How To Make Friends ?

[Key Elements]

@Prabhaker Yes, that's what I meant.

 

[Key Elements]

On 2017-4-25 at 0:33 AM, Shin said:

I think it's time for me to do this, because intuition blablabla

I guess it will be a bit more difficult now I am older (28 years), I can be very open and can socialize okish, I'm ok with my introversion and my lifestyle, so I don't have social anxiety or something like that.

I just don't know what is a friendship, how to create one and maintain one (obviously).

So, does someone here also never had friends for all his life, and had to learn how to be more social/how to bring friendship into existence ?

Do you have some common grounds, or it isn't even necessary ?

Thank you

Shin, when you are older and have a life purpose, your odds of making long term / authentic friends are much higher. You have something great to talk about, especially if both have life purposes toward an end goal. 

Meeting authentic friends are few. You will meet lots of acquaintances.

Edited April 27, 2017 by Key Elements

[Visitor]

On 4/25/2017 at 5:03 AM, Shin said:

... I just don't know what is a friendship, how to create one and maintain one (obviously)...

Hello Shin.

Your signature says it all. "Be, don't try to become" - Osho

To make friends is to be a friend.

What would you expect a friend to be?

Then be that way as a friend.

[Shane597]

Man, I can't believe how many topics everyone discusses and the depts you guys go into. Sometimes I think it is just unhealthy to think as much as everyone does on this forum. 

Edited April 30, 2017 by Shane Roberts

[Shane597]

I am struggling to make more deep friendships and that is really what I value. How do you know when you can form a deep friendship, they all seem to die off for me. 

Edited April 30, 2017 by Shane Roberts

[jse]

On 25/04/2017 at 2:03 AM, Shin said:

How To Make Friends ?

"Make" is something we do to things like pancakes.
For example, do we make lovers, or find  lovers?

So perhaps a better question would be...
How to find friends?  or... How can friends find you?

[123456789]

On 24.4.2017 at 10:03 PM, Shin said:

I just don't know what is a friendship, how to create one and maintain one (obviously).

@Shin Try to contemplate what a friendship is and here's a guide on How to Make friends.

Edit: don't underestimate the power of these guides, they can be of great help

Edited May 5, 2017 by Lenny