What percent of men have sexual abundance or a fulfilling relationship?

[Basman]

I've read that about 40% of men have reproduced throughout human history compared to 90% of women. The numbers might not be accurate but I think it is likely that more women have added to the human gene pool overall than men. That is just the asymmetry between men and women. Men have to work a lot harder for sex in most cases.

That said, we probably live in one of the most abundant times of our life. If you want heaps of sex, I can't think of better period in human history. You just got to prioritize it, which most guys probably don't really do.

[Keryo Koffa]

Quick Context Summary

 tauma-posting again?  Go away  no u  you're my only trauma

 you trauma-hijacked this thread  *Deep Breaths*  self-centered, do real spirituality

 I AM  bypassing jargon, let me help you  Nope, bye  your reaction is exaggerated

 her trauma-injected responses derail the OP  Why are you in such tunnel vision?

 someone needs to call out your bs  women are shamed while men are praised

 that's obvious & has nothing to do with OP  no one else is calling me out but you

 it's circle jerk, you spam my threads with bs  you're a bully policing everyone on the forum

 we barely speak  more lies, we do all the time  more delusion

 I don't like your projecting, you're "off"  That's just how I am  lack social skills, read the room

 Stop arguing, kids.

[bambi]

4 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Quick Context Summary

 tauma-posting again?  Go away  no u  you're my only trauma

 you trauma-hijacked this thread  *Deep Breaths*  self-centered, do real spirituality

 I AM  bypassing jargon, let me help you  Nope, bye  your reaction is exaggerated

 her trauma-injected responses derail the OP  Why are you in such tunnel vision?

 someone needs to call out your bs  women are shamed while men are praised

 that's obvious & has nothing to do with OP  no one else is calling me out but you

 it's circle jerk, you spam my threads with bs  you're a bully policing everyone on the forum

 we barely speak  more lies, we do all the time  more delusion

 I don't like your projecting, you're "off"  That's just how I am  lack social skills, read the room

 Stop arguing, kids.

10/10 summary skills

[Fountainbleu]

On 9/16/2024 at 9:02 AM, Onecirrus said:

I’m curious what percent of men are actually “winning” in this dating game. All of my married friends are miserable and tell me it was the biggest mistake of their lives and they feel like they can’t get out, my other friends spend all their time playing Magic: the gathering and vidya and seem to have completely given up on dating entirely, and I have one friend who fucks lots of girls and commits to none of them. Out of like 8 men I know, the last one is the only remotely successful one. We’re all under 30 btw. 
 

What percent of men do you think is actually getting the results they want in this dating market?

On 9/16/2024 at 9:02 AM, Onecirrus said:

I’m curious what percent of men are actually “winning” in this dating game. All of my married friends are miserable and tell me it was the biggest mistake of their lives and they feel like they can’t get out, my other friends spend all their time playing Magic: the gathering and vidya and seem to have completely given up on dating entirely, and I have one friend who fucks lots of girls and commits to none of them. Out of like 8 men I know, the last one is the only remotely successful one. We’re all under 30 btw. 
 

What percent of men do you think is actually getting the results they want in this dating market?

Attracting women isn’t hard. I’m not talking about learning pickup or playing games, but just naturally. Here’s the real question though: does having sexual abundance make a man happy? It can, but ultimately it’s just another paradigm—another surface level thing. True fulfillment comes from the inner work. When you've done the real, deep work on yourself, happiness flows from within, no matter what your external situation looks like.

So, what difference does it make if you have sexual abundance or not? In the end, it’s not the abundance that matters—it's the foundation you build within.

[Ulax]

8 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Quick Context Summary

 tauma-posting again?  Go away  no u  you're my only trauma

 you trauma-hijacked this thread  *Deep Breaths*  self-centered, do real spirituality

 I AM  bypassing jargon, let me help you  Nope, bye  your reaction is exaggerated

 her trauma-injected responses derail the OP  Why are you in such tunnel vision?

 someone needs to call out your bs  women are shamed while men are praised

 that's obvious & has nothing to do with OP  no one else is calling me out but you

 it's circle jerk, you spam my threads with bs  you're a bully policing everyone on the forum

 we barely speak  more lies, we do all the time  more delusion

 I don't like your projecting, you're "off"  That's just how I am  lack social skills, read the room

 Stop arguing, kids.

lmao love it

[AION]

On 21/09/2024 at 6:25 PM, Keryo Koffa said:

Quick Context Summary

 tauma-posting again?  Go away  no u  you're my only trauma

 you trauma-hijacked this thread  *Deep Breaths*  self-centered, do real spirituality

 I AM  bypassing jargon, let me help you  Nope, bye  your reaction is exaggerated

 her trauma-injected responses derail the OP  Why are you in such tunnel vision?

 someone needs to call out your bs  women are shamed while men are praised

 that's obvious & has nothing to do with OP  no one else is calling me out but you

 it's circle jerk, you spam my threads with bs  you're a bully policing everyone on the forum

 we barely speak  more lies, we do all the time  more delusion

 I don't like your projecting, you're "off"  That's just how I am  lack social skills, read the room

 Stop arguing, kids.

We need this for every thread 

[Keryo Koffa]

7 hours ago, AION said:

We need this for every thread 

 I could also just sum up all the common members' psyches. In that way, you wouldn't even need to read the threads, you'd know exactly what they'd be about, how they would flow and what conflicts in opinions would arise before they're even posted

Most members operate on very simple patterns, the complex seeming responses are nothing but fractal depth akin to this, but they're made of self-similar patterns on various scales. Here's a visualized example.

[AION]

34 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

 I could also just sum up all the common members' psyches. In that way, you wouldn't even need to read the threads, you'd know exactly what they'd be about, how they would flow and what conflicts in opinions would arise before they're even posted

Most members operate on very simple patterns, the complex seeming responses are nothing but fractal depth akin to this, but they're made of self-similar patterns on various scales. Here's a visualized example.

 It is the same archetypical relations at play in the collective subconscious.