what age should people be allowed to have sex?

[Asia P]

@Jannes i think that at 14 you can see the difference between an abuse and consensual sex

[Jannes]

On 18.7.2024 at 2:29 PM, Asia P said:

@Jannes i think that at 14 you can see the difference between an abuse and consensual sex

Grown up people fall for manipulation and underage will fall more easily for it. Also they won't be able to deal with difficult situations as easily as an adult. Imagine a 14 y.o. girl emotionally dependent through sex to a 28 y.o. charming manipulative narcissist. Not good. 

[eos_nyxia]

On 2024-07-15 at 6:11 PM, integral said:

The TikTok generation is having sex at 13 specially the girls.

A sensible restriction would be the age gap can’t be more than 3 to 5 years. Then after 18 Yolo

Internet culture for the younger generation is fully sex focussed there is 0 Sexual suppression.

on top of that the entire strategy of trying to restrict it makes absolutely no sense. they need maximum sex and relationship and communication education and they should be free to do whatever you want as soon as there ready.

Is that actually true? I thought that statistically speaking, Boomers and Gen X were the sluttiest demographic. They started having sex near the beginning of the invention and mass distribution of the pill, and before "(casual) sex positivity" has been slowly but surely its shine for millennials. Maybe people are still doing it, but where is the optimism about it?? The pre-AIDs era seemed absolutely wild, though I'm sure, as usual, only a fraction of people were living to their "fullest potential". I'm not under the impression that gen Z is casual sex positive (if I'm gonna make a massive generalization....)

I mean, they have the internet. It's a lot easier to avoid talking and dealing with the opposite sex, especially if it doesn't come to you naturally. If anything, mainstream attitudes toward sexuality for gen Y and Z tend to be more permissive, which isn't the same thing? It's just how you feel about it.

Honestly, what worries more than anything is the kids raised with a theoretically infinite supply of hardcore, violent porn during their very early formative years. Especially without any kind of proper sex education, both from schools and parents/ guardians. Not to fear monger, but I seriously worry for any girl under the age of 20 especially. I have heard some really terrible stories of girls losing their virginity, getting abruptly choked, slapped, dicks shoved down their throat, etc. by boys who have no concept or desire of consent or the fact that the physical aspect of bdsm cannot actually be casual nor risk-free. Because... porn teaches you absolutely nothing.

I have heard that say: in the 80s or 90s, it was not like this at all.  Legimiately, this is deranged.

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This is not the generation of the past they’re hitting each other up on Instagram the second they hit high school they’re all sleeping with each other nonstop.

Incestuous friend groups have always been a thing though. Source: people I knew in high school.

Edited July 20 by eos_nyxia