Best resource on tantric sex ?

[Someone here]

I only had sex five times in my whole life . I'm usually a horny idiot who doesn't pay attention to the foreplay and the "build up " if you will..I go straight to fucking and its mostly rough ..my ex actually had pain in her vagina after banging her in last Christmas. I tend to ejaculate quickly as well and usually the girl I'm having sex with doesn't reach orgasm. 

Anyways..I'm reading the multi orgasmic man..and the author makes a point that the more slow you have sex the more euphoria you and your partner will experience..so I should Lower my pace and penetrate the pussy gently..he talks about "tantric " sex and that sex can be a spirtual practice that makes you enlightened 😂..what are the best books or resources out there on tantra and what are your experiences guys about this kind of thing ?

[Javfly33]

Find a tantra practitioner to Talk to, (most of them they do not Only do massages but can do a short "coaching" regarding how is your relationship with sex) you Will probably learn more and more practical things "customized" for you than a book that is generic. There are several things that probably have to be changed like the thing you said about avoiding foreplay, going too fast, cumming too early, etc... (kegel exercises are known to help in this regard btw). before you getting into the technicalities of a book. 

Personally I also want to try this but the right woman has to appear, is not easy, but i think worth it. 

Edited July 22 by Javfly33

[Someone here]

@Javfly33 thanks . Seems reasonable. 

Just curious if you don't mind answering..are you a virgin? 

[Javfly33]

16 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Javfly33 thanks . Seems reasonable. 

Just curious if you don't mind answering..are you a virgin? 

No

[Someone here]

Just now, Javfly33 said:

No

Oh great brother . Just this statement tripped me up ..never mind ..or actually.. what you mean by this ?

2 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

Personally I also want to try this but the right woman has to appear, is not easy, but i think worth it. 

 

[Keryo Koffa]

@Someone here The trick is: you have to keep it up for infinity and yet intensify it all the same (*^ ‿ ⁢*)♡

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

@Someone here The trick is: you have to keep it up for infinity and yet intensify it all the same (*^ ‿ ⁢*)♡

Hehe I have no problem keeping it up for hours on end without Viagra .I'm stallion af. Actually what that book suggests is that you should go nice &slow and be easy on your girlfriend's pusspuss. And that just doesn't work for me because I like hardcore aggressive sex.

[Keryo Koffa]

@Someone here Hmm, I myself have been trying to integrate the best of both worlds, which looks like an smooth curve of accelerating and slowing motions of thrust and enjoyment

[Javfly33]

4 hours ago, Someone here said:

Oh great brother . Just this statement tripped me up ..never mind ..or actually.. what you mean by this ?

 

That to appear a woman that can be open to do tantra sex is not easy. 

 

[BlessedLion]

Check out Alexey Welch on YouTube. His shit is fire 🔥

[BlessedLion]

Not sure I spelt it right. But he truly understand tantric sex and what it’s about and also how to please the feminine

[Jannes]

@Someone here I missed this kinds of threads. 

Seems a little extreme. Like you are on one extreme now with your strong horniness and avoiding foreplay and all that and now you want to go to tantric sex. Not sure if that's gonna work out for you like you may need some steps in between. 

Hmm when I learned about how to do foreplay right and the effect it has on girls I built quite an ego around that and the sex that I have now is always very long. Like you can be so creative in your foreplay so it's very fun if you like improvising.