Is marriage a trap?

[Yimpa]

And now to bring it full circle:

What is a trap?

[Dauntment]

(Speaking for men) I think Marriage is only viable under 2 circumstances: 

1. A system to intentionally start a family & raise children

2. (less common) A tool for business/economic purposes; I imagine Kim K & Kanye, Alex & Leila Hormozi, Beyonce & JAY-Z, etc. come to mind

 

Otherwise.....very likely (statistically-backed) to end up as a NET negative (at least for the guy). We could sit around and discuss hypotheticals all day but, this is the nutshell as I see it.

 

[Dauntment]

Just now, Yimpa said:

And now to bring it full circle:

What is a trap?

Appearance of a net positive, but results in net negative.

[Yimpa]

39 minutes ago, Dauntment said:

Appearance of a net positive, but results in net negative.

My gay marriage with Texas 

 

[Salvijus]

45 minutes ago, Dauntment said:

Appearance of a net positive, but results in net negative.

Life is not about taking but about giving. There's nothing to take anyways. Nor is there anything the world could give you. 

[Yimpa]

3 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Life is not about taking but about giving. There's nothing to take anyways. Nor is there anything the world could give you. 

Don’t be so foolish. Your rights can be taken away at any moment.

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Yimpa said:

Don’t be so foolish. Your rights can be taken away at any moment.

You don't have any rights already

[Nemra]

@Salvijus 

Congrats on your expertise in spiritual gaslighting. Quite an impressive skill, I must say.

[Yimpa]

54 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

@Nemra

Congrats on your expertise in spiritual gaslighting. Quite an impressive skill, I must say.

Ok, ok…. That’s enough you too,  break it up!

[Salvijus]

4 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Salvijus 

Congrats on your expertise in spiritual gaslighting. Quite an impressive skill, I must say.

There's no such thing. You can't gaslight anyone with the truth. Truth doesn't gaslight. It's just light

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Truth doesn't gaslight. It’s just light

A bloated marriage is a stinka… don’t cha tink?

 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

Life is not about taking but about giving. There's nothing to take anyways. Nor is there anything the world could give you. 

Giving is receiving and receiving is giving. It's both. Not one or the other.

[Nemra]

8 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

There's no such thing. You can't gaslight anyone with the truth. Truth doesn't gaslight. It's just light

Gaslighting exists because of truth. Gaslighting is the truth. That's why it's difficult to know whether someone is gaslighting you.

[Yimpa]

It’s a trap to fall for gaslighting and the truth you are in love with. 

That’s why you fall in LOVE!

La-Dove!

Edited July 25 by Yimpa

[Salvijus]

5 minutes ago, Nemra said:

 Gaslighting exists because of truth. Gaslighting is the truth. That's why it's difficult to know whether someone is gaslighting you. 

What's wrong with gaslighting if it's the truth? 

 

[Salvijus]

9 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Giving is receiving and receiving is giving. It's both. Not one or the other.

This is gaslighting me now. 

joking. I know what you mean. And I agree with you. 

[Yimpa]

Beware, the miscommunications can be endless 

I’m marrying a geek to fix the signal.

Edited July 25 by Yimpa

[Nemra]

8 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

What's wrong with gaslighting if it's the truth? 

Your question is the answer.

[Nemra]

@Yimpa

You are like a video game that has a lot of Easter eggs. 🐇

[Salvijus]

9 minutes ago, Nemra said:

Your question is the answer.

I was not asking a question. I was making a point.