Interpret my ex's behavior - mixed signals

[Registered]

Just now, NoSelfSelf said:

I just did you are slow...

I'm saying what's the play here, what would you do with the dealt hand.

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Because hes thirsty for sex 

Maybe 

[Daniel Balan]

@Registered Please don't do that. Use reason and let this person go. I'd rather go sexless than to fuck such a woman. Take your time and reflect upon your situation and with time try to find a new woman. That respects you and behaves with love towards you. Try to find a woman who is faithful and you be faithful towards her. Try building a family instead of chasing sex from a deranged woman. You are hurting your self esteem by continuing to interact with her. Cut off all communication with her and try to socialize with your friends. She is very bad for your mental health. 

[Atb210201]

If you want her just tell her you want her and you don't want to see her with some other guy that's just it simple as that

Your relationship It's already in a complicated situation make it simple for yourself and don't wait and beat around the Bush go on face her and find out the real answer for your own sake

Demand a yes or no answer from her if she wants you or not If her answer is no do your self a favor and do not stay any longer at all and cut her from your life go on find someone else

Edited September 7, 2024 by Atb210201

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

Maybe 

Its not maybe he just said it 😄

[Registered]

4 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why be with someone who is more into someone else and said she doesn’t feel anything and doesn’t want to give relationship with you another chance. You making it seem like it’s complicated I think it’s very simple 

I mean if she wanted to a week ago, she actually wants to, its just her current hyperfixation. She'll be back around. I'm just a bit impatient. 

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, Registered said:

I mean if she wanted to a week ago, she actually wants to, its just her current hyperfixation. She'll be back around. I'm just a bit impatient. 

My god this is sad,its tough love dont get pissed 😂

[Registered]

3 minutes ago, Daniel Balan said:

@Registered Please don't do that. Use reason and let this person go. I'd rather go sexless than to fuck such a woman. Take your time and reflect upon your situation and with time try to find a new woman. That respects you and behaves with love towards you. Try to find a woman who is faithful and you be faithful towards her. Try building a family instead of chasing sex from a deranged woman. You are hurting your self esteem by continuing to interact with her. Cut off all communication with her and try to socialize with your friends. She is very bad for your mental health. 

True, it's just a bit fresh, i'm going to come to my senses, very soon. I'll be reflecting on this. Thank for this caring, loving comment

[Sugarcoat]

7 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Its not maybe he just said it 😄

I saw it now . I thought he wanted a whole relationship at first 

Edited September 7, 2024 by Sugarcoat

[Registered]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

I saw it now 

That guy is delusional. It's not about sex, there's plenty of  opportunitites for that elsewhere. I want her to want me. It's ego if anything. 

Edited September 7, 2024 by Registered

[NoSelfSelf]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

I saw it now 

Yeah i figured from avalanche of responses to save a guys life you didnt notice...

[NoSelfSelf]

Just now, Registered said:

That guy is delusional. It's not about sex, there's plenty of  opportunitites for that elsewhere. I want her to want me. It's ego if anything. 

Only person delusional is :if you go to a bathroom and look in the mirror.  

[Registered]

Just now, NoSelfSelf said:

Only person delusional is :if you go to a bathroom and look in the mirror.  

You love riding that high horse. You're contributing with nothing here but false analysis, get curious and ask questions first. You just make yourself look like a fool.

[NoSelfSelf]

3 minutes ago, Registered said:

You love riding that high horse. You're contributing with nothing here but false analysis, get curious and ask questions first. You just make yourself look like a fool.

This is the energy you should have had when she left you with blueballs,to cut her off! now do it badboy 😁

Edited September 7, 2024 by NoSelfSelf

[Daniel Balan]

@Registered I understand how you feel and it is very hard to let go of someone you deeply love, I do believe in second chances but you have to think long term. Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life? What she does now she will always do. With this woman you will never be able to build something, Imagine you want to buy a house, how could you ever save money together with this woman in order to buy the home for your family?

[Sugarcoat]

21 minutes ago, Registered said:

I actually dont want a relationship with her. If i get the sex while she gets her relationship elsewhere it's a double win for me tbh. I'd love to have her in that capacity forever. Which is what im trying to accomplish here.

"its not about sex" then what does this mean?

[Registered]

1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:

This is the energy you should have when she left you with blueballs,to cut her off! now do it badboy 😁

As i said previously, i will, i just didnt want to overextend before warming her up first. In the next couple days ill deploy that "energy"

[NoSelfSelf]

Just now, Registered said:

As i said previously, i will, i just didnt want to overextend before warming her up first. In the next couple days ill deploy that "energy"

There is no next few days now!! call her and deploy it, you are just leaving the space to make some weak moves when she pushes your buttons, you are waiting on her its feminine..

[Registered]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

"its not about sex" then what does this mean?

I mentioned it already. My bruised ego if anything. Caused by the rejection out of nowhere and being replaced. I want to be the one that calls the shit quits on my terms. So i want her to come back first, then we can have our goodbye. 

[Registered]

Just now, NoSelfSelf said:

There is no next few days now!! call her and deploy it, you are just leaving the space to make some weak moves when she pushes your buttons, you are waiting on her its feminine..

We've already made plans for Monday. Calling now would be needy.