The constant feeling that you’re old in dating

[BassamMo]

So I’m a 30 years old guy, I’ll be 31 by the end of this year and I can’t help but feel the pressure of my age as I’m not married yet in a society where all my peers are either married or engaged. This age thing never bothered me until I hit 30. I was in a relationship with a 10 and I honestly didn’t feel like I’ll marry her although I stayed with her for two years and I was 29 during that time and I didn’t feel the age thing was of any concern to me. Now I’m talking to multiple women but it seems like it’s not going anywhere with them and I’m questioning everything now, my value and my game which I thought was really good. Why am I feeling this way? And how can I get back to feeling that age shouldn’t be a big concern and that my peers getting married doesn’t have to do anything with me. I’m getting serious with the girls I find good options but they seem likely they want to take it slow but this feeling that I have because I’m 30 is overwhelming me and making me lose some of my charm 

Edited August 19 by BassamMo

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YHBylCxJSY

https://www.girlschase.com/content/when-do-you-get-old-party-or-meet-girls

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXqjuX_W9g8

[aurum]

1 hour ago, BassamMo said:

Why am I feeling this way? And how can I get back to feeling that age shouldn’t be a big concern and that my peers getting married doesn’t have to do anything with me

You’re feeling this way because you are getting older and it does matter.

You don’t have infinite time in your sexual peak. Everyone gets a window and then it closes. So if you spent your 20s being single and playing the field, there can be consequences.

That all said, you can date at pretty much any age these days. People get divorced and remarried when they are older all the time. The biggest variable is whether you want biological kids, which obviously has a more strict timeline.

Also, lots of people are getting married older these days for financial reasons. So 30 is relatively young still. You have time, but if you really want a strong marriage then I’d say it would be wise to get serious about it.

[BassamMo]

2 hours ago, aurum said:

You’re feeling this way because you are getting older and it does matter.

You don’t have infinite time in your sexual peak. Everyone gets a window and then it closes. So if you spent your 20s being single and playing the field, there can be consequences.

That all said, you can date at pretty much any age these days. People get divorced and remarried when they are older all the time. The biggest variable is whether you want biological kids, which obviously has a more strict timeline.

Also, lots of people are getting married older these days for financial reasons. So 30 is relatively young still. You have time, but if you really want a strong marriage then I’d say it would be wise to get serious about it.

I want a strong marriage and looking for the girls who are suitable for that role now unlike before when I got into game but the feeling is still overwhelming and I don’t know how to judge it.

[aurum]

28 minutes ago, BassamMo said:

I want a strong marriage and looking for the girls who are suitable for that role now unlike before when I got into game but the feeling is still overwhelming and I don’t know how to judge it.

It might take some time. But you can get your groove back.

Remember that you can potentially bring a lot more to the table as a husband now that you are a bit older. This is a genuine advantage.