Reality Engineering

[CARDOZZO]

 

[CARDOZZO]

 

[integration journey]

Loving this❤️

[CARDOZZO]

3 hours ago, integration journey said:

Loving this❤️

Thanks. 

I didn't knew people were reading  

[CARDOZZO]

I'm doing daygame recently. 

I approached a woman last day.

It was fun. She was a beauty, funny but married.

No worries. 

You keep doing it to exercise your will to go for what you want in life.

I have two major fears when I approach:

1. Man's Repreension: Getting into a fight, having to deal with a boyfriend (imaginary or not), being arrested or kicked out of a place.
2. Reaction: She will not know how to react, freaking out, screaming or freeze.

This is something that I will work on.

You shouldn't have fear to cause emotions on humans (positive/negative).

Edited October 3 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

I'm doing daygame recently. 

I approached a woman last day.

It was fun. She was a beauty, funny but married.

No worries. 

You keep doing it to exercise your will to go for what you want in life.

I have two major fears when I approach:

1. Man's Repreension: Getting into a fight, having to deal with a boyfriend (imaginary or not), being arrested or kicked out of a place.
2. Reaction: She will not know how to react, freaking out, screaming or freeze.

This is something that I will work on.

You shouldn't have fear to cause emotions on humans (positive/negative).

Synthesis: I have fear of conflict. (Physical/Emotional)

 

[CARDOZZO]

Personally, I think pickup is all about finding women that you care about and/or love to be around them to have different dates. I really like running, books, coffeshops, gastronomy, art, travelling, meditation, yoga, science, technology, philosophy, spirituality.

It is not about approaches, phone numbers, how do I look like, measuring women on a beauty scale, X amount of laid, being a pickup artist, reputation, techniques or manipulation.

It is about connection, real moments and life. Raw L-I-F-E.

You get to a point of being completely hopeless because online dating is boring, painful and strange. I don't want to be on DMs/Dating Apps begging for attention. This is dehumanization. 

Now I get why people are hopeless in life. They are always choosing the easy boring path.

Edited October 3 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

The whole point of relationships/dating/seduction is connection & energy exchange.

Humans are dehumanizing themselves, missing opportunities in real life to look someone in the eye, talk, hug, connect, flirt, laugh - just being in the presence of a human being that they like/admire.

Discomfort, fear, hesitation, shame, nervousness - this is the whole point of dealing with mistery. 

Mistery, seduction, game itself, laughing, flirting, attraction.

Enjoy the human dance.

 

 

[CARDOZZO]

I'm getting aware that what I really fear is not women at all. It is other MAN.

I fear man who are more violent, powerful, stronger, intelligent, skillful than I am.

I have fear of losing something to them. 

I have fear of competition.

I have fear of humiliation.

I have fear of being ridiculed.

I have fear of women perceiving myself as less than other men.

It is really paradoxical to say that - what I really fear is not women but their perception.

What is paradoxical as a MAN is that your fear of other MAN can really stop you from having a great life.

It is like saying that men are controlling the world and if you not behave, they will come to kill you.

Edited October 3 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

Medieval Alchemist Vibes:

 

[CARDOZZO]

What is happening right now is different from what you think is happening.

 

[CARDOZZO]

"The ultimate metaphysical secret, if we dare state it so simply, is that there are no boundaries in the universe. Boundaries are illusions, products not of reality but of the way we map and edit reality. And while it is fine to map out the territory, it is fatal to confuse the two."  No Boundaries, Ken Wilber.

Edited October 4 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

"What one is attempting to "destroy" in contemplation is not the mind but an exclusive identity of consciousness with the mind". A Sociable God, Ken Wilber.

[CARDOZZO]

Humans would be amazed how bad their breathing skills are.

Breathing is not a simple function of the body.

Breathing is THE MOST IMPORTANT ACT of being alive as a body.

Breathing unconsciously (shallow breathing) causes stress, lack of focus, anxiety.

Develop your breathing skills.

Breath deeply. Do Breathwork. 

Edited October 5 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

 

[CARDOZZO]

I am reconnecting with a deep masculine power inside myself.

It is a generative power, strong, deep, conscious, sharp, empowering.

Starting this journal is one of the best decision that I have made on the year.

Keeping it real, no bullshit - just brutal honesty.

Edited October 5 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

Being a nice guy is a manipulation.

Pure evil manipulation.

I define nice guy as someone who are always hiding their core essential humanness and masculinity.

They don't love themselves unconditionally.

You can be a kind generative powerful man.

The nice guy is just a project of a man, immature, insecure. They fear woman. They fear man. They fear themselves. They fear rejection. They fear the feeling of fear. They fear emotions. They fear conflict. They fear chaos. They fear brutal honesty. They fear assertiveness. 

Edited October 5 by CARDOZZO

[Buck Edwards]

@CARDOZZO (just taking your permission beforehand) Can I use some of your journal entries for a post? 

[CARDOZZO]

28 minutes ago, Buck Edwards said:

@CARDOZZO (just taking your permission beforehand) Can I use some of your journal entries for a post? 

Hi.

No problem  

Feel free to use it whenever you want.

Edited October 5 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

I was looking this video and thinking to myself:

I don't get positive vibes or compliments from woman. 

I don't know if I send a vibe that I am unattainable to women in general  

1. I am extremely ugly, strange, crazy
2. I am extremely hot to the point of woman being intimidated

Am I causing all this stress for nothing?