Why PORN is GOOD ( in my humble opinion)

[Patrick_9931]

Intro

I've found in my experience that porn is actually a good thing if you do not abuse it. 

I think that the consumption of porn is not really good or bad per se, it all depends on what your goal is.

If your goal is to become a monk and to conserve all of your sexual energy for spiritual work or whatever than yes porn might be bad for you.

But if for example you're like me so you just broke up with your GF and do not have a steady supply of sex then porn is a really good way to satisfy your basic human needs in the meanwhile you're waiting to find another partner.

No-fap for me has the following cons:

1) It makes me become tense, nervous and agitated 

2) All the sexual tension build by it makes me view some women just as mere sexual objects and this I feel brings me in a lower vibration

3) I would be inclined to fuck women that I do not respect or do not care about just to nut. This would not be good for my morals, image I have of myself and overall integrity. 

 

Pros of fapping moderately:

1) Makes me calm, relaxed, peaceful and focused

2) Once I've satisfied my basic sexual need I am not inclined to waste time trying to fuck women I do not respect or I do not care about or would never be in a relationship with

3) I have more time and energy to pursue women I actually do care about and I would be interested in having a long term relationship with 

4) I think women feel it when you are desperate for sex and it is a repellent for them. With fapping you can present yourself to them in a non needy non attached way. 

 

Any thoughts?

Edited August 2 by Patrick_9931

[RedLine]

2 hours ago, Patrick_9931 said:

 

Pros of fapping moderately:

1) Makes me calm, relaxed, peaceful and focused

2) Once I've satisfied my basic sexual need I am not inclined to waste time trying to fuck women I do not respect or I do not care about or would never be in a relationship with

3) I have more time and energy to pursue women I actually do care about and I would be interested in having a long term relationship with 

4) I think women feel it when you are desperate for sex and it is a repellent for them. With fapping you can present yourself to them in a non needy non attached way. 

 

 

Those are actually benefics of no-fap, not fapping. With no fap you will feel more focused and in control. With fap you will become creepy, in your head and less control over your impulses. 

Anyway those are very sutle. I don't find much difference between being in no fap vs fap. But still I think it is a good habit not to touch your dick. I see it more as a self respect thing.

Edited August 2 by RedLine

[Schizophonia]

You do what you want, eh.

[Keryo Koffa]

I wonder what the difference between no-fap and no-sex is, like energetically beyond the social aspects

There are of course countless perspectives, there's tantric sex and so forth

But then, does the energy leave with the fluids or is it about the experience, hmm...

[Butters]

8 hours ago, RedLine said:

Anyway those are very sutle. I don't find much difference between being in no fap vs fap. But still I think it is a good habit not to touch your dick. I see it more as a self respect thing.

You mean you feel like you're molesting yourself? 

5 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

But then, does the energy leave with the fluids or is it about the experience, hmm...

I used to believe that the orgasm completely removes the higher energy but this wasn't true, just a belief. I've had now many times where I stayed just as "high" after orgasm, same dream-like state. 

[FourCrossedWands]

12 hours ago, Patrick_9931 said:

2) All the sexual tension build by it makes me view some women just as mere sexual objects and this I feel brings me in a lower vibration

This is not caused by abstaining from porn but by being addicted to porn lol.

[Asia P]

Its easy to become addicted, be careful. Porn is so stimulating and satisfying that for some ppl turns off their desire to go out and find real sex

[Tenebroso]

I find meditation to have a bigger influence on my vibe and energy than no fap. The problem with No Fap is that if you are still young, that sexual energy has to be directed into something either spirituality, art or some sort of social cause. That energy with no specific outlet can make you even more creepy and desperate. Maybe the best way would be to find your passion or purpose while still fapping, then slowly let go of the porn. Just going cold turkey without a sense of direction can I said warp your energy even more.

[Buck Edwards]

Porn is not good. It ruins you. 

[Raze]

Just fap without porn then 

[Asia P]

@Raze  so wise

[Keryo Koffa]

I tried to force my urges under control before, always ends up in wet dreams.

Kept questioning if porn really drained my energy or the shame (self-fulfilling prophecy).

It's always been a unique dimension for me, seperate from relationships and spiritual energy.

Horniness drives lust, seeking pretty bodies. Nothing wrong with it, but limits relationships.

Now I just go with the flow, if it's strong enough, I don't even need to touch myself to orgasm.

[FourCrossedWands]

In my opinion, it's part of the awakening to fully control your urges, to make the ego suffer.

Abstaining from porn is very hard and it can bring some really bad thoughts or even depression. That's your brain playing tricks on you.

Trying to find pros/cons is also your brain playing tricks on you.

[Tenebroso]

@Keryo Koffa I increasingly think it's the shame that's more draining. The shame of carnal desire, the body and the senses. Why would we have such desires without the right to enjoy them. It's conundrum but the most secure people I know also happen to be very unapologetically sexual. I think No Fap works in very specific conditions and lifestyles.

[Leo Gura]

Those who can't appreciate porn are barbarians and project their barbarism onto others.

Edited August 4 by Leo Gura

[FourCrossedWands]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Those who can't appreciate porn are barbarians and project their barbarism onto others.

Watching porn for hours is ok, but masturbating to it is not.

[BlessedLion]

On 8/2/2024 at 3:30 AM, Patrick_9931 said:

Intro

I've found in my experience that porn is actually a good thing if you do not abuse it. 

I think that the consumption of porn is not really good or bad per se, it all depends on what your goal is.

If your goal is to become a monk and to conserve all of your sexual energy for spiritual work or whatever than yes porn might be bad for you.

But if for example you're like me so you just broke up with your GF and do not have a steady supply of sex then porn is a really good way to satisfy your basic human needs in the meanwhile you're waiting to find another partner.

No-fap for me has the following cons:

1) It makes me become tense, nervous and agitated 

2) All the sexual tension build by it makes me view some women just as mere sexual objects and this I feel brings me in a lower vibration

3) I would be inclined to fuck women that I do not respect or do not care about just to nut. This would not be good for my morals, image I have of myself and overall integrity. 

 

Pros of fapping moderately:

1) Makes me calm, relaxed, peaceful and focused

2) Once I've satisfied my basic sexual need I am not inclined to waste time trying to fuck women I do not respect or I do not care about or would never be in a relationship with

3) I have more time and energy to pursue women I actually do care about and I would be interested in having a long term relationship with 

4) I think women feel it when you are desperate for sex and it is a repellent for them. With fapping you can present yourself to them in a non needy non attached way. 

 

Any thoughts?

You do you. Everyone is different. 
 

Personally I see porn as a massive drain of sexual power and masculinity. I think it takes away your life force and leads to needing more and more of it, and more intense porn too. 
 

I don’t think most guys are conscious of how it effects them. 
 

When I quit my mind was much calmer, stronger, peaceful, and I was able to channel the sexual energy to conquering my life vision and goals. 
 

I know how to do sexual transmission so it doesn’t get stuck and I don’t get all pent up on sexual energy and act aggressive. It’s more like a cool flow of bliss and energy coming from retained sexual energy. 
 

Millions of men are struggling with porn addiction and the negative effects are well documented at this point. 
 

Also lots of the women are treated unfairly, you’d be surprised at how much you might be masturbating to a sex trafficker or woman just being straight up drugged and raped. The suicide rate for women in porn is very high 

 

It’s not this harmless thing you’re making it out to be. But if you can find quality verified porn and enjoy it, sure, go to town  

 

on top of that, when I’m not watching porn I’m so much better with women naturally and in the bedroom I’m basically a Tantric God. 
 

Im done with that mind rotting garbage. 

[BlessedLion]

On 8/2/2024 at 2:32 PM, Keryo Koffa said:

I wonder what the difference between no-fap and no-sex is, like energetically beyond the social aspects

There are of course countless perspectives, there's tantric sex and so forth

But then, does the energy leave with the fluids or is it about the experience, hmm...

Sex is a super charger for your consciousness if you know how to do it right. It can also be a drainer. 
 

I Ike Alexey Welch on YouTube. That guy understands Tantric Sex very well 

[BlessedLion]

On 8/2/2024 at 2:32 PM, Keryo Koffa said:

I wonder what the difference between no-fap and no-sex is, like energetically beyond the social aspects

There are of course countless perspectives, there's tantric sex and so forth

But then, does the energy leave with the fluids or is it about the experience, hmm...

If you can master non ejaculation sex you will blow women’s minds and they will become addicted to you 

[NoSelfSelf]

12 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

If you can master non ejaculation sex you will blow women’s minds and they will become addicted to you 

😂😂😂 sex is more mental this is the silliest thing i heared