Is prostitution okay if legal and regularized?

[Princess Arabia]

20 hours ago, Gennadiy1981 said:

I give those people props for doing what they do because that is not an easy task. Imagine they have to be with a guy who day is ugky, unclean, super chubby and etc.

It's a very wide scale business. Street hookers are the ones having to deal with guys they really don't want to go with or are unclean. The other things you mentioned are irrelevant as pro's don't normally care how ugly or chubby you are. That's coming from a male's perspective who usually care about looks in a woman and doesn't understand the business aspect of it and how it's not personal. Pro's  aren't going out saying I hope i get a thin well-built handsome guy today. 

I can deny any guy I want and also most of the guys I see are clean. You guys are not realizing that this business is very wide-scale and there are different aspects to it. Before making assessments about it, one should refer to what part of the business you're speaking about. It ranges from high-class to the gutters and from the most handsome to not so handsome. It's patrons are very varied and from all walks of life. Including judges, lawyers, CEO's, business men, clerks, bartenders, waiters, gas attenders, teachers, police officers, soldiers, scums, neighbors, trash collectors, pastors, doctors, students, professors, mayors, government officials, hood rats, veterans, I could go on to fill this page up.

[AION]

Prostitution has a toll on the female body and soul. I heard from girls who worked in the business for a long time they can’t get orgasms anymore because they are worn out. And on the level of the soul the damage is even bigger. It should be heavily regulated and women should be vetted with multiple psychological tests before they get a permit. 

[Princess Arabia]

19 minutes ago, AION said:

Prostitution has a toll on the female body and soul. I heard from girls who worked in the business for a long time they can’t get orgasms anymore because they are worn out. And on the level of the soul the damage is even bigger. It should be heavily regulated and women should be vetted with multiple psychological tests before they get a permit. 

Do you consider a female that works behind a glass, get's naked and play with herself for money prostitution. Also someone that only gives head for money taxing on the body and soul and is that prostitution. A female that get's paid to role play and wear sexy lingerie while the guy just jerks off while just watching her, taxing on the body and soul. Do you consider those prostitutes and are those acts so hard on the body and soul. Do you consider a working girl that works as an escort but never has sex, is that prostitution and is it where she simply gives massages in sexy outfits and maybe a hand job, is that taxing on the body and soul. I could go on to name numerous scenarios like these but I ask do they sound so hard on the body and soul. 

Maybe you're just speaking about women that have sexual intercourse with numerous men in a day multiple times a week of which I would agree and that's considered prostitution, not sure then what the above name acts I mentioned is called.

Edited September 14 by Princess Arabia

[Gennadiy1981]

@Princess Arabia Thank you for being so sincere with us. And you are right maybe I was stereotyping about the male look as probably that’s how I view females based on look. But that’s fine we all have place to grow spirally. And to answer your question, most people who speak of “prostitutes” in the context of girls who as you say just bang guys from morning till evening and excluding other casual services which as you have a point really have no tolls on the bodies. 

Since you opened up about yourself and by the way much blessings to you, what do you do when you see client who say, you are just not attracted to, for various reasons, smelly, chubby, unshaven or whatever reason maybe? But the individual pays? Would you just close your eyes and go ahead or you do feel that it would maybe not so much degrade your body but your soul? And face it, no matter what level of work, most people are not build up handsome guys all the time, so it’s not like you can be very selective. Yes you can do selection but to some extent otherwise you will have little to no clients. 
@manuel bon I see your point about making it controlled. I guess you have a point there. It’s just what I don’t like you have too much bureaucracy and the girls are getting very little money. Look what happens in Las Vegas, most girls don’t want to work in those bunny house (I believe they are called) and just doing it privately or via pimps. That’s a good example there. 

[manuel bon]

7 hours ago, Gennadiy1981 said:

It’s just what I don’t like you have too much bureaucracy and the girls are getting very little money. Look what happens in Las Vegas, most girls don’t want to work in those bunny house (I believe they are called) and just doing it privately or via pimps. That’s a good example there. 

Yes I get it. But it's not everywhere like that, in the Netherlands you can rent a small room and work in there. They ask a lot of money and probably something goes to the government, but not more than any other job. Of course it always depends on how things are regulated and still it's not going to be perfect 

[sholomar]

17 hours ago, ici said:

Y’all really want us to return back to monkey

Quite frankly men need sex to stay relatively psychologically stable and there's a growing number of men who lack the interpersonal skills to date women whether due to being on the spectrum or not being socially well adjusted. Society likes to shame these men when it's really not their fault, not really.  Plus modern women are much more choosy these days because they no longer "need" men and many would rather be single than be in a relationship with a guy who's boring or socially underdeveloped, and plenty of us men are pretty boring.   Having legal prostitution would fill a marketplace demand that would help keep men more stable in the end.

Personally I find it fascinating that many on the extreme left have more in common with the religious right in their value systems. In reality the value systems are fairly compatible in pure theory, leaving their followers out of the mix.  Neither side wants prostitution?  They want the right to choose and have their freedoms but only on certain pet issues... on issues they don't approve of suddenly they are all for "banning" and "heavily regulating" ... not totally unexpected.

 

Edited September 15 by sholomar

[ici]

I think it’s actually the other way around. Men don’t wanna be in a relationship with a woman who’s boring and socially underdeveloped. Plenty of women are pretty boring ngl.

Edited September 15 by ici

[eos_nyxia]

On 2024-09-14 at 4:08 PM, AION said:

Prostitution has a toll on the female body and soul. I heard from girls who worked in the business for a long time they can’t get orgasms anymore because they are worn out. And on the level of the soul the damage is even bigger. It should be heavily regulated and women should be vetted with multiple psychological tests before they get a permit. 

Who would actually pass these hypothetical tests though, like what would be the criteria? I suspect it probably wouldn't leave many people, or it would be an astronomically high bar to clear.

What if people are mainly doing it to escape poverty? Is that a mentally sound reason?

What if they're neurodivergent? (I suspect quite a few sex workers are...) This could mean anything from "classic mental illness" (and couldn't keep a job even if they wanted to) to "person who is actually happier in this arrangement despite social stigma and judgement, living a more typical lifestyle".

[Princess Arabia]

On 9/14/2024 at 8:40 PM, Gennadiy1981 said:

Since you opened up about yourself and by the way much blessings to you, what do you do when you see client who say, you are just not attracted to, for various reasons, smelly, chubby, unshaven or whatever reason maybe? But the individual pays? Would you just close your eyes and go ahead or you do feel that it would maybe not so much degrade your body but your soul? And face it, no matter what level of work, most people are not build up handsome guys all the time, so it’s not like you can be very selective. Yes you can do selection but to some extent otherwise you will have little to no clients.

Just to make this clear, to not sugarcoat what I do and to not seem like I'm better than any other female in the business (which is of a wide range) I call myself a prostitute or call girl or working girl or escort but really, it's all just a female that gets paid for her services - whatever that may be. Just plain talking to a guy can be a service. A massage, a handjob, a blowjob, a golden shower, sex, going to dinner, spending the night, going to a concert, spanking him on the butt, kicking him in the balls, literally doing nothing and getting paid, licking your ass, lap dance, smoking, I mean the list goes on, licking your feet, of course it's usually sexual but it varies. 

So asking about attraction, has nothing to do with it and a girl can get away with plenty without doing much and very little physical contact. It's not just I'm a prostitute or working girl so I'm having sex for money and that's it. No, I might have sex once in 2 or 3 years if that, and that's actually pushing it and being generous because I literally can't remember the last time. I don't need to have sex in order to make money; in fact, it's the only reason why I do it. I wouldn't do this if I had to have sex, hell no. Not saying I never, but it's rare and I still have the option to say yes or no. 

So to answer your question, the matter doesn't come up too often as the kind of guys I'm around are usually pretty decent all around and just because a guy is fat I don't have to close my eyes because the feeling would be the same even if he was muscular, or slim if I'm working. Us girls usually don't get anymore or less turned on because it's work related. A handsome guy to me is the same as a not so handsome guy when it's work-related. Of course, if it comes down to it, the preference would be that he doesn't smell or something like that, but his looks doesn't matter. That's a true trait of a true working girl, any other way and she's in the wrong business. That's not business if it's any other way. This is why a man who truly understands this business will never get jealous of his woman in this field as long as she's respectful and knows how to carry herself and not on the streets. Those things that you mentioned aren't concerns of mine as I can turn anybody down I choose and I'm not forced to do anything with any and everybody, I keep stressing that this field is very wide and entails a lot of various scenarios. It's not as dry cut as sex for money in this day and age.

A guy gave me $100 just from sitting at the bar and talking to him the other night. About 6mths ago a guy hit a $1600 jackpot in the casino and asked me to claim because he wasn't allowed to gamble and gave me half, didn't have to do anything. Both times I set out to work. So this is what I mean neither touched me; even though it's not often these scenarios happen it does along with other similar ones. 

Edited September 18 by Princess Arabia

[gambler]

On 9/15/2024 at 2:28 PM, ici said:

I think it’s actually the other way around. Men don’t wanna be in a relationship with a woman who’s boring and socially underdeveloped. Plenty of women are pretty boring ngl.

Maybe. Me personally, girls who are socially developed and not boring either have way too many options or it becomes apparent from talking to them over a long period of time that they would be absolutely incompatible with me. I've learned that I'd take the cute, quiet, agreeable and boring girl any day of the week. Done with even being friends with the former .

[What Am I]

59 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

A massage, a handjob, a blowjob, a golden shower, sex, going to dinner, spending the night, going to a concert, spanking him on the butt, kicking him in the balls, literally doing nothing and getting paid, licking your ass, lap dance, smoking, I mean the list goes on, licking your feet, of course it's usually sexual but it varies.

I'd pay to hang out and talk about spirituality an obscene amount.

[Princess Arabia]

24 minutes ago, What Am I said:

I'd pay to hang out and talk about spirituality an obscene amount.

Once in a while I'll meet someone who talks this stuff but I don't bring it up first, I met 2 ladies who were tarot readers and a guy who knew about the illusion and stuff, but nothing really in depth. Funny because the less the sexual content the more money is made. Or even the lesser the work. The more the guy wants the cheaper he is. That's why I barely do that because that's the real work and those that want that are usually the cheapos. So it's easy to get out of just quote a ridiculous price. No harm done. (sex that is).

Edited September 18 by Princess Arabia