the lust is reflecting your flirtatious approach to dosing these things/letting them act upon you

Edited September 19 by LoseYourvelf

[Basman]

The distress you feel over your "lust" seems to be due to how you perceive it rather than it actually negatively effecting your life. You probably running on an ideology that is antithetical to human nature.

See, your an animal. You are literally bred to be horny and want sex. Its how humans have survived for thousands of years. "Lust" is part of who you are.

In my experience with nofap, it just adds more stress to your life as you fret over something that doesn't really matter.

Edited September 19 by Basman

[Schizophonia]

17 minutes ago, LoseYourvelf said:

Hey man, try raising the dose. I find these lusty dirty feelings only persist if you're taking too little 

Also I feel like generally they're unwanted and rightfully so. I came for the spiritual, i don't want sexy UV brats doll grafitti red light district visions of dancers and strippers bleeding in and wow would you believe it, when I max the dose there's ZERO of it

look you might have done more than me but incase you haven't, don't worry if u can "handle" the higher doses in the future just think about taking enough as optimal even despite the extra cost (usually). discard the whole "handling it" thing if you've had that like me. if you have the free space/free time you will handle it/compose urself in the face of adversity/interruption 

maybe the lust is reflecting your flirtatious approach to dosing these things/letting them act upon you

I already always takes high dosages 😂

[Basman]

This is a great article about nofap and how it actually hurts people to believe in nofap and porn and masturbation as being bad. Worth reading. It also provides an alternative to how to deal with porn and masturbation instead of strict abstinence.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/07/nofap-masturbation-reddit-forum-suicide.html

[LoseYourvelf]

27 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I already always takes high dosages 😂

LMFAO

 

well its ur age and i dont envy u

Edited September 19 by LoseYourvelf

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, eTorro said:

Can jerking off be considered sex?

The point is that it solves your problem.

[Atb210201]

OK from the encouragement that I read in this topic I think I'm gonna double my jerking off😂

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Atb210201 said:

OK from the encouragement that I read in this topic I think I'm gonna double my jerking off😂

Better triple it to be safe 

[Atb210201]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

Better triple it to be safe 

Wise words🫡😂

[Emerald]

It seems to me that your issue is more akin to sexual repression and sexual shame... which actually amplifies desperation for sex.

This is why the people and cultures who are the most sexually repressive have the MOST sexual dysfunctions and kinks. It's not healthy.

You must come to accept that you are a sexual being and that your sexual urges are normal.

Otherwise, it's the same thing that happens to people with eating disorders who get into binge and restrict cycles.

When a person has eating related shame, it gets in the way of their natural primal instincts to eat to the point of satiety to the point where they restrict themselves and then end up in a huge binge.

The same thing happens with the sexual instinct. The more you repress your primal sexual instincts and shame yourself for them... and starve yourself of what is normal, the more insatiable your craving will be. You will become obsessed with sex, like someone with a binge and restrict eating disorder becomes obsessed with food.

So, try to get comfortable with your sexuality and stop resisting it. Then, you'll be able to make more sovereign decisions about whether you want to have sex or not.

[r0ckyreed]

1 hour ago, Atb210201 said:

OK from the encouragement that I read in this topic I think I'm gonna double my jerking off😂

Leo said in the past that jerking off more than one time a day is a waste of time. Just do it once and move on.

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

Leo said in the past that jerking off more than one time a day is a waste of time. Just do it once and move on.

Doubling your jerking does not mean doing it twice a day.

[Atb210201]

36 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Doubling your jerking does not mean doing it twice a day.

Oh you have no idea how many times I do it in a day then lmao

[Leo Gura]

Just now, Atb210201 said:

Oh you have no idea how many times I do it in a day then lmao

I don't want to know. 

[Atb210201]

46 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

Leo said in the past that jerking off more than one time a day is a waste of time. Just do it once and move on.

What's your record?

[Atb210201]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

I don't want to know. 

Yeah maybe that's for the best😂

[r0ckyreed]

20 minutes ago, Atb210201 said:

What's your record?

I don’t have the balls to do that crap.  

Edited September 20 by r0ckyreed

[Atb210201]

11 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

I don’t have the balls to do that crap.  

Fair enough my friend