Is marriage a trap?

[Salvijus]

You guys are smoking the wrong stuff. 

Except Diana. She's smoking the good stuff. 

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

You guys are smoking the wrong stuff. 

Except Diana. She's smoking the good stuff. 

I snort jenkem 😃

[Salvijus]

😅 

[QVx]

22 hours ago, DianaFr said:

Without being married this wouldn't be a complete experience. As a woman, I like to be owned or claimed by my husband. It's like a declaration by him to me and everybody else that I belong with him. We share the same surname and we are legally bound to each other. This feels like a safe container to me, I definetely prefer to be a wife instead of a girlfriend. On a deeper level we both share a similar abandonment trauma from childhood, so securing our connection with the ultimate means possible actually provides that sense of safety we both crave. There is something about the physical things like the ring on my finger or wedding photos or having a new signature that serves as a daily reminder that this is all real. It's a big deal for someone like me who is mostly withdrawn in her inner world and quite distant from the real one.

Speaking about idealism, I'd say it has no place in marriage. You marry a real person, not an extension of your own illusion. Yes, it often starts with this but as you progress and mature and get bruised and disappointed and heartbroken again and again, the idealism strips away layer by layer, until you meet your core truths and can finally perceive them in your partner as well. Then you can love him for who he is, not for the image you assigned to him. It comes with a pleasent sense of liberation because you finally realize you get to be yourself - as flawed and weird as you are - and have that safe connection with your partner - as flawed and weird as they are - at the same time. It's quite nice, albeit very very far from ideal. 

@DianaFr thanks for taking the time to reply, I really appreciate the honesty in what you’ve said.

I think that it’s a beautiful expression of one’s own experience expressed in the medium of philosophical discussion.

 

 

[Butters]

But what about a Jim & Pam situation? Jim said he wished he married her the first day they met. Although not for me, seems like true love? 

6 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

I snort jenkem 😃

You sent me on a 2hr Youtube binge into the depths of creepy internet history. 

[Yimpa]

Marriage is LOVE!!!

Thank you GOD!

[Emotionalmosquito]

16 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

I snort jenkem 😃

Have you noticed any outstanding differences between male vs female jenk? I’m curious to know if trace amounts of estrogen have any noteworthy effects on the jenkaloids. 

What strains have you tried? I just received a shipment of Mexican Butt Poppers which are supposed to provide a more intense stimulation of the 4xi-Jenklamine receptor. Lately I’ve been trying this stuff called Moroccan Camel Clutch. Works alright but leaves you with a shitty feeling on the comedown.