Finally started gaming... and fell back into rut shortly after

[thenondualtankie]

Let me be honest by saying I have procrastinated doing game for years and years.

Around a month ago I finally got into it, started doing some daygame approaches by attending a weekly wing meetup. Someone there really pushed me and made me approach a bunch of women for the first time (first time properly approaching). I honestly felt amazing that day. I started planning how much pickup I was gonna do every week. 

But then I somehow psyched myself out of doing it by saying I was too tired, thinking about all the cringe I'd experience, and now I'm back in a complete rut. I feel like I'm back to square one.

Not exactly sure why I wanted to make this post, but here we are.

[NoSelfSelf]

Nice 👌 when you realize you are the game, at that moment things are going to really change.

[Spiritual Warrior]

You are experiencing a relapse into more comfortable states of not pushing yourself out of your comfort zone ( for you it is hitting on girls).

This will happen again and again for any serious change that you are trying to integrate into your life. Put awareness on it and keep trying to integrate change into your life. 

Be hopeful that no matter how many times you fail, you will figure it out.

Good luck.

[Spiritual Warrior]

Consistently hitting on random women is extremely challenging. This habit will not stick without serious persistence.

[Chadders]

@thenondualtankie I’ve had similar experiences where I’ve gone through phases dipping in and out but I can honestly say it’s now starting to stick and I’m back in the game committed to it

This for me is more because I’ve made a conscious decision to really develop my extroverted side 

[Yimpa]

5 minutes ago, Chadders said:

I’ve had similar experiences where I’ve gone through phases dipping in and out but I can honestly say it’s now starting to stick and I’m back in the game committed to it

What speed did you dip in and out? And how sticky was this experience?