What percent of men have sexual abundance or a fulfilling relationship?

[Onecirrus]

I’m curious what percent of men are actually “winning” in this dating game. All of my married friends are miserable and tell me it was the biggest mistake of their lives and they feel like they can’t get out, my other friends spend all their time playing Magic: the gathering and vidya and seem to have completely given up on dating entirely, and I have one friend who fucks lots of girls and commits to none of them. Out of like 8 men I know, the last one is the only remotely successful one. We’re all under 30 btw. 
 

What percent of men do you think is actually getting the results they want in this dating market?

[gettoefl]

Other-ism is toxicity

The question to ask why am i hanging out with people who block sexual abundance

which has thereby consigned me to that same fate

And how am I going to change this and generate sexual abundance for myself?

Well step one will be to change the people and the sources I am getting information from

Currently I am fulfilling all my friends' prophesies

I need to enter every room with the well honed attitude -

I bring everything and I need nothing,  and I care not how successful or not anyone else is

[Onecirrus]

@gettoefl I’m curious about the entire population, my personal dating successes are unremarkable and unrelated.

[NoSelfSelf]

Who cares?

[Onecirrus]

@NoSelfSelf This place is worse than Reddit sometimes 

[NoSelfSelf]

4 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

@NoSelfSelf This place is worse than Reddit sometimes 

No because actually who cares about those things, you caring about that shows you dont have any resaults with women.

[Buck Edwards]

Based off any guys I have known in my life, extremely few have had girlfriends or for the matter any success with women. Some of these guys told me that most dating coaches tend to inflate numbers just to brag so that they can get customers to buy their courses. Many of the dating player type guys have been busted for paying women just to be with them. You'll see people like Andrew Tate. It's a game of money. These are yacht girls. They're paid to be in parties with men to inflate their ego and it helps their business.  models are generally paid for this job. That's how the industry works. Much of what you see if fake advertising to lure in men into buying these programs and it's a huge profit because men assume they will get girlfriends if they buy these products. In reality dating is hard if you aren't socialising well enough for both men and women. But it's simple if you don't have sky high standards, want to settle down with someone simple and socialise enough to get someone to like you. Of course marriage is another thing entirely. Relationship is hard work yet it's not impossible. By the way a higher body count is not really a cool thing, it gets tiring fast and leaves you spiritually depleted the mind begins to objectify people. Dating shouldn't have to be hard if you are just looking for a partner. It's only hard for men who want multiple women because that's tricky and at some point women also tend to sense that in men from a mile away. 

[gettoefl]

17 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

@gettoefl I’m curious about the entire population, my personal dating successes are unremarkable and unrelated.

We here don't represent or know the entire population

Maybe ask a statistician or an AI that does that

I would say that intellectual curiosity is postponing one's true issues

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, gettoefl said:

We here don't represent or know the entire population

Maybe ask a statistician or an AI that does that

I would say that intellectual curiosity is postponing one's true issues

👏👏  nice one

[Onecirrus]

@NoSelfSelf Not positive results, cheated on, etc. But even my married friends have talked to me about this.

[Buck Edwards]

Everything’s just so backwards. Especially nowadays with influences like Andrew Tate. He’s not  all bad, don’t get me wrong I’ve also learned from him. But the entire culture of stage orange nowadays is so shallow and empty ofcourse people are miserable, but then don’t take an honest look at themselves and do something and go for easy escapism. 

Edited September 16 by Buck Edwards

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Onecirrus said:

and I have one friend who fucks lots of girls and commits to none of them. Out of like 8 men I know, the last one is the only remotely successful one

Sad how this is what's considered success. Also sad that fucking lots of girls and committing to none of them seems something to boast about. One of the reasons why I'm very weary of the male species. Only some BTW, not all. I find it hard to be attracted to the "fucking lots of women and not committing to any of them species". All I can see is diseases and lots of girls DNA. I've seen many times how men were willing to do the nasty without a condom, many times. They want to stick their tongue down some strange woman's throat and most don't really care to protect themselves but only if the female insists. 

Sorry for this but I'm a working girl by profession and I get tired of seeing all the talk about this kind of work, and the girls that do it but I am constantly bombarded with stories about promiscuous men and how lots of women and sex and getting laid is their thing, and how they get a pat on the back with this type of behaviour. Nothing wrong with it, but leave working girls alone who are just trying to eat and feed their family. I know this thread isn't about that, but i just want to throw up by the amount of promiscuous men stories I hear and how getting laid by many women is honored. The more I hear of and see these stories, and how it's reverred, is the more disgusted I get.

 

 

Edited September 16 by Princess Arabia

[Onecirrus]

@Princess Arabia I consider him a success because he gets the results he actually wants, can’t say the same for those other men I know. 
 

I also don’t understand how promiscuous men disgust you but a working girl doesn’t, why the double standard?  

[gettoefl]

13 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Sad how this is what's considered success. Also sad that fucking lots of girls and committing to none of them seems something to boast about. One of the reasons why I'm very weary of the male species. Only some BTW, not all. I find it hard to be attracted to the "fucking lots of women and not committing to any of them species". All I can see is diseases and lots of girls DNA. I've seen many times how men were willing to do the nasty without a condom, many times. They want to stick their tongue down some strange woman's throat and most don't really care to protect themselves but only if the female insists. 

Sorry for this but I'm a working girl by profession and I get tired of seeing all the talk about this kind of work, and the girls that do it but I am constantly bombarded with stories about promiscuous men and how lots of women and sex and getting laid is their thing, and how they get a pat on the back with this type of behaviour. Nothing wrong with it, but leave working girls alone who are just trying to eat and feed their family. I know this thread isn't about that, but i just want to throw up by the amount of promiscuous men stories I hear and how getting laid by many women is honored. The more I hear of and see these stories, and how it's reverred, is the more disgusted I get.

 

 

Studs are cool, sluts are mules , at least as far as the former is concerned

What's problematic is both of these are living in la-la land

The former lies to attract the ones he beds; he HAS to in order to have a sniff that they consent to his overtures

The later have poor boundaries and are naïve and overly trusting

Edited September 16 by gettoefl

[Princess Arabia]

8 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

@Princess Arabia I consider him a success because he gets the results he actually wants, can’t say the same for those other men I know. 
 

I also don’t understand how promiscuous men disgust you but a working girl doesn’t, why the double standard?  

I'm a working girl. I never tongue kiss. Guys don't go down on me and i very rarely ever have sex. Guys have to wash their hands before they can touch me and going down always require protection. The field I'm in is very vast. It's not just me either because I've been in rooms with other girls and they also have similar rules. Sometimes a girl can be in and out of a room without taking her clothes off and no fluid was exchanged. Tell me how does fucking 8 different women compares to that. Tell me how many men trying to get laid, pick up dozens of women and love to go around sexing up women compares to that. 

Edited September 16 by Princess Arabia

[Onecirrus]

@Princess Arabia Okay, so it’s a hygiene thing, I understand. I thought it was some kind of reverse slut shaming

[Princess Arabia]

9 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

I also don’t understand how promiscuous men disgust you but a working girl doesn’t,

The term working girl doesn't mean that girl is having sex or exchanging bodily fluids. Do you know how many men would do the nasty with a working girl with no condom if he could get away with it. So I can imagine in the dating world it's probably worse. I've had many guys willing to do stuff with me unprotected and knowing I'm a working girl. These guys are your normal everyday men. I have to constantly be on guard to keep myself protected and clean from all these men. I can imagine how it is in the dating world with women who guys think aren't sleeping around. I don't care what anyone says, men are more likely to do stuff unprotected if they could get away with it and some women do allow them. Working girls, most of them are overly protective and do not usually do stuff unprotected and half the time the stuff done doesn't even need protection. 

[Onecirrus]

@Princess Arabia The most promiscuous men seem to also be the least responsible and mature so makes sense

[Princess Arabia]

11 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

@Princess Arabia Okay, so it’s a hygiene thing, I understand. I thought it was some kind of reverse slut shaming

No because, I'm not saying either one needs to be shamed. What I'm saying is the kind of shaming women get for doing the same thing men do is very hypocritical. So many working girls out here are so clean and take care of themselves and so many men couldn't care less to protect themselves but women are the ones being shamed and men given a high-five. It is easier for the "regular" couples to catch something than a working girl because people let their guard down when passion, horniness and feelings gets involved. These girls usually operate from a trained background and follow certain protocols. Guys fucking around the town is easy prey for disease that can be caught just by kissing alone.

[Princess Arabia]

8 minutes ago, Onecirrus said:

@Princess Arabia The most promiscuous men seem to also be the least responsible and mature so makes sense

It's not about most promiscuous alone. I've seen time and time again the stuff men are just willing to do unprotected. I'm not speaking of street men or young boys either, highly professional men, married men, men of status all walks of life. So, I can imagine what it's like for someone screwing 8 different women at one time. Wouldn't want to be one of those women.