Why PORN is GOOD ( in my humble opinion)

[Someone here]

@emil1234 isn't it ? Isn't it so ? Yes or no ?

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Someone here said:

@emil1234 isn't it ? Isn't it so ? Yes or no ?

😂😂😂I can hear it

[Keryo Koffa]

@Someone here Yaaay! Sadhguru-Leo Crossover!

 

[Leo Gura]

3 hours ago, Someone here said:

@emil1234 isn't it ? Isn't it so ? Yes or no ?

In this pic Sadhguru is watching porn.

Edited August 4 by Leo Gura

[Basman]

On 02/08/2024 at 1:56 PM, RedLine said:

Those are actually benefics of no-fap, not fapping. With no fap you will feel more focused and in control. With fap you will become creepy, in your head and less control over your impulses. 

Anyway those are very sutle. I don't find much difference between being in no fap vs fap. But still I think it is a good habit not to touch your dick. I see it more as a self respect thing.

Broscience. In my experience, you just end up stressing over not touching yourself.

The basic three; sleep, diet and exercise effect your focus and state way more whether or not you touch yourself. I'm so glad that I woke up from the nofap dream.

Nofap is a cottage industry and an ideological cult built on pseudoscience that appeals to religiosity, conservative views on sexuality and men's shame of their own sexuality. It feeds people with magical thinking about sex and fapping. As if masturbating or not will have any serious effect on your life besides the time spent doing it.

Also, I'm glad to report that masturbating regularly has no effect on my general horniness. If anything, I've only gotten hornier as I gradually turn into a balding piggy old man with every year that passes.

[RedLine]

On 4/8/2024 at 9:04 AM, BlessedLion said:

 

I Ike Alexey Welch on YouTube. That guy understands Tantric Sex very well 

He sounds very good but I am not sure if he tells  people what they want to hear more than what girl like in sex. I suspect that what woman actually like is the savage guy hard cxxk thing more than the feeling the whole body/loving thing that he proposes (maybe because most woman are in a lower stage of consicusness)?

In my experience the times when I was not able to get hard and instead I started playing with the whole body, "making love", etc -the kind of thing these channel propose- the girl left me the next day. The relationship was going supergood, we try to have sex for the first time, I got nervous or I was in a bad energetic situation and didn´t get hard, next day she left me. It happens to me several times. If you are not able to get hard, they consider you are not men enough and they will abandoned you (sad), that´s based of my experience, am I biased?

 

Anyway, even if it is not real, what he suggest if a good mindset, getting in the "performance" circle will fuck you up even more.

Edited August 6 by RedLine

[Basman]

Once you discover the ART that is hentai, there is no going back to seeing porn as merely an outlet. Porn can be artistic and even beautiful. A regular porno is decrepit compared to a hentai master's stroke (decrepitness has a quality of its own however).

A master artist like Hirame makes the Mona Lisa blush (out of shame).

 

 

[UnbornTao]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

In this pic Sadhguru is watching porn.

"Isn't it so?"

[Leo Gura]

It will be my dream come true is someone at a Sadhguru Q&A asks him:

"Sadhguru, have you stopped beating your wife? Yes or no?"

[gambler]

I once went nearly 6 months of no fap. The goal wasn’t to go on no-fap despite it entailing wanting to be done with porn. For the most part, I just wanted to be in a state of mind that was peaceful. The end result of this was learning how to draw, relearning C++, creating web designs & websites—all as hobbies—and obviously, not touching myself. 

I share this to say, it’s interesting how our experiences differ. On no-fap I used my time better. When I fap regularly, I don’t engage in hobbies, I mindlessly waste time on the internet, a lot of it unproductive because it seems like I become re-wired for short term reward. I did not view women sexually, for the most part I saw them platonically. I did not have sexual urges or sexual restlessness, I was like a child again, a sex drive ceased to exist. Fantasies of intimacy were rare, and it was all non sexual. 

So how did the streak end? Exactly like any other time you decided to masturbate. The idea comes to you and in the moment it seems desirable, so you choose to go for it. 

I’m completely amazed how different our experiences are.

Edited August 5 by gambler

[Keryo Koffa]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

In this pic Sadhguru is watching porn.

Oh my God, he's looking at us, we're the porn!

9 hours ago, gambler said:

I’m completely amazed how different our experiences are.

That's because in Truth, there is no correlation and it's all mind games and body-shame-energy self-constructed and amplified beliefs and ideologies, we subconsciously form that become self-fulfilling and self-proving prophecies, as they become part of our experience and we build meta systems in response, which further reinforce the reality of these beliefs and experiences, which initially formed due to a pleasurable activity turning into a numbing distraction. It's all arbitrary and infinitely personal of course and thus, our experiences vary immensely! In other words: 

[gambler]

31 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

Oh my God, he's looking at us, we're the porn!

That's because in Truth, there is no correlation and it's all mind games and body-shame-energy self-constructed and amplified beliefs and ideologies, we subconsciously form that become self-fulfilling and self-proving prophecies, as they become part of our experience and we build meta systems in response, which further reinforce the reality of these beliefs and experiences, which initially formed due to a pleasurable activity turning into a numbing distraction. It's all arbitrary and infinitely personal of course and thus, our experiences vary immensely! In other words: 

Well said. 

[Keryo Koffa]

Now let the pros speak! They are literally reciting each other! Take that, strange looped Synchronicities!

 

Edited August 5 by Keryo Koffa

[krockerman]

https://youtu.be/fwdb9NsaA1Q?si=LAMtTHfI9h2dnuiH

[Princess Arabia]

On 8/4/2024 at 7:25 PM, RedLine said:

next day he left me.

Is it he or she. Typo?

[BlessedLion]

On 8/4/2024 at 5:25 PM, RedLine said:

I suspect that what woman actually like is the savage guy hard cxxk thing more than the feeling the whole body/loving thing that he proposes (maybe because most woman are in a lower stage of consicusness)?

Exactly man. It's an issue of consciousness level. I used to think this, but I started meeting Tantric spiritual women and they will not accept this kind of savage sex, especially right out the gate. 

The tantric sex is much more powerful, rejuvinating and fun. And you can still go savage mode but only once the trust is built, in fact women get even more freaky and wild when they are comfortable and trust you and you are making LOVE. But it has to be genuine, you have to actually care about her experience, many men just become tantric devils, using tantra as a mask to have super deep sex with women. see this all the time. and of course they easily and eventually get exposed, but they can trick a lot of women along the way.

The women has to be open to it and conscious and aware enough to have slow, deep, long, juicy sex like that. Tantric sex is usually 2-3 hours long, so you're definietly not expected to be hard the whole time. If she is new to it, you can sit her down and explain tantric sex and that is an exchange of love and energy, founded on trust. 

Regarding ED, Anytimes I have issues with that the women i'm with are very supportive and understand, it never happens these days though. If your with women who care so much about that, they are not high quality women. That'd be like getting mad at a women for not being wet. 

 

But ya totally agree with you, it's a matter of consciousness, but all women actually want that deep, connected, emotional sex. You just have to take the masculine role and lead her into it.

 

[BlessedLion]

On 8/4/2024 at 7:38 PM, gambler said:

When I fap regularly, I don’t engage in hobbies, I mindlessly waste time on the internet, a lot of it unproductive because it seems like I become re-wired for short term reward.

Agree. Maybe it just doesn't effect some men. But for me, when i'm watching porn, i'm uninspired to tackle my goals, my focus is down, my energy is down and many other negative side effects. Currently on a 180 day challenge, finished 90 last month

[Javfly33]

 

On 04/08/2024 at 4:46 PM, Princess Arabia said:

Why would you want women to become addicted to you. A healthy masculine just wants to please his women and make her feel loved, wanted and protected, not addicted.

@Princess Arabia Because you are talking about a healthy relationship dynamic which is the 1% of this world, 99% is toxic, manipulation, and constant games of inferior-superiority.

Some say we have evolved but no, much of society is still in chimpanzee dynamics. 

 

See? They brainwash them to think like this: 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

On 04/08/2024 at 5:19 PM, NoSelfSelf said:

You didnt ask me but ill give my 2 cents. Addiction is everpresent in the game of dating one cant escape it.Like it or not it will come through many forms,when one says i miss you that is a form of drug, how much drug one gives another person during the time those 2 people are together, it will manifest into how much and how hard one thinks about the other person,how much they miss them,how much they cant wait to see them, since they insert themselves in their bloodstream so to speak.So a man must be mindful how much drug it gives to a woman, since if she is too demanding of the time and you cant give it one needs to back off from giving it,the more one gives the drug more for example woman will want to have babies with that person,marry that persib and go even insane if that person is not there.So addiction is conciously or unconciously spread or not,if not then woman wont be needing to even see that person.One gives drug for the aim he intends and communicates with a woman.That's why someone with game warns a women that she shouldnt deal with a man like him because you wouldnt handle the addiction and every woman replys : " nah you will get addicted to me" so in the end she has been warned.Dont shoot the messanger 😄

 

[Raze]

There is plenty of scientific evidence that porn is bad for you. Fap or nofap, don’t use porn.

[NoSelfSelf]

@Javfly33 Im brainwashed but watch out when you finally decide to go in a relationship how much addiction it will cause you i can already see you thinking:did she text me? Omg did i do something wrong? I need to see her, guys help me i love her it hurts,how can i stop thinking about her i miss her🤪

Edited August 7 by NoSelfSelf