Is Financial Domination a crime?

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, bambi said:

You are an escort? Absolutely now everything makes sense lol! My intuition is world class. I knew there was something deeply pathoogised in your view on sexualtiy and gender dynamics. Why wouldnt you acknowledge this before. You being in sex work has deeply warped your view of sexuality and gender dyanmics, and traumatised you, which Im sure you're aware

BTW 'pervert' is a judgement. 

No this is a total view from ignorance, probably stemming from your lack of ability to face or own your part in all this mistreatment of self and other. Whether or not these guys want it, enjoy it, can afford it or not, has no bearing on whether its healthy for you or for them. Its also not about assigning blame, whether you are to blame or they are to blame. Your essentially harming yourself and they are harming themselves, by engaging in this consensual sexual pathology.

Dont for a second equate legality or consent with integrity, healthy, holism, well-being or care. Everyone in that dynamic are ultimately losing long term whether they know it or not.

To say no one is being hurt, is such an utterly myopic justification.

 Where u been I've been saying this from day one. I'll give you that my traumatized self knows nothing. Someone that never did drugs, never been raped, never been traumatized . I mean when i rea7d your story I feel like a nun compared to you. Yeah I called them perverts, so what, they call themselves perverts. They treat themselves worse than how the women treat them. You're not familiar with how I worked and you are totally speculating about shit. I'm not even going to continue this convo because you seem to derive pleasure from calling me traumatized. Lol so funny when i hear that.not everybody in this business has been traumatized. Normal life events traumatize me more than the adult industry. Regular bfs are more assholes and put you through more shit, I never have to worry about anything in the field I'm in, on ly the people that judge it and their idea about who they think I am. 

[bambi]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

 Where u been I've been saying this from day one. I'll give you that my traumatized self knows nothing. Someone that never did drugs, never been raped, never been traumatized . I mean when i rea7d your story I feel like a nun compared to you. Yeah I called them perverts, so what, they call themselves perverts. They treat themselves worse than how the women treat them. You're not familiar with how I worked and you are totally speculating about shit. I'm not even going to continue this convo because you seem to derive pleasure from calling me traumatized. Lol so funny when i hear that.not everybody in this business has been traumatized. Normal life events traumatize me more than the adult industry. Regular bfs are more assholes and put you through more shit, I never have to worry about anything in the field I'm in, on ly the people that judge it and their idea about who they think I am. 

Look come on, it doesnt take the most self awareness or honesty, to accept or admit that being in sex work is going to warp your view of yourself and others when it comes to sexuality. There is so much shaming, judgement, commodificaiton, objectification, dehumanisation, exploitation that happens in sex work, to think you are immune or unaffected is delusional, especially given your posts.

Until you work through all of this, or are willing to, its pointless to talk or interact. Your view is clear: men are as much to blame for their own behaviour, and are not innocent. They need to stop shaming and judging women for their part as theyre equally culpable. This is clear. But injecting this into every single possible conversation on sexuality and relationship is boring and disruptive, you impede intelligent, progessive discussion around any of these topics

 

[Princess Arabia]

6 minutes ago, bambi said:

Look come on, it doesnt take the most self awareness or honesty, to accept or admit that being in sex work is going to warp your view of yourself and others when it comes to sexuality. There is so much shaming, judgement, commodificaiton, objectification, dehumanisation, exploitation that happens in sex work, to think you are immune or unaffected is delusional, especially given your posts.

Until you work through all of this, or are willing to, its pointless to talk or interact. Your view is clear: men are as much to blame for their own behaviour, and are not innocent. They need to stop shaming and judging women for their part as theyre equally culpable. This is clear. But injecting this into every single possible conversation on sexuality and relationship is boring and disruptive, you impede intelligent, progessive discussion around any of these topics

 

Ok, I'll stay home and sip on my ginger tea and listen to my jazz music and get along with everybody around me and have no problems with life only with the one forum member who keeps traumatizing me and stalking me. I don't care what you say about the industry as you're not in it. Some doctors molest their patients and some don't. You don't know how I carry myself in this field and how I've stayed grounded. Go ahead and speculate all you want. I'd be traumatized too if I had to go through all you've been through. Nothing I've said in my comments suggests that I've been traumatized. You didn't tell Emerald she was traumatized with her similar remarks as mine. You're just insisting on making me traumatized. Maybe after you're done with me on this forum, I'll have an idea as to how it feels to be traumatized. Until then, I'll pass thank you.

[Princess Arabia]

15 minutes ago, bambi said:

Look come on, it doesnt take the most self awareness or honesty, to accept or admit that being in sex work is going to warp your view of yourself and others when it comes to sexuali

Really, why. Did I specify on what I do and how I do it. Warp my view?. I'm in the sex industry and don't have sex. Wee wee. I don't know what kind of warping it's doing other than the fact I can do this without getting banged up. Can't say the same for a regular relationship. Look you're not familiar with all that goes on, only your idea of what you think it entails. 

[bambi]

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Ok, I'll stay home and sip on my ginger tea and listen to my jazz music and get along with everybody around me and have no problems with life only with the one forum member who keeps traumatizing me and stalking me. I don't care what you say about the industry as you're not in it. Some doctors molest their patients and some don't. You don't know how I carry myself in this field and how I've stayed grounded. Go ahead and speculate all you want. I'd be traumatized too if I had to go through all you've been through. Nothing I've said in my comments suggests that I've been traumatized. You didn't tell Emerald she was traumatized with her similar remarks as mine. You're just insisting on making me traumatized. Maybe after you're done with me on this forum, I'll have an idea as to how it feels to be traumatized. Until then, I'll pass thank you.

This is my first time engaging with Emerald from what I remember. She seems to be attempted at least to give a somewhat objective analysis. I dont mean to be rude, but your just constantly projecting your subjective or personal issues (traumas) into every single gender or sexuality related convo, pretty much without exception.

But now it makes more sense. Dont worry I will make a conceited effort to stop responding and telling you your traumatised around sexuality, didnt realise you were escorting

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, bambi said:

This is my first time engaging with Emerald from what I remember. She seems to be attempted at least to give a somewhat objective analysis. I dont mean to be rude, but your just constantly projecting your subjective or personal issues (traumas) into every single gender or sexuality related convo, pretty much without exception.

But now it makes more sense. Dont worry I will make a conceited effort to stop responding and telling you your traumatised around sexuality, didnt realise you were escorting

Lol. There goes that word again. Trauma, TRAUMA, TrAUmA. Ok I'm traumatized. Now what?. Those guys are still looking for women to give their money to. I'm traumatized, boo boo, weep, weep. 😓😓

[bambi]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Really, why. Did I specify on what I do and how I do it. Warp my view?. I'm in the sex industry and don't have sex. Wee wee. I don't know what kind of warping it's doing other than the fact I can do this without getting banged up. Can't say the same for a regular relationship. Look you're not familiar with all that goes on, only your idea of what you think it entails. 

Whether or not you are having sex or not, farting on their face or not, stroking their hair or not isnt the main issue - its almost agnostic. The commodificaiton and objectification of yourself and others in relation to sexual work is fundemental unhealthy, and will negatively impact your self-esteem whether you think it does or not, or idependant of any rationalisations you attempt to make. It goes beyond sex work, we as humans cannot just manipulate, abuse, dehumanise, objectify, mistreat etc etc ourselves or others without some negative impact onto our being. Thats all Im saying.

 

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, bambi said:

But now it makes more sense. Dont worry I will make a conceited effort to stop responding and telling you your traumatised around sexuality, didnt realise you were escorting

My ex-husband traumatized me  more than these sweet perverted guys I'm giving a mutual service to. No problems only once in a blue moon and life goes on. You have no idea what my work entails, if you think trauma is involved.

Edited August 18 by Princess Arabia

[bambi]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Lol. There goes that word again. Trauma, TRAUMA, TrAUmA. Ok I'm traumatized. Now what?. Those guys are still looking for women to give their money to. I'm traumatized, boo boo, weep, weep. 😓😓

Well its the first step: you are seeing, engaging in, and enabling some of the most depraved or dysfunctional of human behaviour, and its warping your view of yourself, men, gender dynamics, sexuality and humanity in general lol

Reality will simply reflect back to you, your state of being. And your state of being is deeply intertwined with your behaviours, actions, relationships

 

[bambi]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

My ex-husband traumatized me  more than these sweet perverted guys I'm giving a mutual service to. No problems only once in a blue moon and life goes on. You have no idea what my work entails, if you think trauma is involved.

LOL if you think the type of men or husbands you are attracitng in your life are indepedent of you engaging in sex work, you dont understand how life is working. It doesnt shock me at all that you personal relationships will be less than savoury. Everything is interconnected

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, bambi said:

Whether or not you are having sex or not, farting on their face or not, stroking their hair or not isnt the main issue - its almost agnostic. The commodificaiton and objectification of yourself and others in relation to sexual work is fundemental unhealthy, and will negatively impact your self-esteem whether you think it does or not, or idependant of any rationalisations you attempt to make. It goes beyond sex work, we as humans cannot just manipulate, abuse, dehumanise, objectify, mistreat etc etc ourselves or others without some negative impact onto our being. Thats all Im saying.

 

Bambi I'm so sick of you stalking me. Go stalk someone else and stop traumatizing me please. I don't need your analysis of what I do. Go and clean up yourself from all the torture and torment you put yourself thru all those years while I go have a salmon dinner with my date, where's the trauma in that.

 

 

[bambi]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Bambi I'm so sick of you stalking me. Go stalk someone else and stop traumatizing me please. I don't need your analysis of what I do. Go and clean up yourself from all the torture and torment you put yourself thru all those years while I go have a salmon dinner with my date, where's the trauma in that.

 

 

Im not stalking you, thats just paranoid. I posted in this thread first. Dont mind me, enjoy your food and your date! I wish you a fun evening!

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, bambi said:

LOL if you think the type of men or husbands you are attracitng in your life are indepedent of you engaging in sex work, you dont understand how life is working. It doesnt shock me at all that you personal relationships will be less than savoury. Everything is interconnected

haha. Way before sex work dear. I was in college. Nothing to do with sex work. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, bambi said:

Im not stalking you, thats just paranoid. I posted in this thread first. Dont mind me, enjoy your food and your date! I wish you a fun evening!

I'm home, dear, just giving an example of my work. If I was working i wouldn't be on here entertaining you

[gambler]

If reality was opposite where men were doing this to consenting women, there would be a campaign against the men. But because it's done to men, no one cares. And no one will do a thing.

In U.S. Legislation you can't even consent to your own slavery. Because the principle is that certain rights and freedoms are inalienable, and therefore, no one can consent to their own violation, including slavery. But when it comes to other forms of humiliations and indignation, making that socially unacceptable as a collective AT THE VERY LEAST? Nah, forget about that. Why? Because when it's a dynamic where women have the power, it's fine. That's why.

End misandry.

[bambi]

54 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

haha. Way before sex work dear. I was in college. Nothing to do with sex work. 

 

Maybe his mistreatment is what got you into it! How old are you btw?

[gambler]

@bambiKeep doing the good work, love. I appreciate you wholeheartedly.

[Nemra]

@bambi

Do you remember when I gave a suggestion or, as you remember, an advice, and then you got sensitive and deemed not appropriate?

Why can't you apply your rules to yourself?

[bambi]

48 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@bambi

Do you remember when I gave a suggestion or, as you remember, an advice, and then you got sensitive and deemed not appropriate?

Why can't you apply your rules to yourself?

Do you want to give an example. I think you simply joined a discourse to give me unsolicted advice.

That isnt the same thats happening here. Im challenging Princesses view, paradigm and underlying reasons for her position - within an open discourse. Further I am claiming she is imposing this into every possible conversation around sexuality and gender dynamics.

In fact Im pretty sure you were trying to give me advice on how I should speak to other users, hmm something feels familair here. lol!

Am I missing something?

Edited August 18 by bambi

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, bambi said:

 

Maybe his mistreatment is what got you into it! How old are you btw?

2 hours ago, bambi said:

 

Maybe his mistreatment is what got you into it! How old are you btw?

I never said he mistreated me. Why would I get into this type of work because some man mistreated me. Makes no sense. You're the one projecting on me here. Nothing I've said so far indicates that I've been traumatized, have low self esteem or whatever else you keep saying I am. I was joking about my ex he never traumatized me. I'm not traumatized by anything. Traumatized...by what. The only trauma I go through is you keep telling me I'm traumatized..lol If I was fucking guys left and right and on drugs to numb the pain yeah I'd be traumatized. I would never do this if that's what I had to do. 

I'm older than I look because I'm not traumatized, never did drugs, have no children and live a pretty peaceful life, eat fairly healthy, holistic and don't consume too much negativity. I do have my vices, but other than that, I'm good.