Romance after pickup

[Jannes]

When I was younger and really unexperienced with women I had romantic feelings towards them very fast. As I got more experienced and confident around women I noticed a big shift in how I perceived women. I see them a lot less as an individual and romantically when I dont spend a whole lot of time with them. There is a part of me that seeks the experience of sexual abundance and another part of me which seeks deep romantic experiences. I will get a lot more experience and confidence in the near future I am sure so it's likely that this effect will become stronger and I have mixed feelings about it. 

I am not talking about something unique it's probably just a universal effect. The primal brain designing the best behavioral strategy for maximum reproduction. So many of you guys will have had this shift as well I would assume? Where does this lead to? Will romanticism cease to exist with infinite "power" so to say? I see the only way to get romance now as true romance instead of bullshit romance. When before you might get a girl you are not really into but you couldnt find a better match and are locked into this relationship you might put on some romantic fantasy and built some kind of fantasy about your love for each other because that's the best you can do and you know that and therefore you invest in it although its not true. But when you become abundant with girls no fantasy really interests you anymore. You are either made for each other or every disharmony becomes cristal clear. And that two people are made for each other is really rare so a relationship might not interest you at all anymore. So what is it like after lots of pickup experience? Will pick up become boring so your shift changes again?

[Raze]

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