Looks like there is a demographic and loneliness crisis

[Applegarden8]

Hello,

While I don't indulge into red pill content very much and do not resonate with a title. The content of the video, meaning the women talking about their experiences and feelings just clicked with what I am seeing with my own eyes in places like my workplace and my friend group. There are a bunch of seemingly single women that are rather unhappy. I mean I wish the best for them, but I acctually feel that this will get worse (there will be a bigger and bigger mismatch, misunderstanding, explotiation and miscommunication) between the sexes and social media looks like the catalyst of it. This phenomenon also applies to people who are very social but burn out in a sense that less and less interactions bring joy to them and interactions feel incomplete or people that are in a relationship where that connection just dies and they don't know what to do or don't want to do anything about it. This behavioural pattern always ends up feeling of loneliness and fear of being lonely, even if you are not.

 

Edited August 22 by Applegarden8

[Salvijus]

37 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

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Damn... World is insane. 

The woman at 3 min mark tho haha. 

Edited August 22 by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

@Applegarden8 You, the guy on the video and the girls who appears in it are reflections of myself and vice versa, we form a little egregor here. 

I see an incline to manifest a reality of loneliness to cling the victim persona of "I am the one who is lonely despite all the effort" or something like that.

 

More precisely, i'm still attached (otherwise i wouldn't see it) to this kind of victim-hood persona, but without really trusting it. So in my system i will tend to supposedly take a certain distance, and in addition bring back people in my delirium to maximize changes to convincing myself. What give in a result some mirrors like you who do topics like "Oh look at how choices of people (hypergamy of women ?? Something like that i guess) create".

Then, the black guy is your mirror, he plays the persona who is unconsciously hidden behind the one you explicitly play (like a russian doll), it give you the information that you play the guy who feels big, important by being the missing piece to someone’s happiness, that generate this malicious persona of "ahahah, look at theses dumb women, they cry because they reject my treasure, blahblahblah"

And finally, the girls are the mirrors of the black guy, the expression of his incline to play the "I prefer to be only than abandoning my strategy of having energy by victimizing myself" persona.

 

So, we could refined all of theses informations and deduces 3 personas that you play and that your topic betray :

1)I believe the sum of subjunctives.

2)I am necessary for someone's happiness.

3)I am abandoned.

 

My post is probably not very clean but I will make a topic anyway when I have more time and concentration. 

Edited August 22 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

Of course, ALL THE REALITY IS THE PROJECTION OF MYSELF AND THESE ARE MY PERSONAS TOO.

MONISM

[Salvijus]

What I don't understand is how people can have dozens and dozens of dates and still be single. Just commit already lol. 

Maybe "sex after marriage" is a good philosophy afterall. Not that I try to promote it or anything. Just saying. Otherwise people have no integrity to stick to anything anymore. 

Edited August 22 by Salvijus

[Applegarden8]

36 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Applegarden8 You, the guy on the video and the girls who appears in it are reflections of myself and vice versa, we form a little egregor here. 

I see an incline to manifest a reality of loneliness to cling the victim persona of "I am the one who is lonely despite all the effort" or something like that.

 

More precisely, i'm still attached (otherwise i wouldn't see it) to this kind of victim-hood persona, but without really trusting it. So in my system i will tend to supposedly take a certain distance, and in addition bring back people in my delirium to maximize changes to convincing myself. What give in a result some mirrors like you who do topics like "Oh look at how choices of people (hypergamy of women ?? Something like that i guess) create".

Then, the black guy is your mirror, he plays the persona who is unconsciously hidden behind the one you explicitly play (like a russian doll), it give you the information that you play the guy who feels big, important by being the missing piece to someone’s happiness, that generate this malicious persona of "ahahah, look at theses dumb women, they cry because they reject my treasure, blahblahblah"

And finally, the girls are the mirrors of the black guy, the expression of his incline to play the "I prefer to be only than abandoning my strategy of having energy by victimizing myself" persona.

 

So, we could refined all of theses informations and deduces 3 personas that you play and that your topic betray :

1)I believe the sum of subjunctives.

2)I am necessary for someone's happiness.

3)I am abandoned.

 

My post is probably not very clean but I will make a topic anyway when I have more time and concentration. 

Maybe I am wrong, but I am assuming what you are saying is that my agreement to the paradigm "or me or the host of looking for evidence to sustain their paradigm" which is what redpillers and blackpillers tend to do enables them to view it as a bigger thing than it is. It can always be the case, there is always a play of that, sometimes bigger, sometimes smaller. I guess the issue I want to highlight are mental health struggles people will face in the future due to loneliness (both in a company or relationship or without any people around) for whatever socio-economic reasons or reasons caused by the flow of information, expectations and the confusion generated by all of that. Basically it's inability or unwillingness to self-reflect, because the solution is really there and this problem can be solved by attending one self and self-reflecting. One of the places where it will hit hard for people is the expectation of the relationship and dating, because a lot of that stuff is instinctive yet counter-intuitive, a lot of the times delusional, yet sometimes, genuine and nice. Put some deadlines and peer-pressure of "somebody has it and you don't by some age or whatever" and people suffer their own expectations and the projections of expectations of others. Regarding the topic of people being lonely while people are around them, that is another beast that I can't describe here.

Edited August 22 by Applegarden8

[Keryo Koffa]

25 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I don't understand how people can have dozens and dozens of dates and still be single. Just commit already lol. 

The flat line has turned into a sine-wave frequency of imbalance.

We got two types:
Endless chasers (maximizers)
High-stake attachers (sentimentals)

Here's your counterbalance, for double not-understanding that hopefully equals out 😁

[Applegarden8]

10 hours ago, Salvijus said:

Damn... World is insane. 

The woman at 3 min mark tho haha. 

You know, while redpillers obsess about "women hitting the wall" or whatever, this same phenomenon applicable for men also, for example, men that can't and don't get any intimacy (not just the sexual act or whatever) are likely to feel the same, but express it differently. But another point I want to make is the strong assumption that you and me have the "American (or any other first world country) Dream". Some people will just not have a partner, or have bad health or will lose job or roof over their head at some point and so many things. Yet we still believe we will have everything and this is mostly due to social media generalizing people's individual values and situation in life.

Edited August 23 by Applegarden8

[Schizophonia]

14 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

What I don't understand is how people can have dozens and dozens of dates and still be single. Just commit already lol. 

Maybe "sex after marriage" is a good philosophy afterall. Not that I try to promote it or anything. Just saying. Otherwise people have no integrity to stick to anything anymore. 

I'm only dating a girl at once.

And yes, i've venus in bull

 

[Schizophonia]

32 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

Maybe I am wrong, but I am assuming what you are saying is that my agreement to the paradigm "or me or the host of looking for evidence to sustain their paradigm" which is what redpillers and blackpillers tend to do enables them to view it as a bigger thing than it is. It can always be the case, there is always a play of that, sometimes bigger, sometimes smaller. I guess the issue I want to highlight are mental health struggles people will face in the future due to loneliness (both in a company or relationship or without any people around) for whatever socio-economic reasons or reasons caused by the flow of information, expectations and the confusion generated by all of that. Basically it's inability or unwillingness to self-reflect, because the solution is really there and this problem can be solved by attending one self and self-reflecting. One of the places where it will hit hard for people is the expectation of the relationship and dating, because a lot of that stuff is instinctive yet counter-intuitive, a lot of the times delusional, yet sometimes, genuine and nice. Put some deadlines and peer-pressure of "somebody has it and you don't by some age or whatever" and people suffer their own expectations and the projections of expectations of others. Regarding the topic of people being lonely while people are around them, that is another beast that I can't describe here.

There is no objective reality. 

[Applegarden8]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

There is no objective reality. 

I am not tempted to debate anything today.

[Schizophonia]

13 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

I am not tempted to debate anything today.

👍