What is 'neediness'?

[Consept]

Just now, mr_engineer said:

And yet here you are, spouting it as a scientific fact. It's a dogma that's held by the entire online dating-world and it has totally destroyed dating. It's making people less and less straightforward with each other about what they want. 

There is a special place in hell for people who propagate this lie. 

Yeah not really interested in a debate bro, just thought you wanted to know what it was

[mr_engineer]

1 minute ago, Consept said:

Yeah not really interested in a debate bro, just thought you wanted to know what it was

My question was more along the lines of 'What is this nonsense concept of 'neediness'?! WTF are people going on and on about 'don't be needy'?!' There really is no logic behind it, it's pure nonsense. 

[Consept]

1 minute ago, mr_engineer said:

My question was more along the lines of 'What is this nonsense concept of 'neediness'?! WTF are people going on and on about 'don't be needy'?!' There really is no logic behind it, it's pure nonsense. 

Be needy if you want lol no ones stopping you 

[mr_engineer]

4 minutes ago, Consept said:

Be needy if you want lol no ones stopping you 

Not illegal, right? 

[mr_engineer]

14 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

Not illegal, right? 

@Consept You're not answering, so I'm assuming that you agree that it's not illegal. 

[mr_engineer]

Mods, it's not illegal, right?! 

[mr_engineer]

I'm not kidding, this is my actual question. Is it illegal to be needy or not? 

Is there a legal reason to 'not be needy'? Is 'being needy' a crime? 

Edited August 14 by mr_engineer

[Consept]

@mr_engineer

Do you see how your needyness for an answer repels an answer?

[mr_engineer]

Just now, Consept said:

@mr_engineer

Do you see how your needyness for an answer repels an answer?

Just answer the question. 

Is it illegal or not? Yes or no? 

[mr_engineer]

I'm gonna keep bumping this question until someone answers. I don't care. 

[mr_engineer]

Answer the question, Leo. Is it, or is it not, legally punishable? 

[mr_engineer]

Another way of putting it is - can you get sued for 'needy behavior'? 

[mr_engineer]

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[mr_engineer]

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[mr_engineer]

The conversation won't move forward if nobody answers. So, Bump. 

[mr_engineer]

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[mr_engineer]

So, nobody has the courage to answer my question. I knew it. 

There are no ethical considerations relative to the issue of 'neediness' either. Therefore, there is no logical reason to not be 'needy'! 

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@mr_engineer Bro are you drunk 

[Buck Edwards]

2 hours ago, mr_engineer said:

Dating-coaches love to invent new problems to solve. It's one of the oldest business-tactics. And now we have ordinary people spouting their propaganda like this. 

I'm a woman and I get turned off by neediness. It's no propaganda.. It's okay to feel needed in the beginning. But serious neediness becomes toxic quickly and is a Codependency.