Women are my only and only distraction from Enlightment

[gettoefl]

43 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said:

Good sex is positive, bad sex is negative. The problem is that you have a dick, then you have to do sex , good or bad. We are slaves of sex, and women aren't. They are slaves of be loved, very different. It's a joke of god, the son of a bitch. The evolution game, no mercy for the looser.  The solution, stop fucking and learn to make love, even when it's just one 

You've been on fire today and I think someone here should douse you with water before you disintegrate 

Edited September 9 by gettoefl

[Javfly33]

2 hours ago, AION said:

Well that is your body telling you something. Wink wink. 

Well yeah, im not denying that @AION

 

1 hour ago, Breakingthewall said:

The solution, stop fucking and learn to make love, even when it's just one 

👆👍

34 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

Ego won one more time, tricking us and drugging us into spilling the seeds of life

We lied to ourselves and not just our partner

Namely sorry but we were never an ego holing up in a body

all protestations and appearances to the contrary notwithstanding

 

not sure if i understand you bro, can you put it in other words?

[gettoefl]

5 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

not sure if i understand you bro, can you put it in other words?

It is asking you, are you a body or something more!

[Javfly33]

12 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

It is asking you, are you a body or something more!

something more for sure, but for some really weird reason identification still happens, who knows, maybe i have to get deep in the mud some more time and hit the wall some more too before i get some sense and trascend once and for all.

[gettoefl]

7 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

something more for sure, but for some really weird reason identification still happens, who knows, maybe i have to get deep in the mud some more time and hit the wall some more too before i get some sense and trascend once and for all.

Yes it takes plenty of effort until one gets to non-effort

In the dream, you are indeed a body-mind

One day you will see that body-mind can go on without much attention paid to them

All they are is communication tools for the lessons all around that one needs to learn

Talking here is part of that process and I commend your honesty and vulnerability in putting yourself on the line here

[AION]

Guys it is all in your head. 
 

If you make yourself believe that you have no sexuality your body will believe it too. If you believe you are a horny dog , your body will make extra hormones and you will become it. 
 

The same with enlightenment. If you believe you are alien consciousness, you will become it. If you believe you are a unicorn. You will become it. Even Leo believes in his own crap. It is just one big jester joke. 

[BlueOak]

16 minutes ago, AION said:

Guys it is all in your head. 
 

If you make yourself believe that you have no sexuality your body will believe it too. If you believe you are a horny dog , your body will make extra hormones and you will become it. 
 

The same with enlightenment. If you believe you are alien consciousness, you will become it. If you believe you are a unicorn. You will become it. Even Leo believes in his own crap. It is just one big jester joke. 

Somewhat. It depends how much of a flow state you are in as to what can change for example. The feedback of the environment or dream around you (yourself) plays a big factor in reinforcement and potential. Physicality tends to allow for slower changes as energy/consciousness is slowed down. I don't have a better word than 'slowed', I am not a physicist, only that matter is vibrating more slowly, and the physical universe is the vibration of energy. 

Anything you are viewing is also you.

*This is where the emotional state and the movement of energy is important, as you are moving and manifesting faster. 

Edited September 12 by BlueOak

[Fountainbleu]

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[Fountainbleu]

On 9/5/2024 at 2:14 PM, Javfly33 said:

If im completely honest I absolutely have 0 attachments in Life other than the fucking missing hole I have in my relationship with women/dating.

For me that went away (not so much relationships but sex) when I started meditating a lot, dived deep into spirituality. If you're still feeling it even if after doing a lot of spiritual practices, then maybe there's something there for you to explore.

[UnbornTao]

You likely keep more attachments than you think.