Satisfying a desire vs letting it go

[yasseringgg]

After watching Leo's video on Burning Through Karma, I've realized the importance of satisfying my different desires and trying lots of stuff, especially since i'm still young. But I've noticed that I've been forcing myself to do stuff that I don't actually enjoy (like quick hook ups) just to "get it out of my system". So I'm wondering where is the line between satisfying a desire vs just letting go.

For example, I'm bi but recently I've been craving getting into a relationship with a guy since I've never explored that yet and I feel like there is a lot of potential for growth and connection there. But most guys I've talked to just want sex and it's hard to find someone I'm attracted to both physically and intellectually who's interested in something deeper. And since I think about this a lot, I'm wondering if I should just commit to letting this craving go or to take even more action to satisfy it.

[Evelyna]

@yasseringgg the most important relationship is with yourself, world around you will reflect this, if you are looking for certain type of romantic relationship ask yourself how much do you actualy love yourself, truly reflect on that. I don’t mean here how much you love your appearance, but rather are you happy with who you are, do you know your own worth and do you love that, can you be your own validation. Can you just be happy no matter what is happening around you, or do you have a belief you need someone to make you happy, because if it’s a second one you will create an experiance in which this exists. If you want a different experiance you need to change something that your are doing / thinking to bring different results. You might be creating some resistance and it results in what you don’t want.

Edited July 26 by Evelyna

[jacknine119]

Oh damn I am in a same situation when I try to have fun in the party😁