I don’t know what I want from socialization anymore

[MarkKol]

I recently started drunk clubbing, just out of spontaneity, no real goal or motive. But I did think that clubbing is like the ultimate way of meeting new people, but It’s actually very loud and impossible to converse. Adult friendships feel so shitty compared to those we had as kids. They feel less natural and less focused on having fun together. I used to have friends I could cry thinking about, now I just have friends. I’m someone who values spontaneous and fun relationships but it just feels like It’s impossible to find anymore. It seems like everyone is more interested in doing cocaine than anything else. Like zombies. 

[LSD-Rumi]

12 hours ago, MarkKol said:

dult friendships feel so shitty compared to those we had as kids

I still have Great dreams about my childhood friends from time to time. We had amazing times.

Edited August 16 by LSD-Rumi

[Schizophonia]

Be friend with peoples with common interests .

I just have a handful of friends, i'm ok with that.

[Keryo Koffa]

Maybe this is  what you want?

[MarkKol]

3 hours ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Maybe this is  what you want?

Yeah, I guess I crave stage-green adventures with stage-green people

5 hours ago, LSD-Rumi said:

I still have Great dreams about my childhood friends from time to time. We had amazing times.

What happened to them

[LSD-Rumi]

1 hour ago, MarkKol said:

What happened to them

Nothing, we just parted away.

[Spiral]

Why do you want to meet new people? If you want to make friends I don’t think the clubbing scene is the best choice.

[LordFall]

Meetup.com or group projects is a good way to meet people based on common interest/goals. Randomly going to a club and trying to make friends with strangers is one of the hardest ways I can think of.