are we all bisexual ?

[Majed]

i've been contemplating the nature of sexuality and i've come to the conclusion that we're all bisexual.

[Jannes]

It's a spectrum. But I think making general distinctions makes sense. 

[Yimpa]

This is meowsense.

 

[Majed]

@Jannes i don't think so, i think any person can get attracted to any other person regardless of gender. 

Edited July 25 by Majed

[Yimpa]

Be careful stroking your brush too broadly. 

[Sugarcoat]

😂😂

[Sugarcoat]

Everyone isn’t even sexual 

[Schizophonia]

Lmao.

 

With enough MDMA maybe. 

[Majed]

i think we're all bisexual, those who say they're straight or gay lack experience. 

[Butters]

59 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Lmao.

 

With enough MDMA maybe. 

According to r/drugs all drugs make you gay. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

I let this gay dude who is a good friend of my good friends play with my winky (with my shorts on) for five seconds one night. We shared a hotel room at a casino like a year or two prior and had deep conversations. At one point he brought up wanting to and I politely declined. Fast forward to when I let him, that night I got to thinking I’d really want someone to do that for me if I was gay, and it really wouldn’t hurt anything, so I let him. Sure would be nice if women shared the same courtesy instead of viciously overreacting when we ask for things like that or things even more trivial than that.

I had a friend when I was around 10-12 who came up with “the secret penis shake” to which I agreed. We got under my bed and laid on our sides facing each other and pulled down our pants and underwear and pinched onto each other’s dingalings and simply shook a few times like a handshake.

This other time when I was about maybe 5 or six, at my birthday party this kid somehow got me to agree to try out this thing where we lick each other’s privates. He started by licking my crotch starting from the root of the sack all the way up and also the ass and both felt amazing. When it came around to my turn I was fine with doing his junk but refused to do the ass. I didn’t even know he was gonna want me to return the favor for any of this so I feel like I was nice enough to just do that.

I also used to grab the junk of some of my friends any opportunity I got. Not because it turned me on (I’m straight) but because seeing their reaction was hilarious.

So the point of all this is sexuality isn’t  always as straightforward or simple as it seems. Despite doing these things in my past, I can still confidently say I’m straight as an arrow, as unbelievable as that may sound.

Edited July 25 by Emotionalmosquito

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Butters said:

According to r/drugs all drugs make you gay. 

Normal men tend to assume more their death drive and thus having a natural preference for depressants.

Stimulants are essentially pleasant if you are a sissy with a big sense of self, because for some reasons you are used to condition your brain to play to BEING something rather than DOING and it's a pathetic condition for a men, stimulants bring this sensation of power to satisfy this paradigm even if they are stressful ; That neurological conditioning will create submission fetish. Because the stress and therefore resolution of stress is directed into what into the self your avatar.

 

Edited July 25 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

Strong sense of self = yin = Passivity/submission/retention/fear/calculation.

Low sense of self = yang = Activity/domination/explosion/aggression/punctuality.

Edited July 25 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

@Schizophonia it seems it would be the opposite what does low sense of self even mean 

[Schizophonia]

38 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

@Schizophonia it seems it would be the opposite what does low sense of self even mean 

Why ? 🤔

For me low sense of self is weak awareness of the avatar ("me"), in such a way that most of energy is deployed toward what is perceived as not “me” (the "outside"). So the result will be a much more "yang" energy tendency, that is to say to do things. There is less reason to be passive and self-centered, to be afraid to fight to guarantee one's survival etc. (feminine (yin) behaviors) because the ego takes a weaker place. Some very yang people may actually even come to enjoy fighting or scarring themselves, even if it is supposed to be ego-threatening at the core.
I'm mixing "ego" and "self" but it's roughly the same semantics?

I don't know if it's clear, I'm a little too lazy to theorize at almost 11 p.m. lol.
Maybe another time.

[TottiWatts]

in the meaning of feeling sexual attraction by both sex - I am not lol so maybe we arent all bissexual. But when you mean we as the total organism that we are than yes probably we are 

[Princess Arabia]

5 hours ago, Ero said:

@Majed I feel like most people are on a spectrum. I for example am like 95-97% straight -  a few years ago I let myself be a little bit more experimental, which lead me to conclude that I am naturally very masculine and enjoy almost only women. Even if I was attracted slightly to a man, they had to be very feminine, but even then I wasn't attracted enough to go all the way lol. It was a freeing experience, since I had to heal a lot of homophobia from my household, so I have no regrets. But, to second Jannes and Yimpa, I think you are being too reductive. 

IOW, yes. You have just only explained to what degree you are.

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Why ? 🤔

For me low sense of self is weak awareness of the avatar ("me"), in such a way that most of energy is deployed toward what is perceived as not “me” (the "outside"). So the result will be a much more "yang" energy tendency, that is to say to do things. There is less reason to be passive and self-centered, to be afraid to fight to guarantee one's survival etc. (feminine (yin) behaviors) because the ego takes a weaker place. Some very yang people may actually even come to enjoy fighting or scarring themselves, even if it is supposed to be ego-threatening at the core.
I'm mixing "ego" and "self" but it's roughly the same semantics?

I don't know if it's clear, I'm a little too lazy to theorize at almost 11 p.m. lol.
Maybe another time.

That’s a good description I think I understand and can draw parallels to my own models of people. Where did you get this from?

[Princess Arabia]

A long time ago I use to say this to myself. I haven't been disproven yet. One doesn't even have to have been with both sexes, or these days, tri-sexes to be considered bi. I think it's inherent whether we're aware of it or not. It's the nature of consciousness. 

[Princess Arabia]

8 minutes ago, TottiWatts said:

in the meaning of feeling sexual attraction by both sex - I am not lol so maybe we arent all bissexual. But when you mean we as the total organism that we are than yes probably we are 

This is kind of in alignment with my response.