When is sexually escalating with a woman you just met come off as desperate?

[Princess Arabia]

8 hours ago, Nemra said:

Just say you don't like your kind, but when they're men.

Who said anything about not liking anything. All I'm doing is simply stating opinions, expressing my observations and saying what I've noticed between different types of men. Feminine men aren't females and they act totally different than an actual feminine woman. Men who are dominantly in their feminine is what I mean when I say feminine men. None of it is a bashing and i do joke around sometimes but I will and have dated feminine men and have had great times with the ones I've dated. They were still men, but they were more in their feminine and a bit more sensitive. Nothing wrong with either category and if the right one comes along from either category and I'm able to find a balance between myself and them, i wouldn't hesitate to bond with them; And when I say right one I mean suitable for me because my personality is one that is very adjustable and can go with the flow as long as certain boundaries aren't crossed and there are not too many conflicts.

Edited September 5 by Princess Arabia

[Salvijus]

The only unhealthy masculine trait I can think of is dick-measuring/superiority complex. Yet having a healthy masculine means being a powerful leader. And the only unhealthy feminine trait I can think of is a Cinderella complex. Yet being a wonderful, radiant expression of love (like a princess) is what feminine is all about. Interesting conundrum. 🤔 

Edited September 5 by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

12 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

Toxic feminine: manipulativeness, co-dependence, passive aggressiveness, self victimization, gossiping, self sacrifice 

Toxic masculine: Aggression, emotional suppression, entitlement, over competitiveness, isolation, exaggerating achievements 

Damn

[Salvijus]

I just got seriously schooled

[Salvijus]

But I think you people are over thinking this a lot. Just be self-aware and kind. You'll have all those healthy masculine/feminine qualities. 

Self awareness will protect the feminine becoming unhealthy. And kindness will prevent the masculine from becoming unhealthy. 

Edited September 5 by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

11 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

toxic feminine traits (like codependence) or toxic masculine traits (like emotional suppression)

Isn't it funny that toxic femininity is the lack of healthy masculinity and the toxic masculinity is the lack of healthy femininity. I never made that connection before. 

[Keryo Koffa]

12 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Isn't it funny that toxic femininity is the lack of healthy masculinity and the toxic masculinity is the lack of healthy femininity. I never made that connection before. 

Ha! Reminds me of the "mommy issues"/"daddy issues" memes, good call!

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

But I think you people are over thinking this a lot. Just be self-aware and kind. You'll have all those healthy masculine/feminine qualities. 

Self awareness will protect the feminine becoming unhealthy. And kindness will prevent the masculine from becoming unhealthy. 

It's not that black and white. These are energies at play here with no one at the steering wheel. The steering wheel is itself -so to speak; No one is actually choosing or not choosing these polarities; they are happening on their own based on the frequency they are on and their rate of vibration. Each person is actually a frequency  and is operating as information. A higher frequency can operate in a lower frequency dimension but a lower frequency cannot operate at a higher frequency. When we're speaking about the egoic mind, it's a construction of ideas, thoughts, memories, concepts etcetc so it has to act in accordance unless it changes it's structure or identity. 

What Lila is actually doing is providing a description of the types of energies at play and how they get materialized and show up in the physical plane. Just saying be kind is too vague and the result from that can vary depending on the frequency that energy is on. Kind to one may be interpreted as weak or soft to another and maybe manipulative to another and this is dependent on quite a few variables. This is why relationships can get so complex or even simple because it depends on how the energies are flowing, attractor factor and the compatibility scale.

Edited September 5 by Princess Arabia

[Salvijus]

25 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's not that black and white. These are energies at play here with no one at the steering wheel. The steering wheel is itself -so to speak; No one is actually choosing or not choosing these polarities; they are happening on their own based on the frequency they are on and their rate of vibration. Each person is actually a frequency  and is operating as information. A higher frequency can operate in a lower frequency dimension but a lower frequency cannot operate at a higher frequency. When we're speaking about the egoic mind, it's a construction of ideas, thoughts, memories, concepts etcetc so it has to act in accordance unless it changes it's structure or identity. 

What Lila is actually doing is providing a description of the types of energies at play and how they get materialized and show up in the physical plane. Just saying be kind is too vague and the result from that can vary depending on the frequency that energy is on. Kind to one may be interpreted as weak or soft to another and maybe manipulative to another and this is dependent on quite a few variables. This is why relationships can get so complex or even simple because it depends on how the energies are flowing, attractor factor and the compatibility scale.

That's the only thing I can think of reading this. 

 

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Salvijus said:

That's the only thing I can think of reading this. 

 

Me too. 😶‍🌫️🙃😏😏

[Princess Arabia]

4 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

That's the only thing I can think of reading this. 

 

Told you there was no one here; if I was a someone, I wouldn't have chosen to write that mess. This energetic 

 

 

frequency over here is all tangled up in a webbly mess. Hehe.

Edited September 5 by Princess Arabia

[Keryo Koffa]

17 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Told you there was no one here; if I was a someone, I wouldn't have chosen to write that mess. This energetic frequency over here is all tangled up in a webbly mess. Hehe.

Oh yeah? Then explain this!: @Someone here

Edited September 5 by Keryo Koffa

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Oh yeah? Then explain this!: @Someone here

[Salvijus]

21 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Told you there was no one here; if I was a someone, I wouldn't have chosen to write that mess. This energetic 

 

 

frequency over here is all tangled up in a webbly mess. Hehe.

A force of nature. 

[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Oh yeah? Then explain this!: @Someone here

@Something Funny 

[Keryo Koffa]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

@Something Funny 

Hey! Now you're @Breakingthewall!

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Keryo Koffa said:

Hey! Now you're @Breakingthewall!

And you're @Schizophonia

[Keryo Koffa]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

And you're @Schizophonia

I guess there's no point in @Sugarcoating it...

[Yimpa]

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Keryo Koffa said:

I guess there's no point in @Sugarcoating it...

@Yeah Yeah