No life - on the deepest level

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

@Sugarcoat, you have the opposite problem from everyone here

Most here wanna pop their ego balloon, but yours needs inflating

We need to pump up your deflated ego! C'mon everyone help out

Right

[CARDOZZO]

6 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

@Sugarcoat, you have the opposite problem from everyone here

Most here wanna pop their ego balloon, but yours needs inflating

We need to pump up your deflated ego! C'mon everyone help out

She is a 10, deserves the whole world to give her cake as @Schizophonia brilliantly pointed out.

[CARDOZZO]

 

[Sugarcoat]

@CARDOZZO thank you Cardozzo those are nice words

[Schizophonia]

30 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

She is a 10, deserves the whole world to give her cake as @Schizophonia brilliantly pointed out.

Maybe you confused me with someone else because i didn't really interact on the topic

But yes indeed.

More mayonnaise cake for the swedish witch. 

Hop hop

 

Edited August 19 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

@Schizophonia mayo and beer cake *😂

[CARDOZZO]

29 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Maybe you confused me with someone else because i didn't really interact on the topic

But yes indeed.

More mayonnaise cake for the swedish witch. 

Hop hop

 

It was on another topic about 105 questions  

 

[Salvijus]

On 2024-08-17 at 1:40 PM, Sugarcoat said:

regarding intimacy, one thing I also have is that barely can feel attraction and my libido is practically zero

I doubt an image like this doesn't move you. 

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Salvijus said:

I doubt an image like this doesn't move you. 

It doesn’t unfortunately 😕 I have zero libido literally 

[Salvijus]

It's off topic a bit. But can we just all agree that this gesture of putting foreheads together is the most beautiful thing in the world? Cmon. It's so deep........ 

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It's off topic a bit. But can we just all agree that this gesture of putting foreheads together is the most beautiful thing in the world? Cmon. It's so deep........ 

I can see what you’re saying

[Salvijus]

10 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It doesn’t unfortunately 😕 I have zero libido literally 

Libido is more than just arausal. All desire is libido desire. Without desire you wouldn't be able to participate in any activity whatsoever. Although there could be some truth that you're feeling low and despirited. But libido can't be killed really. It's the source of life. It's the source of love and glory. It's actually the source of who you are aswell. 

Edited August 19 by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

4 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I can see what you’re saying

Thank you. 

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Salvijus said:

Libido is more than just arausal. All desire is libido desire. Without desire you wouldn't be able to participate in any activity whatsoever. Although there could be some truth that your feeling low and despirited. But libido can't be killed really. It's the source of life. It's the source of love and glory. It's actually the source of who you are aswell. 

It’s extremely low from my experience that’s what I can say at least

[UnbornTao]

Not sure what it is you are going through. As has been mentioned, I'd check the basic lifestyle factors.

In any case, you could create a different disposition, such as enthusiasm.

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, UnbornTao said:

Not sure what it is you are going through. As has been mentioned, I'd check the basic lifestyle factors.

In any case, you could create a different disposition, such as enthusiasm.

I know I always write about odd things 

you mean I could just make myself enthusiastic?

[Salvijus]

14 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It’s extremely low from my experience that’s what I can say at least

That's fair thing to say. However opening the gates of libido is not that difficult. It's a simple matter of becoming aware of desire energy and allowing it to burn without restricting yourself. Because it's the psychological barriers of fear, guilt, shame, judgement that block the libido energy to flow properly. 

Edited August 19 by Salvijus

[UnbornTao]

5 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

you mean I could just make myself enthusiastic?

Yes, I'm proposing that you already do; that that's how emotions come about in the first place.

 

Edited August 19 by UnbornTao

[Sugarcoat]

3 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

That's fair thing to say. However opening the gates of libido is not that difficult. All you have to do is become aware of your desire energy and let it burn without restricting yourself. Because it's the psychological barriers of fear, guilt, shame, judgement that block the libido energy to flow properly. 

I know everything I write sounds unconventional so here I go again

from my experience I don’t feel like there is something here that is being held back, like desire energy. I don’t experience any “blocks” to it either. All of that I’ve dissolved already. My lack of emotion and desire is due to the disconnect I feel from myself and my thought processes. That’s just my experience 

[CARDOZZO]

19 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

Not sure what it is you are going through. As has been mentioned, I'd check the basic lifestyle factors.

In any case, you could create a different disposition, such as enthusiasm.

Great advice.

Building a new relationship to life (Object).