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How to deal with “lemon face” girls ?

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I’m new to the game and I’ve approached just 50 girls so far. Sometimes when I approach girls they give me a lemon face. What would be the best reaction to it ? 
I’m just smiling and saying “have a good day” 

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40 minutes ago, TheGod said:

I’m just smiling and saying “have a good day” 

Surely there’s a better/funnier thing to say than that. 

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32 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Surely there’s a better/funnier thing to say than that. 

It would be nice if you give me an example. Since you never did I assume you have no idea what it would be 

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12 minutes ago, TheGod said:

It would be nice if you give me an example. Since you never did I assume you have no idea what it would be 

I don’t know of any off the top of my head, at least none that aren’t downright mean and toxic. But hey, some girls dig that 

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25 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

I don’t know of any off the top of my head, at least none that aren’t downright mean and toxic. But hey, some girls dig that 

Then I keep using mine which reflects my high integrity 

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The fact that you're counting, females can sense that they're just a #. Now I know why I never really gave guys that approached me the time of day. Maybe only in a bar or club setting and that was usually just for fun and conversation. Anytime a guy approached me on the street, I just thought I was just "next". All my relationships were just from casual interactions; meaning, I wasn't approached; we either knew each other before or it was just from a casual conversation that didn't start with him trying to pick me up. 

That said, i do like a persistent guy, though, that tells me he's really interested in me and that I'm not  just a #. If he's funny I'll probably give it a shot.

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2 hours ago, TheGod said:

Then I keep using mine which reflects my high integrity 

The way I see it, if she’s lemon facing you she’s already closed off so it won’t really help anything no matter what you say on your way out, unless it helps you feel better somehow then go for it.

I’ve noticed when girls are the ones who say “have a nice day” that usually means fuck off 

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5 hours ago, Butters said:

Great read, thanks! 

Yeah, I just read it. Also confirms what I said in my comment that I like persistency. Never thought I'd see it written in an article. For sure, women know what they like. It's just we have a harder time putting it into words because so much is based in feelings. How do you explain feelings; kinda tough if you're not expressive and trained to not come off a certain way. 


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Lemon face’s are so sour and hot :x

 


I AM invisible 

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7 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

The way I see it, if she’s lemon facing you she’s already closed off so it won’t really help anything no matter what you say on your way out, unless it helps you feel better somehow then go for it.

I’ve noticed when girls are the ones who say “have a nice day” that usually means fuck off 

Yeah that is how I see it too. I’m saying have a good day because it shows her that I understand she’s not interested but I’m not taking it personally and I’m not gonna disturb her again. 

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1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

For sure, women know what they like.

Sure 😅

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Take a lemon out of your pocket and suck on it In front of her.

Make sure the lemon is already pre-cut and ready to suck on, still wet and absorbing your pocket juice.

Or you could pull out 100 bucks and give it to her, money cures women of all mental distress. She intuitively now understands why you stand in front of her. 😂🤦‍♀️

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How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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Could just be suffering from allergies.


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1 minute ago, Lila9 said:

I think that narcissists subconsciously realize this and use it manipulatively during the love-bombing phase at the beginning of a relationship.

This is why I don't really give guys that approach in a certain manner much deep thought or attention unless I can sense that he really likes me and not just approaching for approaching sake. Or guys that gives me too many compliments in the beginning, especially if it isn't something unique to me or the situation at hand. Like maybe comment on something i said or point something out that he noticed and wouldn't noticed otherwise if he wasn't paying attention. I'm not the one to love-bomb and come at like you're Don Juan or something. I don't get easily seduced by flirtatious talk. A little bit, maybe; but as long as it's not generic and I can tell this is how he talks to a lot of women. 


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8 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

Yes, when your intuition is sharp as a woman, the pickup artists and all sorts of Don Juans who use manipulative tactics can be so annoying, as can the men who play the nice, listening, and polite guys while they couldn’t care less about the women they pursue as individuals. 

This only makes true intimacy and connection more valuable and powerful. When it’s real, it is on a level of divine mystical experience in my eyes, it is tantric. 

👍Yea, from one extreme to the next. I actually think the nice, listening and polite ones are worse because they are acting as if they really care when they're just trying to impress you because they think that's what you want. At least with the player or the opposite type of guy, you know what to expect and there are no surprises. I remember watching a video from Teal Swan about this very same issue as she warned about the nice guy approach. Reminded me of someone i once knew. Boy, was he a nice narcissist. Lol

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46 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

True 😂

The nice ones scare the shit out of me in the way they love to guilt trip women and play the victim when women don’t reward them with what they expect or don’t buy into their game. Yes, I definitely suspect there is a covert narcissist element there.

When I was younger, I genuinely believed that those men liked me and wanted to be my friends. This was so naive. My intuition screamed that it was fake, but I didn’t listen, and then I was surprised when they got angry at me in a passive aggressive way.

Yes, exactly.


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