The people who you go out with

[kray]

Does going out with a specific kind of group affect your game? I happened to go to a club in Valencia with my cousins, and I did rizz up a few Italian and Dutch girls, but my cousins seemed to always discourage my moves. It was very frustrating. Is this the reason why you need a good wing when going out and doing pick?

[Lyubov]

Well, you are in control of you and it sounds like you are giving your agency away to him. You're in control of your state and emotions and beliefs and what you do. So he isn't exactly doing anything to you by being a boring letdown. But when people go out together it does set the tone sometimes ofr the night and if you go out together you have to account for his vibe in your group. So if he is acting a certain way you don't appreciate just find someone else on the same page as you. simple. 

[Ulax]

Yep to both

[Princess Arabia]

There's a positive and a negative charge to everything. Up to you to weigh the scale to see which one works for you better. Both have their upsides and downsides.

Edited August 31 by Princess Arabia

[Schizophonia]

What do you mean by "discourage" ?

[Sugarcoat]

@kray maybe they thought your rizz is bad so they wanted to protect you from rejection by discouraging you

[Salvijus]

😂

[Sugarcoat]

13 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

😂

What you laughing at 

[Salvijus]

36 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

What you laughing at 

I didn't know you were capable of being so mean  that roast was so brutal lol. 

I'll keep that in mind from now on when I'm around you lol. 

Edited August 31 by Salvijus

[Sugarcoat]

12 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I didn't know you were capable of being so mean  the way you roasted him was brutal. 

I'll keep that in mind from now on when I'm around you lol. 

I thought maybe u laughed at what I said and I thought it was funny

 

hehe I can😈

Edited August 31 by Sugarcoat

[Salvijus]

17 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I thought maybe u laughed at what I said and I thought it was funny

 

hehe I can😈

It was funny. If you enjoy cruelty  oh look at that lol

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It was funny. If you enjoy cruelty  oh look at that lol

It was just honesty . My first thought . Why else would they discourage him

[Salvijus]

7 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It was just honesty . My first thought . Why else would they discourage him

If you had more than one thought in your head maybe you'd know. 😅

Joking., 😅 idk where that came from 😂

Edited August 31 by Salvijus

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Salvijus said:

If you had more than one thought in your head maybe you'd know. 😅

Joking... 

Tell me another reason then 

[Salvijus]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Tell me another reason then 

Friends had limiting beliefs of what's appropriate and what's not. For them the idea of approaching someone random in the middle of the day might have been very unusual, odd, anxiety invoking. And they were sharing their emotions with Kray, their projections, etc. And it was a hindrance for Krya because he had to go against the river in a way. 

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

Friends had limiting beliefs of what's appropriate and what's not. For them the idea of approaching someone random in the middle of the day might have been very unusual, odd, anxiety invoking. And they were sharing their emotions with Kray, their projections, etc. And it was a hindrance for Krya because he had to go against the river in a way. 

Ok so you say them feeling uncomfortable about doing it themselves makes them discourage him from doing it? You’re right it could be a reason

[Salvijus]

It's like when you want to go jogging at 3am but everyone else around you is a slug saying "pfff don't be stupid, drink some beer instead" be like us. And they just roll their eyeballs every time they see someone jogging. Haha. These type of people are not helpful to be around if you want to jog. 

Edited August 31 by Salvijus

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It's like when you want to go jogging at 3am but everyone else around you is a slug saying "pfff don't be stupid, drink some beer instead" be like us. 

Ok sure