She broke up with me because I’m broke and I got too much attached to her. To the point that I wanted her more than she wanted me to. In the beginning it was the other way around.  I really want her back and I invite her to places and she doesn’t want to go but thanks me for the offer. And I call her and she acts cold. It is really hard to under women. one basically has to act like we don’t want them while we want them.  I’m afraid she will go back to her ex if I don’t make moves. The thing is she is very feminine and doesn’t make first moves. So basically if I want her back I have to do the moves.